Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right? ( Archived) (171)

May 9, 2010 2:50 PM CSTVirtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
leonardo5
leonardo5leonardo5Central region, Santa Fe, Argentina33 Threads 8 Polls 284 Posts

Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?(Vote Below)

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She, because her privacy must be respected
11
15%
Me, because anything is acceptable to get the true
18
24%
None of us
46
61%
Total Votes
75
I’ve seen my wife’s mail box and I was shocked to see some love letters there, that she exchanged with an Italian virtual friend.
I then was mad with her. But she told me it was my fault and she was mad with me, as I have been watching her personal box without her permission.
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May 9, 2010 2:52 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
davpk10
davpk10davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Posts
leonardo5: I’ve seen my wife’s mail box and I was shocked to see some love letters there, that she exchanged with an Italian virtual friend.
I then was mad with her. But she told me it was my fault and she was mad with me, as I have been watching her personal box without her permission.
your both wrong so get over it...
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May 9, 2010 2:53 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
davpk10: your both wrong so get over it...


Agreethumbs up
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May 9, 2010 2:53 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
Veiwing others mailbox is a scold scold

Why are u here? i assume u seeking friends like lil ole wifie???
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May 9, 2010 2:53 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
Veiwing others mailbox is a scold scold

Why are u here? i assume u seeking friends like lil ole wifie???
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May 9, 2010 3:06 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
leonardo5
leonardo5leonardo5Central region, Santa Fe Argentina33 Threads 8 Polls 284 Posts
Nuliiiiiii:
Why are u here? i assume u seeking friends like lil ole wifie???

If you watch my profile you will find the answer
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May 9, 2010 3:52 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Wow! what a double standard!! reading someones mail is an invasion of privacy and controlling. And here you are talking about your wife in a SINGLES forum.

In fact, I seem to remember recieving mail from you sir. I wonder how wifey would feel if she read that??

In the end I think you are both wrong. You are both doing the same thing. Id say you deserve each other, Or perhaps karma.
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May 9, 2010 3:55 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
leonardo5: I’ve seen my wife’s mail box and I was shocked to see some love letters there, that she exchanged with an Italian virtual friend.
I then was mad with her. But she told me it was my fault and she was mad with me, as I have been watching her personal box without her permission.

Your wife is making a fool outta you... and you ask if you did something wrong????

Dem.... Im glad to be a Balkan guy
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May 9, 2010 4:01 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
leonardo5: If you watch my profile you will find the answer
Yes i READ your profile and u seeking >>>>>>
someone interesting to talk and listen to, someone U are attracted to for no reason. So lil ole wifie has someone who listen's to her maybe ??? so whats the dif between her having friends who maybe LISTEN to her ??

Still dont take away from the fact YOU were wrong to be reading her PRIVATE mails
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May 9, 2010 4:03 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
JAN_is
JAN_isJAN_isMurcia city centre, Murcia Spain109 Threads 3,849 Posts
leonardo5: I’ve seen my wife’s mail box and I was shocked to see some love letters there, that she exchanged with an Italian virtual friend.
I then was mad with her. But she told me it was my fault and she was mad with me, as I have been watching her personal box without her permission.


Aside from the fact that you read your wife´s private mail scold perhaps you both ought to sit down and talk about why each of you really feel the need to be on a dating site.

There doesn´t seem to be much trust in the relationship as far as I can see.
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May 9, 2010 4:04 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
JAN_is: Aside from the fact that you read your wife´s private mail perhaps you both ought to sit down and talk about why each of you really feel the need to be on a dating site.

There doesn´t seem to be much trust in the relationship as far as I can see.
thumbs up
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May 9, 2010 4:07 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
venusenvy: Wow! what a double standard!! reading someones mail is an invasion of privacy and controlling. And here you are talking about your wife in a SINGLES forum.

In fact, I seem to remember recieving mail from you sir. I wonder how wifey would feel if she read that??

In the end I think you are both wrong. You are both doing the same thing. Id say you deserve each other, Or perhaps karma.
thumbs up thumbs up
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May 9, 2010 4:09 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton,hickory, North Carolina USA120 Threads 17 Polls 5,654 Posts
Happy mothers day NUliiiibouquet Hi venus,same to you,not sure if you are a motherbouquet wine
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May 9, 2010 4:13 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
demonfairy: Happy mothers day NUliiii Hi venus,same to you,not sure if you are a mother


Im a Mutha alright...same to you D. lips hug bouquet
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May 9, 2010 4:15 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
demonfairy: Happy mothers day NUliiii Hi venus,same to you,not sure if you are a mother
Thank u Fairy and happy Mothering Sunday to u also bouquet bouquet

Its in March in Ireland and UK but grin
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May 9, 2010 4:37 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I noticed dude hasnt shown up to defend his philandering Huh boxing
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May 9, 2010 4:40 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
MY ex girlfriend thought I was nosey... She never told me. I read it in her diary!!!












laugh laugh
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May 9, 2010 4:43 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
illu_66: MY ex girlfriend thought I was nosey... She never told me. I read it in her diary!!!
wow wow U also??scold scold tongue
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May 9, 2010 4:44 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
illu_66
illu_66illu_66Here, Andalusia Spain31 Threads 3 Polls 2,368 Posts
Nuliiiiiii: U also??
tongue Joooooke tongue
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May 9, 2010 4:47 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
illu_66: MY ex girlfriend thought I was nosey... She never told me. I read it in her diary!!!


Naughty...naughty scold grin
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May 9, 2010 5:00 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
As far as messaging others it looks like you're both doing the same thing.

You peeked at your wife's personal e-mail, that was not right but believe me most couples would do the same when in serious doubt.

She was angry because you peeked; so would I and she had every right to be.

Now both of you should sit down and have a serious talk.

Also make sure you both have safe passwords if you want to play games behind each other’s back and keep your messages confidential.
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May 9, 2010 5:03 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
bob1959: Glad you changed your pic nulli. I spent all my time trying to look down your shirt in the other one.
Ohhhhhhhhh aint u the lil divil tongue

U changed pic also Bobby , Nice grin wave
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May 9, 2010 5:07 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
GingerBe
GingerBeGingerBeDonegal, Ireland2 Threads 3,106 Posts
No honesty, transparancy, or accountability in your relationship, and as a result, no trust.

I don't agree with keeping things hidden from partners. If you can't be open in all things, then you have no meaningful relationhip. I believe in no locked doors and no secrets.wine
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May 9, 2010 5:13 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Sounds like ya'll need to have a Pina Colada intervention
laugh laugh

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May 9, 2010 5:39 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
bob1959
bob1959bob1959otisfield, Maine USA54 Threads 3 Polls 1,874 Posts
Nuliiiiiii: Ohhhhhhhhh aint u the lil divil

U changed pic also Bobby , Nice
I figured if anybody wanted to marry me, they ought to get a look at want comes home after work.dunno
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May 9, 2010 5:43 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
bob1959: I figured if anybody wanted to marry me, they ought to get a look at want comes home after work.


Can we see what we'd wake up to?
laugh laugh laugh
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May 9, 2010 5:43 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Oh wait! On second thought...
wow
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May 9, 2010 5:45 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
WhatUwish4: Oh wait! On second thought...
wink grin
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May 9, 2010 5:46 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
Neenaw
NeenawNeenawcork, Cork Ireland51 Threads 3 Polls 3,888 Posts
excuse me for interrupting your forums, but just having the weekly streak through, there may be another along shortly....

hello all....
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May 9, 2010 5:46 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
Yeah. Sometimes I type faster than I think.
doh
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May 9, 2010 5:46 PM CST Virtual infidelity: who do you think is right?
heidi2765
heidi2765heidi2765GLASGOW, Central, Scotland UK5 Threads 737 Posts
Nuliiiiiii: Veiwing others mailbox is a

Why are u here? i assume u seeking friends like lil ole wifie???




Looked at your profile as you requested.......this is a dating site???doh
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