wils0n: A relationship is running along fine, and something happens ..... it ends... Who's decision was it to end it ? The Guy the Girl or mutual ?
Sad to say, but (Many)???? times (but not always) it is the one who is Wrong, or Who has done Wrong, who is looking for a way to JUSTIFY Themselves, so they Quit( Break Up) so they Feel Like they have justification and HOPE to put the Sad odds in their favor......Of Buying Out the rest of the Worlds Justification, to support them In their Wrong doings. Even Sadder is Most of the time they Do!
meh... guys do the whole... try to get the girl to dump them so they dont hafto themselves therefore the girls always dump them... i really wouldnt know.. bt i know that guys get over things waay faster then girls
wils0nOPwellinton, Wellington New Zealand106 posts
Dee1993: meh... guys do the whole... try to get the girl to dump them so they dont hafto themselves therefore the girls always dump them... i really wouldnt know.. bt i know that guys get over things waay faster then girls
Hey Kiwi :)
Actually the person who gets dumped hurts the most - usually.
Ocee35: I would guess men.Relationships are most often ended by the person less in love,
and we fake more relationships than women.
yep... tho the men rarely do the face to face ending, they really hate that whole owning up that they've been a jerk thing ... but they are quite good at simply being vacant and disengaged so that they have to be kicked out.
That way it's never their...Ahhem .... fault, so to speak.
Kontikitactsilkeborg, Central Jutland Denmark797 posts
gininitaly: yep... tho the men rarely do the face to face ending, they really hate that whole owning up that they've been a jerk thing ... but they are quite good at simply being vacant and disengaged so that they have to be kicked out.
That way it's never their...Ahhem .... fault, so to speak.
None of the above in the poll....time ends relationships !!!!
Women usually want more, men seem to be happy if the relationship provides the necessities. Women need to know there are realistic goals and the couple is moving in a positive and constructive direction. We are not as satisfied with just necessities. Men get comfortable and stay there.
SusieJane: Women usually want more, men seem to be happy if the relationship provides the necessities. Women need to know there are realistic goals and the couple is moving in a positive and constructive direction. We are not as satisfied with just necessities. Men get comfortable and stay there.
so are you saying that one of them will end things when the woman gets "relationship wanderlust?"
If so, I'd agree and your comment prompted my revelation
cuz when I think back on the relationships that have ended (regardless of who ended it), it was usually because I was in a growth spurt and out growing "Mr. Satisfied" or I wanted the relationship to grow and he was "Mr. Indecisive." The 2nd scenario to agree with Ocee is when the guy usually ended things -well not always tho cuz I can think of a time where Mr Indecisive was replaced by someone who knew what he wanted - ME
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Who usually ends a relationship ?(Vote Below)