Do you want kids? (108)
rosiilongford, Longford Ireland149 Postsinprint: My profile here say I want kids some day and it clearly say I want to meet a guy who wants kids. However, I only using this site for the forum now. On the paid site I joined I clearly say I want kids and want to meet guy who want kids. Obviously a lot of guys don't take much notice of what profiles say!
yep definately wants kids.. 1000% .. i'd love kids..
with the rite person and the full package ..
with the rite person and the full package ..
Ok I want to pose a question, it was a discussion I was having with a friend. Imagine this scenario you meet someone fall in love both want kids - get married and after a few years trying discover that its not gonna happen - that your partner is infertile, what do you do then do you move on to some one that can provide you with kids. Is your desire for kids more than your love for your partner?? Or how would you feel if it was you that was infertile and your partner / spouse left you because you couldnt give them the family they wanted ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
ladylumps: Ok I want to pose a question, it was a discussion I was having with a friend. Imagine this scenario you meet someone fall in love both want kids - get married and after a few years trying discover that its not gonna happen - that your partner is infertile, what do you do then do you move on to some one that can provide you with kids. Is your desire for kids more than your love for your partner?? Or how would you feel if it was you that was infertile and your partner / spouse left you because you couldnt give them the family they wanted ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
It wouldn't ruin a relationship for me. I would prefer someone looking to 'start' as it were. Not a 'deal-breaker' by any means though. 
ladylumps: Ok I want to pose a question, it was a discussion I was having with a friend. Imagine this scenario you meet someone fall in love both want kids - get married and after a few years trying discover that its not gonna happen - that your partner is infertile, what do you do then do you move on to some one that can provide you with kids. Is your desire for kids more than your love for your partner?? Or how would you feel if it was you that was infertile and your partner / spouse left you because you couldnt give them the family they wanted ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
I would want to adopt.
There is a big difference between staying in a serious relationship with someone you love when you later find out you/he can't have kids and starting a relationship that may or not become serious with someone who doesn't want kids.
Tombeee: No option there for people who cant.
Adoption.
Yeah that would defo be a option for me in years to come.
ladylumps: Ok I want to pose a question, it was a discussion I was having with a friend. Imagine this scenario you meet someone fall in love both want kids - get married and after a few years trying discover that its not gonna happen - that your partner is infertile, what do you do then do you move on to some one that can provide you with kids. Is your desire for kids more than your love for your partner?? Or how would you feel if it was you that was infertile and your partner / spouse left you because you couldnt give them the family they wanted ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Unfortunately its a stresser for some couples and has led to break ups but i don't think it should be a be all or end all situation. You fall in love for a reason, in sickness and in health, richer or poorer....having children i would class as being rich in life....money is secondary.......
ladylumps: Ok I want to pose a question, it was a discussion I was having with a friend. Imagine this scenario you meet someone fall in love both want kids - get married and after a few years trying discover that its not gonna happen - that your partner is infertile, what do you do then do you move on to some one that can provide you with kids. Is your desire for kids more than your love for your partner?? Or how would you feel if it was you that was infertile and your partner / spouse left you because you couldnt give them the family they wanted ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
Also if you cant have children at what point in a relationship do you bring it up ????
Its something that you only discover once you start trying ??????
No I think if both are on the same level playing pitch to begin with and both wants kids that is great..
equally there a people who dont want kids.. and if they agree on that thats fine...
personally I'd love kids.. but in rite relationship etc.. ah I'm a romantic
if it does not happen for one reason or another that different .. one would hope love conquers all .. I do anyhow .. soppie hey :)
tough to know how everyone would handle suituations given...
but I do think its good to have an idea.. if you both want the same things outa life IMO..
Having kids is a deal breaker..sry.. I have a strong mothering instinct that wont be denied..haha.. When I was younger I absolutely didn't want kids but after I grew up, saw more of the world and met the kids my friends had..I realized how much I wanted one and how good I was at it. I was ositively terrified to touch one but when I had to...my heart just melted.. "OMG, this just feels so right."
yes, but must complete masters first....
Neenaw: yes, but must complete masters first....
That's an awful lot of pressure on a child!
delamer: That's an awful lot of pressure on a child!
bite my ......
Neenaw: bite my ......
He wants to badly Neenaw: bite my ......
Don't tempt me!
rita101: He wants to badly
Rawr!
rita101: He wants to badly
i need a biting myself girlie....
Neenaw: i need a biting myself girlie....
Imagine me doing this -
...somewhere special! Haha!
delamer: Imagine me doing this - ...somewhere special!
Haha!
Haha!
dirty
Neenaw: dirty
You know you'd like it...
delamer: You know you'd like it...
Now now children get a room ffs rita101: Now now children get a room ffs
I'll have to see what I can do... 
Of course we do would not our forefathers and Mothers be here if we had not done so.
lostinspace: Of course we do would not our forefathers and Mothers be here if we had not done so.
Very 'Zen'.
...on the other hand... RAWR!
delamer: Very 'Zen'.
...on the other hand... RAWR!
Your in good form tonight R what or who has you that way...on the other hand... RAWR!
rita101: Your in good form tonight R what or who has you that way
I'm always 'That' way... Should know me by now!
How r u?
delamer: I'm always 'That' way... Should know me by now!
How r u?
Your usually quiet and reserved lol. Im good cant complain!How r u?
rita101: Your usually quiet and reserved lol. Im good cant complain!
Yeah, Me and Silent are absolute angels!!!
delamer: Yeah, Me and Silent are absolute angels!!!
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