ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP? (75)

Oct 19, 2010 6:31 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
lookup64
lookup64lookup64Twin Cities, Minnesota USA4 Threads 1 Polls 196 Posts
Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!


depends. i'm with my woman and a guy hit's on her and keeps it up after she says who i am, i get nutty every time. he backs off it's good. i'm with ballerina on this one. she invites that kind of attention on purpose? bye bye. who needs that? besides, what is she doing when i'm not there? shouldn't even need to wonder that.dunno
Oct 19, 2010 7:18 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
Ocee35: I'm not jealous, just territorial.
thumbs up thumbs up
Oct 19, 2010 7:44 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
leafs19ca
leafs19caleafs19caMonterrey, Nuevo Leon Mexico1 Posts
Never. You may want to check your spelling.
Oct 20, 2010 1:39 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
leafs19ca: Never. You may want to check your spelling.


Yes, I know its Jealous but couldn't edit a pole. Sorry about that!
Oct 20, 2010 1:41 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
lookup64: depends. i'm with my woman and a guy hit's on her and keeps it up after she says who i am, i get nutty every time. he backs off it's good. i'm with ballerina on this one. she invites that kind of attention on purpose? bye bye. who needs that? besides, what is she doing when i'm not there? shouldn't even need to wonder that.


yes I agree trying to make people jealous on purpose sucks and i'd also be out of there. I have no time for silly games!!
Oct 20, 2010 1:41 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
jonnt: She still hasnt answered my question ?


Sorry left work. South African time, was logged out
Oct 20, 2010 1:43 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
Validity: I am not a jealous person,i would hope there was enough trust there and i wouldn't need to worry.


I guess thats ideal for us all. I must admit, I get a little jealous but probably cause I always get stuck with cute charmers. But I'm changing my taste now!wink
Oct 20, 2010 1:45 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
lilmamma71: I'm the first to admit, I don't share, nor do I play well with others. However, I would also not want to be with a man that felt it was okay to do this sort of thing to a lady either. I would have no problem walking away from someone that would give me cause to be jealous or feel insecure for any reason. It's got nothing to do with MY self-esteem, but more so self-respect, because I am secure enough to know I don't have to be with a mindless, uncaring clod either. JMHO


Well said!!!! wink wine
Oct 20, 2010 1:46 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
wildprotector: you are very very wrong..


Really???? Well please enlighten me, I'm still learning angel
Oct 20, 2010 1:50 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
jonnt: Throwing the question back at you ,

Are you jealous !

Iff so what scenario ....



Hmmmmmm



To be honest it really depends on the situation. I am not very jealous and if someone gives me reason to be jealous of other women, I hit the road. But I'm not perfect and I have dated some really gorgeous guys who girls seem infactuated with. Then yes I did feel a bit jealous but it wasn't a bad or psychotic jealousy and usually I'd mention I felt a bit jealous and we'd laugh about it.

But I have had some boyfriends who were way over the top jealous for no reason, but accused me of all types of stuff and then got abusive about it.

Does this answer your question?
Oct 20, 2010 1:51 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ladyhumour
LadyhumourLadyhumourWestern Cape, South Africa14 Threads 12 Polls 189 Posts
cherrybrandy: crazy..ffs..


You and Jac - funny girls!!!! laugh lips
Oct 20, 2010 1:56 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
misscherylxo
misscherylxomisscherylxocalifornia city, California USA40 Threads 3 Polls 674 Posts
wav hiiiiiiii no im not jealous if they can't communicate with you , that is a reason for me be jealous like communication, best in a relationship letting the other person know what you are doing if they can't do that then i would be jealous of something. like he doesnt want to be involved. or something..
Oct 20, 2010 7:35 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
Ladyhumour: To be honest it really depends on the situation. I am not very jealous and if someone gives me reason to be jealous of other women, I hit the road. But I'm not perfect and I have dated some really gorgeous guys who girls seem infactuated with. Then yes I did feel a bit jealous but it wasn't a bad or psychotic jealousy and usually I'd mention I felt a bit jealous and we'd laugh about it.

But I have had some boyfriends who were way over the top jealous for no reason, but accused me of all types of stuff and then got abusive about it.

Does this answer your question?



Hmmmm ?
Oct 20, 2010 7:46 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
rune8
rune8rune8South, W.A, Western Australia Australia14 Threads 1,065 Posts
jonnt: Hmmmm ?


wave jonnt,

I do not do jealousy I refuse to. If ya wanna be jealous take it away from me! I love cos I wanna! Not cos you said!!! I will not buy into any form of envy or jealousy!!

peace
Oct 20, 2010 8:08 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
jonnt
jonntjonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK47 Threads 3,691 Posts
rune8: jonnt,

I do not do jealousy I refuse to. If ya wanna be jealous take it away from me! I love cos I wanna! Not cos you said!!! I will not buy into any form of envy or jealousy!!


Hello ,,wave

How are you ,,

This jealousy topic ,, i know what the thread author means

{no disrespect } but jealousy has many layers ,and motives ....


Was just chillin out and seeing what directions others go ....

hug
Oct 20, 2010 8:18 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
cherrybrandy: spaniel maniac..sounds like a posh breed..
mine is paranoidtrustnoonekillthemall moscow watchdog..


Just lovin that breed where can I get one....Dont tell my Jacks that though ....


laugh

Hi A sorry we missed each other but I am sure there will be other opportunities.

hug

I am only Jealous when given cause to be.... And that is not to say I am not in control of my emotions....That is an emotion for me, but I always believe if you give that dog a long leash he will come back...

wink yay


teddybear
Oct 20, 2010 8:29 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
todger
todgertodgerSveti Vlas Bourgas Region, Burgas Bulgaria14 Threads 2,054 Posts
yep must be a pretty tough one for you this 'Wild protector' ...

your user name smacks of ''jealous kind of guy''...JMHO ...not looking but are you a scorpion by mere chance


confused cheers handshake
Oct 31, 2010 4:54 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Pixels1
Pixels1Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 755 Posts
Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!


No because you may as well push self destruct button. Whatever the reason the real reason comes from within and any other reason is used to self inflicted suffering JMO wave
Oct 31, 2010 5:05 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Anyone who states that they are never jealous......are bare faced liars.....professor
Oct 31, 2010 6:37 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
ocean78382
ocean78382ocean78382Rockport- Corpus Christi area, Texas USA5 Threads 210 Posts
Jealousy is simply insecurity its not at all connected with love.
Oct 31, 2010 8:46 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
SCatlyn
SCatlynSCatlynBrecon, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5 Threads 2,166 Posts
jeal·ous
adj \'je-l?s\
Definition of JEALOUS
1a : intolerant of rivalry or unfaithfulness
b : disposed to suspect rivalry or unfaithfulness

Don't see anything wrong with that type of jealousy(you shouldn't have to worry about a rival in a relationship... and unfaithfulness..goes w/o saying)
Oct 31, 2010 9:37 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
ocean78382: Jealousy is simply insecurity its not at all connected with love.



You have done your Homework sirthumbs up


The worst thing is (someone) differating
Love From Lust...

and to do that takes efforts... Homework....

Lust is Self seeking, Bitter, rude, jealous,Envy,Strife, Cheating, self gratifacation...


Love and True Love Is OPPOSITE, It is Two working togather, Caring, Sharing, Patien, Kind, and 100% Dedicated to eah other, If They are both 100% true, in their Relationship, wont have Jealousy, as They are assured of each others Trust, Faithfulness,
and when you are Totally assured, that they would never do anything to damage it...their Remains nothing to be jealous about......
This would best be described as Agape, Love....


This Is VERY hard to Find, as many dont understand it..
(To The full depth)...Most of what the world calls Love, is Misunderstood......It usually is a form of Lust...
Sad but true... But In My Opinion, the Majority of Adults dont Understand Agape Love.....It is the Highest form Of Love...


Probem is, BOTH must understand it, to establish it...
Oct 31, 2010 9:55 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
tstone61
tstone61tstone61brayton, Iowa USA5 Threads 651 Posts
stefonline: Anyone who states that they are never jealous......are bare faced liars.....
Im aliar im aliar never been jelous its a waste of emotions letting your self get jelouse the relationship your in is because you love somone and if you do at least for me i trust them so if they flirt or talk with some guy who cares shes going home with me . and should they cheat they are not worth any emotions because they are not worth having .peace cheers
Oct 31, 2010 9:58 PM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Never been a jealous woman have had no reason to be cause any relationship I was in I was very secure in them.
Nov 1, 2010 12:58 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
3amfrolic
3amfrolic3amfrolicwarwickshire, Warwickshire, England UK10 Posts
if jealousy creeps in........theres a reason behind it.........if my partner causes me to feel jealous.....i will dump him in a flashi couldnt be arsed with the drama.....simple

I feel the same exact way and would never do anything to cause jealousy


applause applause applause
Nov 1, 2010 1:00 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
JSuburbia
JSuburbiaJSuburbiaOrbisonia, Pennsylvania USA17 Threads 2,518 Posts
Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!



^ This pretty much sums up what I would have said....Except now I don't have to write a book explaining it like I usually tend to do.
Nov 1, 2010 1:04 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
3amfrolic
3amfrolic3amfrolicwarwickshire, Warwickshire, England UK10 Posts
jac379: My dog is a paranoid psychotic, then.

Jac xxx


well staring at your armpits all day will do that to a k-9rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing tongue
Nov 1, 2010 1:10 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
midnight_angel_1
midnight_angel_1midnight_angel_1Northwest, Tennessee USA1 Threads 399 Posts
Being jealous means that my partner cannot be trusted or can at some point be swept away by someone else. Either way if that happens I would not need them anyhow. wow
Nov 1, 2010 2:24 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
Marmitegirl
MarmitegirlMarmitegirlReading, Berkshire, England UK77 Posts
I've never had any reason to become jealous in a relationship.

I don't do drama either so any drama and I'd just quietly walk away.
Nov 1, 2010 6:32 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
LittleKing
LittleKingLittleKingTopeka, Kansas USA2 Threads 95 Posts
cherrybrandy: spaniel maniac..sounds like a posh breed..
mine is paranoidtrustnoonekillthemall moscow watchdog..


I thought it said "kill the Mall" and I was like,"what the hell does that mean?" "does the dog hate shopping?"rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing confused confused
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