akaRALF: I am glad I wasn't here if that was the case. I don't want to see you or anyone else hurt through the insensitivity of others. I just wish someone would stand up and be the bigger person and forgive and forget for the sake of this wonderful forum. We have lost a lot of good members because of all this talk of backstabbing and background emails and obviously someone is feeding you otherwise nobody would have heard anything. We can't turn back time, we can't unsay what has been said, but we sure as hell can try to get over it and move on rather than dredging it up all the time and keeping grudges. I don't want to fight with anyone, it is far more entertaining when we all get along.
Well I'd like to apologise for my behaviour the other night.
I understand it made ugly reading for everyone and no one needs to see this type of thing on the forums.
I've made some fantastic friends on here and I'd like to keep it that way.
You'd think I would have learned my lesson from a recent banning but no, I went there again, which was childish and uncalled for
So once again, apologies. I hope that anyone who has lost interest in the forums because of this kind of thing comes back soon so that we can get them healthy and fun again, and leave this behind us.
serene56: Well I'd like to apologise for my behaviour the other night.
I understand it made ugly reading for everyone and no one needs to see this type of thing on the forums.
I've made some fantastic friends on here and I'd like to keep it that way.
You'd think I would have learned my lesson from a recent banning but no, I went there again, which was childish and uncalled for
So once again, apologies. I hope that anyone who has lost interest in the forums because of this kind of thing comes back soon so that we can get them healthy and fun again, and leave this behind us.
melty1Goolwa, South Australia Australia4,121 posts
Far out! I just read all these pages.
I was with someone recently and they were constantly wanting to talk to me, on the phone. It got too much and I had to tell him that I had to go and do stuff around the house etc. He got affended and became too dramatic for me. so I would probably pic needy and cligy
I do think early in a relationship, you need to have your own life and goals. Living someone elses life creates isolation I think. Takes away independance. Just a thought!
starcrossfishperth, Western Australia Australia711 posts
melty1: Far out! I just read all these pages.
I was with someone recently and they were constantly wanting to talk to me, on the phone. It got too much and I had to tell him that I had to go and do stuff around the house etc. He got affended and became too dramatic for me. so I would probably pic needy and cligy
I do think early in a relationship, you need to have your own life and goals. Living someone elses life creates isolation I think. Takes away independance. Just a thought!
same thing's happened to me...sign's of a controlling nature from them perhap's...i think it's importanat for two people to have there own life and not be in other's face all the time...it's important to give each the other the space to enjoy life to the fullest
akaRALF: Well isn't that all that matters? Why are we still dredging it up?
When you asked Serene who it was that didn't want you at the meets, she replied "me" (as in herself). I would assume that is, in some way, an admission that she was expressing her own view not that of others.
I don't believe Im dredging it up Ralph, simply replying. I am aloud to do that right? I do believe I've let it go, but for some reason you seem to be defending something that at the end of the day didn't really involve you. It did involve me and Serene however.
Oh get off it Ralph with her reply 'Me'. Now your scraping the bottle of the barrel. It was a farkin low, lying thing to say.
Justify it all you want. It sucked.
You seem to think its ok for you to keep butting in with your two bobs worth, but no one else can have a say.
akaRALFBacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia1,360 posts
sxc666: I don't believe Im dredging it up Ralph, simply replying. I am aloud to do that right? I do believe I've let it go, but for some reason you seem to be defending something that at the end of the day didn't really involve you. It did involve me and Serene however.
Oh get off it Ralph with her reply 'Me'. Now your scraping the bottle of the barrel. It was a farkin low, lying thing to say.
Justify it all you want. It sucked.
You seem to think its ok for you to keep butting in with your two bobs worth, but no one else can have a say.
When something involves me I will have a say.
I have never defended what Serene said, it was a low thing to say, all I was saying was, that is how I read Serene's reply, if you read it differently then that is fine, that is your prerogative, I am only offering a different point of view.
akaRALF: I have never defended what Serene said, it was a low thing to say, all I was saying was, that is how I read Serene's reply, if you read it differently then that is fine, that is your prerogative, I am only offering a different point of view.
Fair enough.
I didn't have an issue with Serene, she made herself an issue.
I can iron clothes...cook good food....and do the washing....get the kids off to school...put food in the fridge....talk on the phone for an hour........go shopping.....
I have come to 2 conclusions.....
I just felt between my legs, phew yes I am still male...
sxc666: Yep I agree with that. There are just things men are good at and women not so much.Sometimes I think that a lot, you know like checking the car for oil etc. I can do it, but I hate it. Those type of things.
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