Do you want kids? (108)
delamerWexford, Ireland114 Threads 10 Polls 4,135 Postsrita101: Ya thats what I thought anyhow I think we might be done for thread hijacking in a min
Bit quiet tonight alright...
No...I think I wouldn't mind if a guy I dated had them...but honestly I have never been around kids much...I think I would forget to feed them or pick them up from school or something like that. lol
inprint: Hi, I have noticed that a lot of guys answer 'not sure' to the 'do you want kids' question on there profile. I definately want kids someday (provided I meet the right guy) so don't reply to these guys. This really narrows down my options!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
Do I want them? I already have a 5 year old daughter from a previous relationship, although if I found the right woman to settle down with i would like to start a family
inprint: Hi, I have noticed that a lot of guys answer 'not sure' to the 'do you want kids' question on there profile. I definately want kids someday (provided I meet the right guy) so don't reply to these guys. This really narrows down my options!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I have "not sure" on my profile, seeing as there's a missing component in my life, as in, a lady. I can't "do it" alone.
Might happen some day, maybe not, so...."not sure".
inprint: Hi, I have noticed that a lot of guys answer 'not sure' to the 'do you want kids' question on there profile. I definately want kids someday (provided I meet the right guy) so don't reply to these guys. This really narrows down my options!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I agree with JP here. I think most guys are just being coy there, presumably because they think if they shout from the rooftops how much they want kids it might scare prospective partners off.
inprint: Hi, I have noticed that a lot of guys answer 'not sure' to the 'do you want kids' question on there profile. I definately want kids someday (provided I meet the right guy) so don't reply to these guys. This really narrows down my options!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
I thought a poll might be a good idea. Surely two thirds or more of guy can't all be 'not sure'!!!
well was one of those guys who answered not sure ,reason being at neary 40 now there not many women in my age range who would want them my current partner is certinly not interested in more kids
not somthing that bothers me either way
tallaght_guy: well was one of those guys who answered not sure ,reason being at neary 40 now there not many women in my age range who would want them my current partner is certinly not interested in more kids
not somthing that bothers me either way
not somthing that bothers me either way
What? Surely votes are anonymous! Maybe I'm wrong! It was a general question. I wasn't trying to find out who lied on their profile and who didn't.
I'm not particularly interested in meeting 40+ men. I get on better and have more in common with guys closer to me own age.
inprint: What? Surely votes are anonymous! Maybe I'm wrong! It was a general question. I wasn't trying to find out who lied on their profile and who didn't.
I'm not particularly interested in meeting 40+ men. I get on better and have more in common with guys closer to me own age.
I'm not particularly interested in meeting 40+ men. I get on better and have more in common with guys closer to me own age.
I think you are 100% right in saying lads should put a simple yes or no on the profile. And the same for the ladies. I just dont believe that once someone reaches 30 that they dont know whether they want them or not.
inprint: What? Surely votes are anonymous! Maybe I'm wrong! It was a general question. I wasn't trying to find out who lied on their profile and who didn't.
I'm not particularly interested in meeting 40+ men. I get on better and have more in common with guys closer to me own age.
I'm not particularly interested in meeting 40+ men. I get on better and have more in common with guys closer to me own age.
just giving 1 reason why some guys say that
GalwayGuy35: I think you are 100% right in saying lads should put a simple yes or no on the profile. And the same for the ladies. I just dont believe that once someone reaches 30 that they dont know whether they want them or not.
I also answered not sure because I couldnt say for def if I would or wouldnt have anymore
L1977C: I also answered not sure because I couldnt say for def if I would or wouldnt have anymore
Well yeah i can understand that but i meant people who dont have any kids yet.
GalwayGuy35: Well yeah i can understand that but i meant people who dont have any kids yet.
well maybe they really are not sure...Honestly I dont think anyone is 100% about kids..I never sat down and said Im def having kids I know a few people who have said from a young age they wanted kids and unfortunately they ended up in a relationship where either they or their partner couldnt have any.. its not the end of the world and they have great lives JMO
hmmmmm maybe if you reread your origional post
inprint: Give one reason why guys say what? I'm a little confused by you post!!!
yeah im saying age
when i was younger i assumed i would have had kids but but by 35 and no serious relationship i viewed that as less likely as time went on best i could hope for was step kids
basicaly what im saying if i had met someone here and they wanted kids yeah i would be up for it but at moment got teens from my current gf who i get on very well with they certinly dont view me as a father but i view them as kids i never had
when i was younger i assumed i would have had kids but but by 35 and no serious relationship i viewed that as less likely as time went on best i could hope for was step kids
basicaly what im saying if i had met someone here and they wanted kids yeah i would be up for it but at moment got teens from my current gf who i get on very well with they certinly dont view me as a father but i view them as kids i never had
I think it's a weird question to have on a dating site. Like if I wanted kids I'd say ya or someday but with you?? I don't know. Who are you? can we go out for year or two before I make up my mind? (Not directed at the OP) Too much info before dating I think. JMO. It's very final to me for some reason.
If the option wasn't there and I was asked the question anyway, alarm bells would start ringing in my head to get out of there.
If the option wasn't there and I was asked the question anyway, alarm bells would start ringing in my head to get out of there.
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