Do you follow what people say about you? ( Archived) (67)

Dec 14, 2010 8:04 AM CSTDo you follow what people say about you?

Do you follow what people say about you?(Vote Below)

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Yes, definitely, they are right about me
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2%
Yes, but I´d like to check if they have criteria
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12%
No, I don´t mind what people say about me
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75%
No, reason is not for many, but only for few
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12%
Total Votes
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Reason and experience should be complemented definitely, but what about the follow up of opinions and critics? Do we have the courage to do critics and.....self criticism??thumbs up
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Dec 14, 2010 8:06 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
carlosweb10: Reason and experience should be complemented definitely, but what about the follow up of opinions and critics? Do we have the courage to do critics and.....self criticism??


Of course people do. What about you?
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Dec 14, 2010 8:06 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
carlosweb10: Reason and experience should be complemented definitely, but what about the follow up of opinions and critics? Do we have the courage to do critics and.....self criticism??


Good god no i dont....i would have confidence at all if i did rolling on the floor laughing
As the saying goes..."I dont care what you think of me...as long as you are thinking of me"
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Dec 14, 2010 8:11 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
epicure
epicureepicureAlanya/Antalya, Mediterranean Turkey401 Threads 10 Polls 5,224 Posts
I don't gice a f**k to what people say about me.
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Dec 14, 2010 8:11 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
wow ...philosophers may dissapear right now and might be shaking their bodies in their coffins!!!
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Dec 14, 2010 8:12 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
I really don't care what people say about me. It is their opinion and it is important to them. I am nobody's judge and jury. I am just me and intend on keeping it that way. Some won't like me, well, that is their option...but some will and that is all the better for me.thanks wine
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Dec 14, 2010 8:13 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas: Of course people do. What about you?


wow...philosophers may disappear right now, and may be shaking their coffins right now!!!blues
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Dec 14, 2010 8:13 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
As long as i can look at myself in the mirror every morning and like what i see...i could care less what others think.I know who i am,the kind of person i am.
I will listen to other peoples opinions,but i think a person can be harder on their self's,then outsiders.So i look at it this way,if you don't pay my light bill and your are not sleeping with me,then i could careless what you think.grin
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Dec 14, 2010 8:13 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
faded_dino: I really don't care what people say about me. It is their opinion and it is important to them. I am nobody's judge and jury. I am just me and intend on keeping it that way. Some won't like me, well, that is their option...but some will and that is all the better for me.


thumbs up Exactly...the only criticism i will respect from people i know love me.
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Dec 14, 2010 8:14 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
faded_dino: I really don't care what people say about me. It is their opinion and it is important to them. I am nobody's judge and jury. I am just me and intend on keeping it that way. Some won't like me, well, that is their option...but some will and that is all the better for me.
ditto.
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Dec 14, 2010 8:14 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
i dont care about what people says on me,bad or good...they have their rights....the way i live is for my own satisfaction not for otherspeace
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Dec 14, 2010 8:21 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?
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Dec 14, 2010 8:23 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
No news is good news ....IMO laugh
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Dec 14, 2010 8:27 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
Veritaas: Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?
hi veritaas....you will just waste your time of nonsense things...sorry but you will deal with people that are judgemental....as long as you live properly,you need not to pay attention of what they say.time is gold beautifulcheers
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Dec 14, 2010 8:29 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
Veritaas: Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?


Agree, and it shows that one is not fitting into society very harmoniously if one is pissing 50% of it off !

'No smoke without fire' comes to mind.
'Do onto others....' is another.

peace
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Dec 14, 2010 8:31 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
do you mean if i follow advice? or am i keen about what other think of me?confused
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Dec 14, 2010 8:32 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
viva007
viva007viva007HYDERABAD, Telangana India41 Threads 8 Polls 7,447 Posts
plainlyjune: do you mean if i follow advice? or am i keen about what other think of me?
advice
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Dec 14, 2010 8:32 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
demonfairy
demonfairydemonfairyNewton, North Carolina USA76 Threads 2 Polls 2,278 Posts
Veritaas: Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?
thumbs up Point taken,i wasn't referring to people in my life,those i care about what they think.Its the ones that judge that don't know me,that i was referring to.
Morning V...hug teddybear wave
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Dec 14, 2010 8:33 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
leni0822: hi veritaas....you will just waste your time of nonsense things...sorry but you will deal with people that are judgemental....as long as you live properly,you need not to pay attention of what they say.time is gold beautiful


confused ... so there has to be some sort of contentious reasons for things to be talked about.
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Dec 14, 2010 8:35 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Veritaas: Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?


When it comes to those I care about and those that care about mecomfort
It does matter what they have to say and I can take constructive criticism.thumbs up
I was talking about those who are not close to me or I them.doh
wine
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Dec 14, 2010 8:36 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
pierrot_le_fou
pierrot_le_foupierrot_le_fouRiyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia8 Threads 1 Polls 582 Posts
Those who care about relating to others and who wanna improve themselves, take other people's feedback seriously.
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Dec 14, 2010 8:37 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
RDM59: ... so there has to be some sort of contentious reasons for things to be talked about.
absolutely....we talked about what people says,not the laws in our societypeace
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Dec 14, 2010 8:40 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
leni0822: hi veritaas....you will just waste your time of nonsense things...sorry but you will deal with people that are judgemental....as long as you live properly,you need not to pay attention of what they say.time is gold beautiful


I most certainly do not think what family or close friends think of me as nonsense whatsoever, whether I like what they have to say or not.

With regards to people I do not know, well hell no I simply dont give a damn. They mean nothing to me.

wine
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Dec 14, 2010 8:42 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
viva007: advice
oh. i take advice, grumpily or lightheartedly, i recycle and make it suit me. Can't be apathetic all the time. cool
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Dec 14, 2010 8:43 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Oh, my head is spinningfrustrated sigh
Everyone is becoming too serioussigh
Just relaxwine
And have funthumbs up bouquet
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Dec 14, 2010 8:45 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
demonfairy: Point taken,i wasn't referring to people in my life,those i care about what they think.Its the ones that judge that don't know me,that i was referring to.
Morning V...


Hi DF and Faded, yes I know that is what you ladies were referring to. I just believe that very few people go through life not caring about what others think.

Those that judge based on little or nothing, well they too can go sling their hooks into fresh air.cheers hug
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Dec 14, 2010 8:47 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
faded_dino: Oh, my head is spinning
Everyone is becoming too serious
Just relax
And have fun


Lets start a online battle field, seems to be the trend around here these days.rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up wine
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Dec 14, 2010 8:49 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Veritaas: Think about it for a moment, if you did not care what anyone thought of you, say for instance family, close friends, your children, or even employer, could that not also be seen as a lack of caring for others who care for you?


thumbs up

Folk seem to assume that another's opinion is going to be negative...what does that say?

I take on board positive and negative opinions and assess them on their own merit.

To believe, or disbelieve every opinion without evaluation is foolish, especially as different people's opinions can be contradictory.

Perhaps what people mean, is that they don't let other's opinions affect their cognitions to the point where its detrimental. dunno
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Dec 14, 2010 8:53 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
faded_dino
faded_dinofaded_dinounknown, Tennessee USA13 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Veritaas: Lets start a online battle field, seems to be the trend around here these days.


It's a shame, isn't itsigh
No one wants to have funfrustrated
They just want to be seriousdunno
Well, I sayprofessor

















Let's party dance elephant buddies and stop all theviolin so there......rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 14, 2010 8:55 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
faded_dino: It's a shame, isn't it
No one wants to have fun
They just want to be serious
Well, I say Let's and stop all the so there......


I'm in, FD tongue

laugh
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Dec 14, 2010 8:58 AM CST Do you follow what people say about you?
RWWizard
RWWizardRWWizardWaxahachie, Texas USA14 Threads 380 Posts
demonfairy: As long as i can look at myself in the mirror every morning and like what i see...i could care less what others think.I know who i am,the kind of person i am.
I will listen to other peoples opinions,but i think a person can be harder on their self's,then outsiders.So i look at it this way,if you don't pay my light bill and your are not sleeping with me,then i could careless what you think.


I like your post. What people say about me is their opinion and nothing else. And you know what they say about opinions.

Morning DF teddybear lips lips
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