normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia1,829 posts
Giving away all of your power to women
Wondering what the power is? They talk about guys who get nervous around women and when a woman knows he's nervous, the guy is putty in her hands. I would have thought being nervous around a pretty woman was sweet but alas it is wrong to give women this power when dating.
normalguy68: Giving away all of your power to women
Wondering what the power is? They talk about guys who get nervous around women and when a woman knows he's nervous, the guy is putty in her hands. I would have thought being nervous around a pretty woman was sweet but alas it is wrong to give women this power when dating.
I cant speak for anyone else, but I have to say that nervousness in small doses is attractive. Its nice to know that someone is as excited and nervous to see you, as you are to see them. Gets everyones adrenline pumping and puts people on edge, makes em work harder.
After those initial few nervous moments.... continuing to be 'nervous' really is not an attractive quality. It reeks of pretending to be someone that they are not, not speaking their mind, overall lacking in confidence, and not accepting the woman/man for who she/he is.
I dont think 'nervousness' invites powerplay rather I think its offputting and invites a good dumping.
1. Being too much a nice Guy Spot ON, I want a man with the intelligence and back bone to stand up to me
2. Convince her to like you Spot ON, reeks of needy, pleaser person
3. Looking for her approval or permission as above
4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money yeah the ole... I bought you dinner didnt I. Not to mention gifts early on make me very uncomfortable
5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her Absolutely, if the person isnt on the same page as they guy, then it just comes across as kinda a little bit creepy. Particularly in the very early stages of knowing someone. I dont believe in love at first sight, I believe in lust/admiration/infatuation at first sight, but dont ever confuse it with love
6. Giving away all of your power to womenI may get shot down for this, but I agree ... I dont want to make all the decisions, I dont want to feel responsible for someone else, I dont want to lead in my relationships. Confidence, goals, standing your ground are all qualities I find attractive in a man
7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with womenI dont believe that one, no one can know how to handle everything, I dont know how to handle men... but again it comes back to standing up for your beliefs, admitting your mistakes, letting go of hurts, and being confident within yourself. Because the alternative is a really wishy washy person and thats not attractive
1. Being too much a nice Guy Spot ON, I want a man with the intelligence and back bone to stand up to me
2. Convince her to like you Spot ON, reeks of needy, pleaser person
3. Looking for her approval or permission as above
4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money yeah the ole... I bought you dinner didnt I. Not to mention gifts early on make me very uncomfortable
5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her Absolutely, if the person isnt on the same page as they guy, then it just comes across as kinda a little bit creepy. Particularly in the very early stages of knowing someone. I dont believe in love at first sight, I believe in lust/admiration/infatuation at first sight, but dont ever confuse it with love
6. Giving away all of your power to womenI may get shot down for this, but I agree ... I dont want to make all the decisions, I dont want to feel responsible for someone else, I dont want to lead in my relationships. Confidence, goals, standing your ground are all qualities I find attractive in a man
7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with womenI dont believe that one, no one can know how to handle everything, I dont know how to handle men... but again it comes back to standing up for your beliefs, admitting your mistakes, letting go of hurts, and being confident within yourself. Because the alternative is a really wishy washy person and thats not attractive
Shell ! did you say you dont know how to handle MEN Ah you need some rope sorry
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1. Being too much a nice Guy
2. Convince her to like you
3. Looking for her approval or permission
4. Trying to take her affection with gifts & money
5. Sharing too early what you feel about this relationship with her
6. Giving away all of your power to women
7. Not knowing exactly how to handle each situation with women
8. Not enough junk in the trunk