As all guys know, many women who aren't single can feel upset, inconvenienced, annoyed, or even offended when a guy they have no interest in has the audacity to express an interest in them.
I once asked out some girl when I was 20 and her response was: "Oh, I don't know. Can my BOYFRIEND come to?!" and then looked at me like she despised me.
I became much more weary of approaching women as a result yet they can also seem to get annoyed if they sense you are interested in them, but don't approach them. It's very confusing to me.
It's easier to be dishonest on line If you are here long enough you will realize that not everything is as it seems
I would much rather have someone who takes the chance and approaches you in real life, then on dating sites. At least in real life, I can read the nonverbal sign which tell me so much more than words on computer
On dating sites you need to select the fake from real, only by using your intuition and the limited info you have about a person. You have a lot of married people on here too pretending to be emotionally available Not to mention the scammers and strange individuals who use the internet world as their safe heaven
nataliemkd: It's easier to be dishonest on line If you are here long enough you will realize that not everything is as it seems
I would much rather have someone who takes the chance and approaches you in real life, then on dating sites. At least in real life, I can read the nonverbal sign which tell me so much more than words on computer
On dating sites you need to select the fake from real, only by using your intuition and the limited info you have about a person. You have a lot of married people on here too pretending to be emotionally available Not to mention the scammers and strange individuals who use the internet world as their safe heaven
Hell, you start doing all that sifting and I'll be the only one left on this site available to be dating
nataliemkd: It's easier to be dishonest on line If you are here long enough you will realize that not everything is as it seems
I would much rather have someone who takes the chance and approaches you in real life, then on dating sites. At least in real life, I can read the nonverbal sign which tell me so much more than words on computer
On dating sites you need to select the fake from real, only by using your intuition and the limited info you have about a person. You have a lot of married people on here too pretending to be emotionally available Not to mention the scammers and strange individuals who use the internet world as their safe heaven
Spot on No way, would I want to associate with anyone from a dating site in the real world
LykaestriaOPChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand5 posts
I decided to go for internet dating because I was too shy to approach women in real life - been rejected too much in spite of being courteous and polite. Most women aren't single in the first place, and those that are aren't necessarily remotely interested in giving you the chance to show them what kind of person you are.
Lykaestria: I decided to go for internet dating because I was too shy to approach women in real life - been rejected too much in spite of being courteous and polite. Most women aren't single in the first place, and those that are aren't necessarily remotely interested in giving you the chance to show them what kind of person you are.
Your profile looks perfectly fine to me and you seem like a nice guy
There are plenty of single women around and nice ones too, it just takes time to meet the right one
LykaestriaOPChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand5 posts
I sure hope not.
But then again I've noticed that there is 3 and a half time as many males than females here in my area, so maybe I might stand a better chance of finding someone?
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
it is true some scamming is going around,some profiles do sound very fake on the other hand people from the site do meet and there is possitive feedback. guess,truth is somewhere in between just like in real life
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At least with a dating site:(Vote Below)
I once asked out some girl when I was 20 and her response was: "Oh, I don't know. Can my BOYFRIEND come to?!" and then looked at me like she despised me.
I became much more weary of approaching women as a result yet they can also seem to get annoyed if they sense you are interested in them, but don't approach them. It's very confusing to me.