I enjoy a nice looking chest and dont mind it at all - if you have it why not show it - some look really good- it doesnt change whether or not I like them - I go for personality but who am I to say they shouldnt have a pic with their chest showing since if it looks good I enjoy the view
It does not bother me either now showing the bottoms might be saying something else its no different then when a women shows herself in a bathing suit and a man in swim trunks whats to get upset about
gemeh22: I enjoy a nice looking chest and dont mind it at all - if you have it why not show it - some look really good- it doesnt change whether or not I like them - I go for personality but who am I to say they shouldnt have a pic with their chest showing since if it looks good I enjoy the view
xxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain1,568 posts
nanners2863: Wow..the only person to defend me is another woman..wonder why I'm still single..and why some woman turn lesbian?!?!? Thanx Christmas..he sent me hate mail too..almost sent him pix of the twins..but he didn't deserve that pleasure!!
Ive had hate mail off him too... last night and more this morning... but hey if the stupid little jerk wants a fight.... bring it on..!!
(slagged me off because of my profile, said it was to rude..must be becuase he is out me age range.. )
Wow EM - what a terrific blog and question - haven't read all the responses - but I am definitely a NO. If they post their chest I tend to believe they are very egotistical and love themselves a bit too much to be interesting to me.
PS. Have I missed the photo now????? (hypocritical perhaps, but I feel I know you just a little now, so it is allowed - by my rules anyway! hee hee)
Englishman55: After a thread the other evening where the ladies wanted to see some of the guys chests just for a bit of fun, I posted some of my own to my profile.
I have had various comments in the past where some ladies find it offensive and a turn off, and others like it.
I can say that my WVM list increased quite astonishingly after the thread, but what are your thoughts on this.
I myself feel a little uncomfortable with it and have removed them.
I think I understand what you are sayin EM, after reading the thread I too became a bit uncomfortable and put up a new primary picture... maybe we were just ahead of our time lol..
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Hi and thankyou to all for voting.
It certainly makes interesting reading to see some of your comments.
I now do have a much clearer idea of whether to post such a photo, so for the 64% of ladies who do not like to see it, I have removed all such photos from my profile.
For the 19% who do like it you will just have to mail me and I will send a private one
It just comes across as egotistical to me. Also, I can't help but wondering if the person perhaps doesn't get out much!
I did it for the original thread.. and even had a request today lol.. I can assure you on my part there is no ego involved.. I am just thrilled beyond belief that my photo rating is above a 6 oh and I do get out, once in a while..
nataliemkd: I have nothing against men's chest But posting them on your profile will attract a lot of women who only care for your body and not your mind
But seriously, it might give the wrong idea
Or the right one
I would love to be desired for my body just one time
nataliemkd: I have nothing against men's chest But posting them on your profile will attract a lot of women who only care for your body and not your mind
But seriously, it might give the wrong idea
Or the right one
If the people aren't compatible, there will be no skin touching!
How are you going to find out about compatibility if you aren't attracted by what you see?
denmcintyre: I did it for the original thread.. and even had a request today lol.. I can assure you on my part there is no ego involved.. I am just thrilled beyond belief that my photo rating is above a 6 oh and I do get out, once in a while..
Sorry...didn't see the photo Just answering the poll question
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
nataliemkd: I have nothing against men's chest But posting them on your profile will attract a lot of women who only care for your body and not your mind
But seriously, it might give the wrong idea
Or the right one
Yes.... you are right.... it may only attract women who are only interested in my body and not my mind........ but then I have a mind not to accept women like that !
denmcintyre: I did it for the original thread.. and even had a request today lol.. I can assure you on my part there is no ego involved.. I am just thrilled beyond belief that my photo rating is above a 6 oh and I do get out, once in a while..
Englishman55Salisbury, Wiltshire, England UK6,405 posts
Juneau: See: your photo rating and comments
To be honest, I didn't see the ratings the photos that I posted got, and have now removed them, so will never know ! It was NOT an ego boost for me, but was fun to post what I did for the thread that CherryB started.
Fun for me and hopefully more fun for the ladies too.
Englishman55: To be honest, I didn't see the ratings the photos that I posted got, and have now removed them, so will never know ! It was NOT an ego boost for me, but was fun to post what I did for the thread that CherryB started.
Fun for me and hopefully more fun for the ladies too.
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