Who usually ends a relationship ? ( Archived) (59)

Apr 21, 2011 1:18 AM CSTWho usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington, New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts

Who usually ends a relationship ?(Vote Below)

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Man
26
22%
Woman
64
54%
Mutual
28
24%
Total Votes
118
A relationship is running along fine, and something happens ..... it ends... Who's decision was it to end it ? The Guy the Girl or mutual ?
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Apr 21, 2011 1:35 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
woman.... because men hate solving troubles as for relationshipsgrin
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Apr 21, 2011 1:42 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
I would guess men.


Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,

and we fake more relationships than women.
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Apr 21, 2011 1:52 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
Ocee35: I would guess men.Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,

and we fake more relationships than women.


I think you might be surprised .... when you see the results of my marvellous poll ...
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Apr 21, 2011 2:00 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Aswina
AswinaAswinaNitra, Slovakia2 Threads 1,373 Posts
wils0n: I think you might be surprised .... when you see the results of my marvellous poll ...


just 7 people have voted.... it seems nothing as for statisticsgrin
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Apr 21, 2011 2:01 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n: A relationship is running along fine, and something happens ..... it ends... Who's decision was it to end it ? The Guy the Girl or mutual ?


Sad to say, but (Many)???? times (but not always) it is the one who is Wrong, or Who has done Wrong, who is looking for a way to JUSTIFY Themselves,
so they Quit( Break Up) so they Feel Like they have justification
and HOPE to put the Sad odds in their favor......Of Buying Out the rest of the Worlds Justification, to support them In their Wrong doings. Even Sadder is Most of the time they Do!sad flower
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Apr 21, 2011 2:12 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Zimzane
ZimzaneZimzaneManhattan, Kansas USA40 Threads 2 Polls 352 Posts
I voted mutual, but I would say the numbers are about equal
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Apr 21, 2011 2:13 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
Aswina: just 7 people have voted.... it seems nothing as for statistics


Relax..... The poll is only 50min old.... scold
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Apr 21, 2011 2:18 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
depends on what happened.

my ex choose to be with involved with other women whilst I was in labour....

so I terminated him as soon as I regained strength.

devil

some exes before him dumped me and I dumped a few of them. some were mutual decisions.

when love is gone, there is no reason to stay in a relationship..too much waste of time

wine
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Apr 21, 2011 2:35 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
carenza: depends on what happened.

my ex choose to be with involved with other women whilst I was in labour....

so I terminated him as soon as I regained strength.



some exes before him dumped me and I dumped a few of them. some were mutual decisions.

when love is gone, there is no reason to stay in a relationship..too much waste of time


Hmm interesting.... that's mental... If I had a baby on the way I would want to be there .... what a selfish Man !!!

Were you mean to him ?? and Nag him so he fell out of love with you ???

OR is he just a BAD Man ?
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Apr 21, 2011 4:26 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
I think, women. But men make the relationship imposible to be continued. So, it is rather a mutual agreement, I guess.
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Apr 21, 2011 4:26 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
vyoleta
vyoletavyoletaArkaroola, South Australia Australia44 Threads 6 Polls 1,050 Posts
I think, women. But men make the relationship imposible to be continued. So, it is rather a mutual agreement, I guess.
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Apr 21, 2011 4:29 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
blarneykite
blarneykiteblarneykiteSomewhere, Carlow Ireland31 Threads 3,901 Posts
wils0n: A relationship is running along fine, and something happens ..... it ends... Who's decision was it to end it ? The Guy the Girl or mutual ?
Normally the person who no longer wishes to be involved in the relationship
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Apr 21, 2011 4:43 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
blarneykite: Normally the person who no longer wishes to be involved in the relationship


nice laugh
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Apr 21, 2011 4:47 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Icymanx
IcymanxIcymanxStellarton, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 2 Polls 193 Posts
I would have to say the woman,probably 70% of the time the man has caused the problem in someway?dunno
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Apr 21, 2011 5:18 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Dee1993
Dee1993Dee1993Auckland, New Zealand3 Posts
meh... guys do the whole... try to get the girl to dump them so they dont hafto themselves therefore the girls always dump them... i really wouldnt know.. bt i know that guys get over things waay faster then girls
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Apr 21, 2011 5:20 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
I can't remember. crying
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Apr 21, 2011 5:29 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
Dee1993: meh... guys do the whole... try to get the girl to dump them so they dont hafto themselves therefore the girls always dump them... i really wouldnt know.. bt i know that guys get over things waay faster then girls


Hey Kiwi :)

Actually the person who gets dumped hurts the most - usually.
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Apr 21, 2011 5:35 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Ocee35: I would guess men.Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,

and we fake more relationships than women.


laugh yep... tho the men rarely do the face to face ending, they really hate that whole owning up that they've been a jerk thing popcorn ... but they are quite good at simply being vacant and disengaged so that they have to be kicked out. cool

That way it's never their...Ahhem roll eyes .... fault, so to speak.
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Apr 21, 2011 6:20 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Kontikitact
KontikitactKontikitactsilkeborg, Central Jutland Denmark52 Threads 6 Polls 797 Posts
gininitaly: yep... tho the men rarely do the face to face ending, they really hate that whole owning up that they've been a jerk thing ... but they are quite good at simply being vacant and disengaged so that they have to be kicked out.

That way it's never their...Ahhem .... fault, so to speak.
None of the above in the poll....time ends relationships !!!!
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Apr 21, 2011 6:20 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Women usually want more, men seem to be happy if the relationship provides the necessities. Women need to know there are realistic goals and the couple is moving in a positive and constructive direction. We are not as satisfied with just necessities. Men get comfortable and stay there.
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Apr 21, 2011 8:52 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Ocee35: I would guess men.Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,

and we fake more relationships than women.


aha the truth comes out. I am printing and framing this comment for my bedroom wall, oceepeace
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Apr 21, 2011 8:57 AM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
SusieJane: Women usually want more, men seem to be happy if the relationship provides the necessities. Women need to know there are realistic goals and the couple is moving in a positive and constructive direction. We are not as satisfied with just necessities. Men get comfortable and stay there.


so are you saying that one of them will end things when the woman gets "relationship wanderlust?"

If so, I'd agree and your comment prompted my revelationlaugh

cuz when I think back on the relationships that have ended (regardless of who ended it), it was usually because I was in a growth spurt and out growing "Mr. Satisfied" or I wanted the relationship to grow and he was "Mr. Indecisive." The 2nd scenario to agree with Ocee is when the guy usually ended things -well not always tho cuz I can think of a time where Mr Indecisive was replaced by someone who knew what he wanted - ME

smitten
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Apr 21, 2011 2:43 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
Kontikitact: None of the above in the poll....time ends relationships !!!!


interesting comment...

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Apr 21, 2011 2:44 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Easy one to answer for me! They all kick me out grin
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Apr 21, 2011 2:46 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
time4fun4u: Easy one to answer for me! They all kick me out


Welcome to my world hahahaha
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Apr 21, 2011 3:10 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
irishrebel75
irishrebel75irishrebel75Fairfax, Missouri USA123 Threads 5 Polls 1,755 Posts
a cat ended my last realtionship
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Apr 21, 2011 3:13 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
wils0n
wils0nwils0nwellinton, Wellington New Zealand3 Threads 3 Polls 106 Posts
irishrebel75: a cat ended my last realtionship


a cat ?

everyone blames the cat ...yawn
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Apr 21, 2011 3:20 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
irishrebel75
irishrebel75irishrebel75Fairfax, Missouri USA123 Threads 5 Polls 1,755 Posts
wils0n: a cat ?

everyone blames the cat ...
nah it was hers...i accidentially let it out, it got killed she blamed me and left
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Apr 21, 2011 3:21 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
Swissblueeyes
SwissblueeyesSwissblueeyesa lake, Michigan USA13 Threads 3,371 Posts
wils0n: A relationship is running along fine, and something happens ..... it ends... Who's decision was it to end it ? The Guy the Girl or mutual ?
It all depends on the two people involved..
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Apr 21, 2011 3:34 PM CST Who usually ends a relationship ?
outdoorgirlsun
outdoorgirlsunoutdoorgirlsunSapulpa, Oklahoma USA5 Threads 1,085 Posts
Ocee35: I would guess men.Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,

and we fake more relationships than women.


Yeah, men end them alright, they just forget to tell us. They are mostly spineless when coming to the actual verbal part. They just disappear.
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