Age is a factor to me. Dating guys younger than 40 doesn't work for me. Many are immature and want children.....so why bother getting emotionally involved only to break up??!! I rather find a good guy 40 plus that doesn't want children and have a LTR/ marriage that will last
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
BarbarafromTx: Age is a factor to me. Dating guys younger than 40 doesn't work for me. Many are immature and want children.....so why bother getting emotionally involved only to break up??!! I rather find a good guy 40 plus that doesn't want children and have a LTR/ marriage that will last
I am not sure if I got correctly the asking . But :For example - I am 45 and if he is more than 65 or younger . Or daughter-father / mother-son's years of difference is not quite.....
Well i would just say u lucky, coz as far my exp is concern age does matter, coz i been trying actuly when i sent mgs to a women who is older than me, she read my msgs visit my profile and dont reply back, i m looking mature women what problem if i m younger , my heart doenst accept a immature girl, i dont know y , but i like to b with mature, but no one understand..
zaheerdin1: Well i would just say u lucky, coz as far my exp is concern age does matter, coz i been trying actuly when i sent mgs to a women who is older than me, she read my msgs visit my profile and dont reply back, i m looking mature women what problem if i m younger , my heart doenst accept a immature girl, i dont know y , but i like to b with mature, but no one understand..
Sebastino: lol, u should have tried a younger man, may be that would work out well uhhh
Sebastino..... Just so that there is no confusion or mis-understanding, the post above your response is not my post.... it was meant to be in quotes and relates to Bella's posting.... lol
Sebastino: I would say age is never a barrier if you ask me, but many people use it as a criteria to decide who they want to be with instead of who they person is and the love they both have for each other.
Sebastino: I would say age is never a barrier if you ask me, but many people use it as a criteria to decide who they want to be with instead of who they person is and the love they both have for each other.
Hell yeah it matters when it concerns a romantic relationship, but not a friendship. I will say the emotional/mental connection can exist between to lovers who are even more than a generation apart, but there are some physical features that just bother me that I just can't ignore. (I've tried dating much older women).
StressFree: Hell yeah it matters when it concerns a romantic relationship, but not a friendship. I will say the emotional/mental connection can exist between to lovers who are even more than a generation apart, but there are some physical features that just bother me that I just can't ignore. (I've tried dating much older women).
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
maryrachelle: Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol
maryrachelle: Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
At 65 years old I do not in any way wish to have a 25 year old guy, and I would imagine even less so if I were 75 years old...
This will probably sound harsh and I will probably get a bashing with responses.... But can't help wondering when I see/hear of 75 year old men hooking up with 25 year old women that maybe those guys are really making sure that they've got someone to nurse them through the fast approaching geriatric years....
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Sebastino: it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol
In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.
Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
Sebastino: it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol
In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.
Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.
DecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong189 posts
"In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else."
>> I have a slightly different opinion. When I was X yrs way back, I was fascinated about mature men. It wasn't about $$$$, but more about legend, superstitution & goofy kind of infatuation.
The "Gone with the Wind" kind of romance & "Sixteen Going on Seventeen" kind of tone chanted in the stupid young mind...though the real world may work the other way round...
Just as a man is "older", doesn't mean he must be "wiser". Probably he doesn't take care of you & you take care of him instead. Ultimately, you don't know who's the more naive one.
In my opinion, the problem of age has more to do with the physical rather than age mentality.
maryrachelle: In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.
Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.
Absolutely right!! .... that's why I won't settle for anyone under 95+, on oxygen with mega $$$ I already have the 26 year old shapely Blond lined up.
DecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong189 posts
(continue with my last post...)
Regardless of the real world, I think it's always nice to replay this song which brings back memories (even follies) of a young heart -
"You are sixteen going on seventeen, baby it's time to think Better beware, be canny and careful, baby you're on the brink You are sixteen going on seventeen, fellows will fall in line Eager young lads, and roues and cads Will offer you food and wine Totally unprepared are you, to face a world of men Timid and shy and scared are you, of things beyond your ken You need someone older and wiser, telling you what to do I am seventeen going on eighteen, I'll take care of you
Liesl: I am sixteen going on seventeen, I know that I'm naive Fellows I meet may tell me I'm sweet, and willingly I believe I am sixteen going on seventeen, innocent as a rose Bachelor dandies, drinkers of brandies, what do I know of those Totally unprepared am I, to face a world of men Timid and shy and scared am I, of things beyond my ken I need someone older and wiser, telling me what to do You are seventeen going on eighteen, I'll depend on you"
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