Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!
My answer exactly. A healthy dose of jealousy is always welcome. Too much of it kills the relationship...
AmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK6,217 posts
No
Jealousy stems from the individual lacking confidence in their relationship and self. It will always end it tears. I do believe it is possible to love someone and feel jealousy.....but its how you deal with it that matters.
If someone feels uncertain or in fear of losing someone then it only shows that the relationship is not stable to begin with.
Jealous people scare me, bore me, make me angry, because I've never given any reason for jealousy.
It's like having to fight a losing battle, for it is impossible to prove one's innocence to someone who is blinded by this distractive force that they green-eyed monster is...
In response to: if jealousy creeps in........theres a reason behind it.........if my partner causes me to feel jealous.....i will dump him in a flashi couldnt be arsed with the drama.....simple
I agree, that usually if in a normal relationship something is causing a jealousy then it's a serious issue. One of them definitely an insecure freak...:)Remember always an insecure personality is high on drama and play hard to get games:)
It's better to get out fast out since things can get worst...doesn't matter how OPTIMISTIC..one may be!
I also would not like to be arsed with the drama:)
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No jealousy = no love = absolute rubbish.