DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP? (182)

Aug 11, 2010 7:45 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BarbarafromTx
BarbarafromTxBarbarafromTxSan Antonio, Texas USA3 Threads 153 Posts
Age is a factor to me. Dating guys younger than 40 doesn't work for me. Many are immature and want children.....so why bother getting emotionally involved only to break up??!! I rather find a good guy 40 plus that doesn't want children and have a LTR/ marriage that will last cheering
Aug 11, 2010 7:51 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
BarbarafromTx: Age is a factor to me. Dating guys younger than 40 doesn't work for me. Many are immature and want children.....so why bother getting emotionally involved only to break up??!! I rather find a good guy 40 plus that doesn't want children and have a LTR/ marriage that will last
look no further ....love love love your fairy godfatherwink wink
Aug 11, 2010 8:00 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BarbarafromTx
BarbarafromTxBarbarafromTxSan Antonio, Texas USA3 Threads 153 Posts
trueheart1941: look no further .... your fairy godfather



Awww thanks babe! banana Never had a fairy godfather before yay I am a godmother myself cheering
Aug 11, 2010 8:11 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
BarbarafromTx: Awww thanks babe! Never had a fairy godfather before I am a godmother myself
na. your to young innocent innocent
Aug 11, 2010 11:14 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
trueheart1941: na. your to young

it doesn't matter. look not the age but the personality bro
Aug 11, 2010 11:20 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
justme165
justme165justme165London, Greater London, England UK49 Threads 1 Polls 260 Posts
No it doesn't matter its about how you bond


Sebastino: it doesn't matter. look not the age but the personality bro
Aug 11, 2010 11:31 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
vessy
vessyvessySofia, Sofia City Bulgaria1 Threads 7 Posts
I am not sure if I got correctly the asking . But :For example - I am 45 and if he is more than 65 or younger . Or daughter-father / mother-son's years of difference is not quite.....
Aug 11, 2010 4:51 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
zaheerdin1
zaheerdin1zaheerdin1hawally, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 1 Polls 70 Posts
luv4ann: I meant 11 years younger. :p


Well i would just say u lucky, coz as far my exp is concern age does matter, coz i been trying actuly when i sent mgs to a women who is older than me, she read my msgs visit my profile and dont reply back, i m looking mature women what problem if i m younger , my heart doenst accept a immature girl, i dont know y , but i like to b with mature, but no one understand..



doh
Aug 11, 2010 6:04 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
zaheerdin1: Well i would just say u lucky, coz as far my exp is concern age does matter, coz i been trying actuly when i sent mgs to a women who is older than me, she read my msgs visit my profile and dont reply back, i m looking mature women what problem if i m younger , my heart doenst accept a immature girl, i dont know y , but i like to b with mature, but no one understand..

keep trying bro
Aug 11, 2010 6:18 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
Ooops... forgot the quote button.... the above post was meant for Bellatherebel48


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Aug 11, 2010 7:12 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
Sebastino: lol, u should have tried a younger man, may be that would work out well uhhh







Sebastino.....
Just so that there is no confusion or mis-understanding, the post above your response is not my post.... it was meant to be in quotes and relates to Bella's posting.... lol doh
Aug 11, 2010 7:30 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
erfpistols
erfpistolserfpistolscork, Cork Ireland2 Threads 127 Posts
Sebastino: I would say age is never a barrier if you ask me, but many people use it as a criteria to decide who they want to be with instead of who they person is and the love they both have for each other.


Older the fiddle...sweeter the tune...cool
Aug 11, 2010 7:36 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
erfpistols: Older the fiddle...sweeter the tune...




..... or....

like a good wine it gets better with age.... wine laugh
Aug 11, 2010 7:39 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
most times, the man should be younger while the woman older to get the maximum satisfaction....says sebastino
Aug 11, 2010 7:42 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
erfpistols
erfpistolserfpistolscork, Cork Ireland2 Threads 127 Posts
Sebastino: most times, the man should be younger while the woman older to get the maximum satisfaction....says sebastino


i agree handshake
Aug 11, 2010 7:45 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Sebastino: I would say age is never a barrier if you ask me, but many people use it as a criteria to decide who they want to be with instead of who they person is and the love they both have for each other.


Hell yeah it matters when it concerns a romantic relationship, but not a friendship. I will say the emotional/mental connection can exist between to lovers who are even more than a generation apart, but there are some physical features that just bother me that I just can't ignore. (I've tried dating much older women).
Aug 11, 2010 7:49 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
StressFree: Hell yeah it matters when it concerns a romantic relationship, but not a friendship. I will say the emotional/mental connection can exist between to lovers who are even more than a generation apart, but there are some physical features that just bother me that I just can't ignore. (I've tried dating much older women).




Such as.....
Aug 11, 2010 8:05 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Nice get out Stress .... thumbs up laugh

but didn't you mean .... wobbly bits and wrinkled dry skin ?
Aug 11, 2010 8:11 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
Aug 11, 2010 8:11 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.
Aug 11, 2010 8:22 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
maryrachelle: Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.

it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol
Aug 11, 2010 8:35 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BootyliciousGal
BootyliciousGalBootyliciousGalAyia Napa, Famagusta Cyprus60 Threads 1,534 Posts
maryrachelle: Of course age matters.How many 25 year old men do you see walking hand and hand with a 78 year old woman?Personally I would not date someone any more then a couple years younger then me.Three years at the absolute most.I would also not date someone more then 55.




At 65 years old I do not in any way wish to have a 25 year old guy, and I would imagine even less so if I were 75 years old...

This will probably sound harsh and I will probably get a bashing with responses....
But can't help wondering when I see/hear of 75 year old men hooking up with 25 year old women that maybe those guys are really making sure that they've got someone to nurse them through the fast approaching geriatric years....dunno super
Aug 11, 2010 8:40 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Oh, what would Hugh Hefner say about this? rolling on the floor laughing
Aug 12, 2010 10:54 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
BarbarafromTx
BarbarafromTxBarbarafromTxSan Antonio, Texas USA3 Threads 153 Posts
Nah....I have 2 goddaughters :) Never to young to be a godmother :)
Aug 13, 2010 3:59 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Sebastino
SebastinoSebastinoRegina, Saskatchewan Canada24 Threads 23 Polls 261 Posts
BarbarafromTx: Nah....I have 2 goddaughters :) Never to young to be a godmother :)

of cause not, in fact you are going to be the godmother of the mother of my kids....lol. how about that?
Aug 14, 2010 10:55 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Sebastino: it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol



In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.

Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.
Aug 14, 2010 10:55 AM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
maryrachelle
maryrachellemaryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada27 Threads 1,370 Posts
Sebastino: it doesn't mean a 25 and a 75 but i have seen time without number a 25-45 and a 35-55 or even 60. it still have to do with a younger man and a older woman as i said before. i don't care lol



In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.

Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.
Aug 14, 2010 12:54 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
DecentHKLady
DecentHKLadyDecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong4 Threads 189 Posts
"In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else."

>> I have a slightly different opinion. When I was X yrs way back, I was fascinated about mature men. It wasn't about $$$$, but more about legend, superstitution & goofy kind of infatuation.

The "Gone with the Wind" kind of romance &
"Sixteen Going on Seventeen" kind of tone chanted in the stupid young mind...though the real world may work the other way round...

Just as a man is "older", doesn't mean he must be "wiser". Probably he doesn't take care of you & you take care of him instead. Ultimately, you don't know who's the more naive one. dunno

In my opinion, the problem of age has more to do with the physical rather than age mentality.
Aug 14, 2010 1:04 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
maryrachelle: In the cases where you see a very old person with a very young person it is always that the man is the old one and the woman is the old one.In that case feelings and attraction does not come into play at all because those relationships are all about money and nothing else.The young woman may be putting on a good show,but it is a show make no mistake about that.

Age matters whether people and their politically correct canned answers will admit it or not.



Absolutely right!! .... that's why I won't settle for anyone under 95+, on oxygen with mega $$$laugh I already have the 26 year old shapely Blond lined up.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yay
Aug 14, 2010 1:05 PM CST DOES AGE MATTER IN A RELATIONSHIP?
DecentHKLady
DecentHKLadyDecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong4 Threads 189 Posts
(continue with my last post...)

Regardless of the real world, I think it's always nice to replay this song which brings back memories (even follies) of a young heart -

"You are sixteen going on seventeen, baby it's time to think
Better beware, be canny and careful, baby you're on the brink
You are sixteen going on seventeen, fellows will fall in line
Eager young lads, and roues and cads
Will offer you food and wine
Totally unprepared are you, to face a world of men
Timid and shy and scared are you, of things beyond your ken
You need someone older and wiser, telling you what to do
I am seventeen going on eighteen, I'll take care of you

Liesl: I am sixteen going on seventeen, I know that I'm naive
Fellows I meet may tell me I'm sweet, and willingly I believe
I am sixteen going on seventeen, innocent as a rose
Bachelor dandies, drinkers of brandies, what do I know of those
Totally unprepared am I, to face a world of men
Timid and shy and scared am I, of things beyond my ken
I need someone older and wiser, telling me what to do
You are seventeen going on eighteen, I'll depend on you"
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