freominxRockingham, Western Australia Australia276 posts
well my ex was totally abusive, mentally and physically, I divorced him in 1994, my two now adult children haven't seen him since they were 8 and 4y.o., they never have and even now don't want anything to do with him. After our divorce, he spent 8 years in jail for attempted murder, and for quite a few years after our divorce, me and the kids were in hiding. Even now he is out of jail, and tried contacting me through Facebook, I get scared, as he was affiliated with the Bandidos. Apparently his violence was all my fault, but he has never paid child support, and never shown an interest in his kids, apparently THEY have to contact him! Hence my reservations regarding starting any new relationships ever since.
freominx: well my ex was totally abusive, mentally and physically, I divorced him in 1994, my two now adult children haven't seen him since they were 8 and 4y.o., they never have and even now don't want anything to do with him. After our divorce, he spent 8 years in jail for attempted murder, and for quite a few years after our divorce, me and the kids were in hiding. Even now he is out of jail, and tried contacting me through Facebook, I get scared, as he was affiliated with the Bandidos. Apparently his violence was all my fault, but he has never paid child support, and never shown an interest in his kids, apparently THEY have to contact him! Hence my reservations regarding starting any new relationships ever since.
melty1Goolwa, South Australia Australia4,121 posts
freominx: well my ex was totally abusive, mentally and physically, I divorced him in 1994, my two now adult children haven't seen him since they were 8 and 4y.o., they never have and even now don't want anything to do with him. After our divorce, he spent 8 years in jail for attempted murder, and for quite a few years after our divorce, me and the kids were in hiding. Even now he is out of jail, and tried contacting me through Facebook, I get scared, as he was affiliated with the Bandidos. Apparently his violence was all my fault, but he has never paid child support, and never shown an interest in his kids, apparently THEY have to contact him! Hence my reservations regarding starting any new relationships ever since.
normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia1,829 posts
freominx: well my ex was totally abusive, mentally and physically, I divorced him in 1994, my two now adult children haven't seen him since they were 8 and 4y.o., they never have and even now don't want anything to do with him. After our divorce, he spent 8 years in jail for attempted murder, and for quite a few years after our divorce, me and the kids were in hiding. Even now he is out of jail, and tried contacting me through Facebook, I get scared, as he was affiliated with the Bandidos. Apparently his violence was all my fault, but he has never paid child support, and never shown an interest in his kids, apparently THEY have to contact him! Hence my reservations regarding starting any new relationships ever since.
WysteriousPerth, Western Australia Australia1,707 posts
Blizzard14u: Try college! That is interested in her grades and achievements,
I don’t want to say it on here, but I signed the paperwork last night for her to go back for her second visit to one of the best here in WA,
This is all her teachers pushing her into it, I just give her the support at home, so the credit is all hers!
Fantastic either way - my youngest just finished two years at an Ag college and got top academic equine student and top racing equine student - no way she would have achieved that is f=she had stayed at a normal high school - given the right opportunities and the right frame of mind - and parental support - they can do so well for themselves - you must be feeling so good for her.
normalguy68Wonthaggi, Victoria Australia1,829 posts
Wysterious: Fantastic either way - my youngest just finished two years at an Ag college and got top academic equine student and top racing equine student - no way she would have achieved that is f=she had stayed at a normal high school - given the right opportunities and the right frame of mind - and parental support - they can do so well for themselves - you must be feeling so good for her.
freominx: yes normalguy68, so you still think I am selfish and self centred?
Oh my dear, I think Norm should be realising now that in one way or another how much pain some of you have been through. You must learn to trust again! don't let this man ruin your future happiness with someone else.
There are a lot of really great guys out there just waiting for someone like you, as you can see from this forum alone! all the guys on here are pretty good sorts...so go for it.
Oh lived in Glen Forest an age ago.WA is a wonderful place.
WysteriousPerth, Western Australia Australia1,707 posts
Martia: Oh my dear, I think Norm should be realising now that in one way or another how much pain some of you have been through. You must learn to trust again! don't let this man ruin your future happiness with someone else.
There are a lot of really great guys out there just waiting for someone like you, as you can see from this forum alone! all the guys on here are pretty good sorts...so go for it.
Oh lived in Glen Forest an age ago.WA is a wonderful place.
WA is wonderful - you would not recognise Glen Forrest now - it is a very popular place to live
Martia: Oh my dear, I think Norm should be realising now that in one way or another how much pain some of you have been through. You must learn to trust again! don't let this man ruin your future happiness with someone else.
There are a lot of really great guys out there just waiting for someone like you, as you can see from this forum alone! all the guys on here are pretty good sorts...so go for it.
Oh lived in Glen Forest an age ago.WA is a wonderful place.
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