Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!
depends. i'm with my woman and a guy hit's on her and keeps it up after she says who i am, i get nutty every time. he backs off it's good. i'm with ballerina on this one. she invites that kind of attention on purpose? bye bye. who needs that? besides, what is she doing when i'm not there? shouldn't even need to wonder that.
lookup64: depends. i'm with my woman and a guy hit's on her and keeps it up after she says who i am, i get nutty every time. he backs off it's good. i'm with ballerina on this one. she invites that kind of attention on purpose? bye bye. who needs that? besides, what is she doing when i'm not there? shouldn't even need to wonder that.
yes I agree trying to make people jealous on purpose sucks and i'd also be out of there. I have no time for silly games!!
Validity: I am not a jealous person,i would hope there was enough trust there and i wouldn't need to worry.
I guess thats ideal for us all. I must admit, I get a little jealous but probably cause I always get stuck with cute charmers. But I'm changing my taste now!
lilmamma71: I'm the first to admit, I don't share, nor do I play well with others. However, I would also not want to be with a man that felt it was okay to do this sort of thing to a lady either. I would have no problem walking away from someone that would give me cause to be jealous or feel insecure for any reason. It's got nothing to do with MY self-esteem, but more so self-respect, because I am secure enough to know I don't have to be with a mindless, uncaring clod either. JMHO
To be honest it really depends on the situation. I am not very jealous and if someone gives me reason to be jealous of other women, I hit the road. But I'm not perfect and I have dated some really gorgeous guys who girls seem infactuated with. Then yes I did feel a bit jealous but it wasn't a bad or psychotic jealousy and usually I'd mention I felt a bit jealous and we'd laugh about it.
But I have had some boyfriends who were way over the top jealous for no reason, but accused me of all types of stuff and then got abusive about it.
misscherylxocalifornia city, California USA674 posts
wav hiiiiiiii no im not jealous if they can't communicate with you , that is a reason for me be jealous like communication, best in a relationship letting the other person know what you are doing if they can't do that then i would be jealous of something. like he doesnt want to be involved. or something..
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
Ladyhumour: To be honest it really depends on the situation. I am not very jealous and if someone gives me reason to be jealous of other women, I hit the road. But I'm not perfect and I have dated some really gorgeous guys who girls seem infactuated with. Then yes I did feel a bit jealous but it wasn't a bad or psychotic jealousy and usually I'd mention I felt a bit jealous and we'd laugh about it.
But I have had some boyfriends who were way over the top jealous for no reason, but accused me of all types of stuff and then got abusive about it.
I do not do jealousy I refuse to. If ya wanna be jealous take it away from me! I love cos I wanna! Not cos you said!!! I will not buy into any form of envy or jealousy!!
jonntLost in the Woods, East Sussex, England UK3,691 posts
rune8: jonnt,
I do not do jealousy I refuse to. If ya wanna be jealous take it away from me! I love cos I wanna! Not cos you said!!! I will not buy into any form of envy or jealousy!!
Hello ,,
How are you ,,
This jealousy topic ,, i know what the thread author means
{no disrespect } but jealousy has many layers ,and motives ....
Was just chillin out and seeing what directions others go ....
cherrybrandy: spaniel maniac..sounds like a posh breed.. mine is paranoidtrustnoonekillthemall moscow watchdog..
Just lovin that breed where can I get one....Dont tell my Jacks that though ....
Hi A sorry we missed each other but I am sure there will be other opportunities.
I am only Jealous when given cause to be.... And that is not to say I am not in control of my emotions....That is an emotion for me, but I always believe if you give that dog a long leash he will come back...
Pixels1London, Greater London, England UK755 posts
Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!
No because you may as well push self destruct button. Whatever the reason the real reason comes from within and any other reason is used to self inflicted suffering JMO
jeal·ous adj \'je-l?s\ Definition of JEALOUS 1a : intolerant of rivalry or unfaithfulness b : disposed to suspect rivalry or unfaithfulness
Don't see anything wrong with that type of jealousy(you shouldn't have to worry about a rival in a relationship... and unfaithfulness..goes w/o saying)
ocean78382: Jealousy is simply insecurity its not at all connected with love.
You have done your Homework sir
The worst thing is (someone) differating Love From Lust...
and to do that takes efforts... Homework....
Lust is Self seeking, Bitter, rude, jealous,Envy,Strife, Cheating, self gratifacation...
Love and True Love Is OPPOSITE, It is Two working togather, Caring, Sharing, Patien, Kind, and 100% Dedicated to eah other, If They are both 100% true, in their Relationship, wont have Jealousy, as They are assured of each others Trust, Faithfulness, and when you are Totally assured, that they would never do anything to damage it...their Remains nothing to be jealous about...... This would best be described as Agape, Love....
This Is VERY hard to Find, as many dont understand it.. (To The full depth)...Most of what the world calls Love, is Misunderstood......It usually is a form of Lust... Sad but true... But In My Opinion, the Majority of Adults dont Understand Agape Love.....It is the Highest form Of Love...
Probem is, BOTH must understand it, to establish it...
stefonline: Anyone who states that they are never jealous......are bare faced liars.....
Im aliar im aliar never been jelous its a waste of emotions letting your self get jelouse the relationship your in is because you love somone and if you do at least for me i trust them so if they flirt or talk with some guy who cares shes going home with me . and should they cheat they are not worth any emotions because they are not worth having .
Nov 1, 2010 12:58 AM CST ARE YOU JELOUS IN A RELATIONSHIP?
3amfrolicwarwickshire, Warwickshire, England UK10 Posts
3amfrolicwarwickshire, Warwickshire, England UK10 posts
if jealousy creeps in........theres a reason behind it.........if my partner causes me to feel jealous.....i will dump him in a flashi couldnt be arsed with the drama.....simple
I feel the same exact way and would never do anything to cause jealousy
Ladyhumour: The green monster Jelousy.... I personally believe that a measure of jelousy is normal. No jelousy = no love. However there is a fine line between a little bit of jelousy, and being a paranoid psychotic!
^ This pretty much sums up what I would have said....Except now I don't have to write a book explaining it like I usually tend to do.
Being jealous means that my partner cannot be trusted or can at some point be swept away by someone else. Either way if that happens I would not need them anyhow.
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depends. i'm with my woman and a guy hit's on her and keeps it up after she says who i am, i get nutty every time. he backs off it's good. i'm with ballerina on this one. she invites that kind of attention on purpose? bye bye. who needs that? besides, what is she doing when i'm not there? shouldn't even need to wonder that.