What are you more atracted to? (74)

Mar 24, 2011 4:21 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
normalguy68: Top 7 reasons why men fail with women

1. Being too much a nice Guy

2. Convince her to like you

3. Looking for her approval or permission

4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money

5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her

6. Giving away all of your power to women

7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with women

8. Not enough junk in the trunk
grin
Mar 24, 2011 5:17 PM CST What are you more atracted to?
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
Giving away all of your power to women

Wondering what the power is?
They talk about guys who get nervous around women and when a woman knows he's nervous, the guy is putty in her hands.
I would have thought being nervous around a pretty woman was sweet but alas it is wrong to give women this power when dating.
Mar 24, 2011 8:59 PM CST What are you more atracted to?
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
normalguy68: Giving away all of your power to women

Wondering what the power is?
They talk about guys who get nervous around women and when a woman knows he's nervous, the guy is putty in her hands.
I would have thought being nervous around a pretty woman was sweet but alas it is wrong to give women this power when dating.


I cant speak for anyone else, but I have to say that nervousness in small doses is attractive. Its nice to know that someone is as excited and nervous to see you, as you are to see them. Gets everyones adrenline pumping and puts people on edge, makes em work harder.

After those initial few nervous moments.... continuing to be 'nervous' really is not an attractive quality. It reeks of pretending to be someone that they are not, not speaking their mind, overall lacking in confidence, and not accepting the woman/man for who she/he is.

I dont think 'nervousness' invites powerplay rather I think its offputting and invites a good dumping.

dunno
Mar 24, 2011 9:09 PM CST What are you more atracted to?
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
Top 7 reasons why men fail with women

1. Being too much a nice Guy Spot ON, I want a man with the intelligence and back bone to stand up to me

2. Convince her to like you Spot ON, reeks of needy, pleaser person

3. Looking for her approval or permission as above

4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money yeah the ole... I bought you dinner didnt I. Not to mention gifts early on make me very uncomfortable

5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her Absolutely, if the person isnt on the same page as they guy, then it just comes across as kinda a little bit creepy. Particularly in the very early stages of knowing someone. I dont believe in love at first sight, I believe in lust/admiration/infatuation at first sight, but dont ever confuse it with love

6. Giving away all of your power to womenI may get shot down for this, but I agree ... I dont want to make all the decisions, I dont want to feel responsible for someone else, I dont want to lead in my relationships. Confidence, goals, standing your ground are all qualities I find attractive in a man

7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with womenI dont believe that one, no one can know how to handle everything, I dont know how to handle men... but again it comes back to standing up for your beliefs, admitting your mistakes, letting go of hurts, and being confident within yourself. Because the alternative is a really wishy washy person and thats not attractive
Mar 24, 2011 9:47 PM CST What are you more atracted to?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
normalguy68: If you had to choose one trait, which one would you choose?
rolling on the floor laughing definetly humour...nothing worse than a good looking person who destroys their face by moaning and wingingsmitten smitten
Mar 26, 2011 4:16 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Shell225: Top 7 reasons why men fail with women

1. Being too much a nice Guy Spot ON, I want a man with the intelligence and back bone to stand up to me

2. Convince her to like you Spot ON, reeks of needy, pleaser person

3. Looking for her approval or permission as above

4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money yeah the ole... I bought you dinner didnt I. Not to mention gifts early on make me very uncomfortable

5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her Absolutely, if the person isnt on the same page as they guy, then it just comes across as kinda a little bit creepy. Particularly in the very early stages of knowing someone. I dont believe in love at first sight, I believe in lust/admiration/infatuation at first sight, but dont ever confuse it with love

6. Giving away all of your power to womenI may get shot down for this, but I agree ... I dont want to make all the decisions, I dont want to feel responsible for someone else, I dont want to lead in my relationships. Confidence, goals, standing your ground are all qualities I find attractive in a man

7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with womenI dont believe that one, no one can know how to handle everything, I dont know how to handle men... but again it comes back to standing up for your beliefs, admitting your mistakes, letting go of hurts, and being confident within yourself. Because the alternative is a really wishy washy person and thats not attractive



Shell ! did you say you dont know how to handle MEN confused confused confused
Ah you need some rope sorry hug hug hug
Mar 26, 2011 4:52 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
Jimi123499: cause they are like santa......

THEY DONT EXIST.........
No pubs??? awww what?
Mar 26, 2011 7:24 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
So men don't like jokers and women like intelligent easy going guys going by the results
Mar 26, 2011 7:34 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
bluejay2011
bluejay2011bluejay2011SE, Queensland Australia5 Threads 1,421 Posts
normalguy68: If you had to choose one trait, which one would you choose?


Has to be able to make me laugh. You should be able to choose more than one.
Mar 26, 2011 7:36 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
normalguy68
normalguy68normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia62 Threads 15 Polls 1,829 Posts
bluejay2011: Has to be able to make me laugh. You should be able to choose more than one.
It's funny how the guys don't like funny chicks but the women love funny guys
Mar 26, 2011 7:42 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
normalguy68: It's funny how the guys don't like funny chicks but the women love funny guys
It has been my experience that guys like women with a sense of humor....professor
Mar 26, 2011 7:44 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
starcrossfish
starcrossfishstarcrossfishperth, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 711 Posts
normalguy68: It's funny how the guys don't like funny chicks but the women love funny guys


What the FARK planet you on?!!confused
Mar 26, 2011 7:45 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
starcrossfish
starcrossfishstarcrossfishperth, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 711 Posts
normalguy68: It's funny how the guys don't like funny chicks but the women love funny guys


Are you SPEAKING UP for all men here? confused
Mar 26, 2011 7:47 AM CST What are you more atracted to?
starcrossfish
starcrossfishstarcrossfishperth, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 711 Posts
You DO my farken HEAD IN NORMAL!!!
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