Reading the forum posts and reflecting on these let me believe that some people who have been using dating sites for awhile saying they're looking for 'love' are motivated by other reasons than what they say their motivation is. People, not just women are looking for validation, attention, compensation, affirmation; others find this site safe to talk about their sexuality, engaging in virtual affairs with many, without consequences that would follow in the real world. This site is safe, anonymous, and unreal. It's appealing in being an excellent place to escape from, most of the time, grey and ordinary life.
I come on here for social interaction..illness has me confined to the house most days..I only started to use a comp in the past few years,if i werent ill tho I would never be in at a weekend on a puter..and be rite out there with the best of them shakin ma shammy.. ..
I have spent more time here because I am off from work right now and I enjoy CS forums so much but I am not consumed by it when I go back to work I may be on here for about 3 hours or less or not until the next day now that the weather is getting warmer
My experience in these dating sites(more than 20) says that I am wasting precious time. Is there any better way to meet people who are serious about marrying? Help...please
i usually will pop on the last hour of the night before heading to bed and pop on forums and exhcange messages with people and if im home on weekends cleaning i pop on and off to give myself a break from chores lol unless im sick or something then im on here way to long
soundartistOPAnnapolis Royal, Nova Scotia Canada61 posts
dannie2010: My experience in these dating sites(more than 20) says that I am wasting precious time. Is there any better way to meet people who are serious about marrying? Help...please
First, and for most you need to have a clear picture in your mind about who is it you're looking for. As important is to stress your expectations, realistic ones, in most positive terms you can think off. And the last thing: never, ever copy the same message to different people. It's so disrespectful and it kills instead of opening a chance for communication. It's too bad I'm already married. I like you and your honesty. That could be a good start for any relationship.
dannie2010: My experience in these dating sites(more than 20) says that I am wasting precious time. Is there any better way to meet people who are serious about marrying? Help...please
Dannie, you are probably a very nice man but perhaps you are expecting something not found here. CS can not be seen as a Marriage Market, Take it easy and get to know people socially before popping the Marriage question, IMHO
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