My mate is in a bit of a dilema, He was dating a girl from summer of 2007 to end of 2009 and it ended because he caught her cheating on him, She has 2 young children from a previous relationship, He loved the children and when they broke up it hurt him even more, anyway when they spit within 3 weeks she started dating some other guy, few months later she finds out she is pregnant to the new guy, they stay together and she has the child, just last week he gets a phone call from herself wanting him to come around to her house to chat, He doesnt go around but asks why she is contacting him after all this time, she says she split with her BF the father of her few months old child and that she would like to get back together with him, Do you think he should? I personally think he is crazy to have anything more to do with her especially with her after giving birth a few months back to anew born child which isnt even his mind, He still loves her and talks about her alot but he realises that she is no good and would only drag him down to her level or so he says, He is tormenting himself poor chap
skyblue43: And at what point on the road to Damascus did your opinion change?
There wasn't a point exactly, not that I can pinpoint anyway. I was expecting when we split and was an emotional wreck. Twas probably after the pregnancy hormones wore off and I was thinking straight!!
70Libra: There wasn't a point exactly, not that I can pinpoint anyway. I was expecting when we split and was an emotional wreck. Twas probably after the pregnancy hormones wore off and I was thinking straight!!
Wow you had a lot on your plate then!! That cannot have been easy. Hormones have a lot to answer for.
70Libra: The name has been changed to protect the innocent
oooooooooooooooooh there must be a tale to tell and you will tell me im innocent and its not givin me any protection from the wild women on here i need protection quick
BentLid: My mate is in a bit of a dilema, He was dating a girl from summer of 2007 to end of 2009 and it ended because he caught her cheating on him, She has 2 young children from a previous relationship, He loved the children and when they broke up it hurt him even more, anyway when they spit within 3 weeks she started dating some other guy, few months later she finds out she is pregnant to the new guy, they stay together and she has the child, just last week he gets a phone call from herself wanting him to come around to her house to chat, He doesnt go around but asks why she is contacting him after all this time, she says she split with her BF the father of her few months old child and that she would like to get back together with him, Do you think he should? I personally think he is crazy to have anything more to do with her especially with her after giving birth a few months back to anew born child which isnt even his mind, He still loves her and talks about her alot but he realises that she is no good and would only drag him down to her level or so he says, He is tormenting himself poor chap
Hard to say from here but my instinct is no, stay well away.
Jesus no way!!!Once a cheat always a cheat would rather be alone for the rest of my days than be with someone that im always wondering will they do it again
IT'S BETTER TO HAVE LOVED & LOST THAN TO LIVE WITH THE PSYCHO THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!!!
BentLid: My mate is in a bit of a dilema, He was dating a girl from summer of 2007 to end of 2009 and it ended because he caught her cheating on him, She has 2 young children from a previous relationship, He loved the children and when they broke up it hurt him even more, anyway when they spit within 3 weeks she started dating some other guy, few months later she finds out she is pregnant to the new guy, they stay together and she has the child, just last week he gets a phone call from herself wanting him to come around to her house to chat, He doesnt go around but asks why she is contacting him after all this time, she says she split with her BF the father of her few months old child and that she would like to get back together with him, Do you think he should? I personally think he is crazy to have anything more to do with her especially with her after giving birth a few months back to anew born child which isnt even his mind, He still loves her and talks about her alot but he realises that she is no good and would only drag him down to her level or so he says, He is tormenting himself poor chap
He'd be mad even to think of getting back with her.
skyblue43: You come across as being a little unsure
Ummm well let me be very clear then never never never never never never never never never never never never never never. Im never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
BentLid: My mate is in a bit of a dilema, He was dating a girl from summer of 2007 to end of 2009 and it ended because he caught her cheating on him, She has 2 young children from a previous relationship, He loved the children and when they broke up it hurt him even more, anyway when they spit within 3 weeks she started dating some other guy, few months later she finds out she is pregnant to the new guy, they stay together and she has the child, just last week he gets a phone call from herself wanting him to come around to her house to chat, He doesnt go around but asks why she is contacting him after all this time, she says she split with her BF the father of her few months old child and that she would like to get back together with him, Do you think he should? I personally think he is crazy to have anything more to do with her especially with her after giving birth a few months back to anew born child which isnt even his mind, He still loves her and talks about her alot but he realises that she is no good and would only drag him down to her level or so he says, He is tormenting himself poor chap
awahhhh of course he should hope he wakes up some day to realise he may be making a big mistake please tell him from me he's making a terrible mistake not to give her another chance....
wittyone: Ummm well let me be very clear then never never never never never never never never never never never never never never. Im never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
Im i clear yet lol
Thats is giving me a clearer picture alright... LOL
wittyone: Ummm well let me be very clear then never never never never never never never never never never never never never never. Im never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never never
Im i clear yet lol
You sound a little unsure i was always told never say never until your really sure
tstom43: You sound a little unsure i was always told never say never until your really sure
to be sure to be sure i am sure of one thing that is never never never would i go back with my ex, no ifs or buts or doubts i am as sure as i will ever be about being sure. sure what can i say except i am sure. 20yrs was long enough thank you, so i can say for sure NEVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.
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Would you get back with your ex?(Vote Below)
Do you think he should?
I personally think he is crazy to have anything more to do with her especially with her after giving birth a few months back to anew born child which isnt even his mind, He still loves her and talks about her alot but he realises that she is no good and would only drag him down to her level or so he says, He is tormenting himself poor chap