when choosing a mate-what matters most?
looks
7
8%
body type
5
6%
brains
5
6%
personality
61
68%
income
3
3%
social status
0
0%
age
1
1%
doesnt matter
4
4%
other
4
4%
Total Votes
90
hope you all had a great christmas!!! since alot of us are here looking for that special someone, i was wondering what trait is the single most important to you when deciding who your going to be with?...
Why doesnt an online relationship make it ?
It was a hasty decision
4
3%
lost interest after sometime ( whoever )
15
13%
Didnt / cant / dont want to meet-up
12
10%
Dont want to pursue it in real life
8
7%
communication issues
15
13%
Dont know what happened
11
9%
After we met it wasnt the same (any reason )
15
13%
The real person was a shock compared to online
14
12%
found someone else .. a better one.
4
3%
none / other ( pls make a post )
18
16%
Total Votes
116
Its often seen that relationships which work online dont make it too far in real life. Except for the few we know and quite afew we dont know about. Why does this happen ? Is it that virtual is not enough real ? Are we asking for too much too soon...Read more
Players
I'm single
83
I have a relationship
2
2%
I'm married
4
4%
I'm in a relationship, but I look only for friends
5
5%
I'm not a player, I'm just a scammer
3
3%
Total Votes
97
Everbody knows there are more then one person here on this site, who is a player. Who tells other people that he/she is looking for a partner but in reality he/she will just play with people. Now, we have here a anonymous way for outing. It...Read more
Wow when you and I agree lot or are so similair In thought...
Send yoiu flower withoiut comment
7
14%
send a flower with short message saying Iagree
18
36%
send flower with emoticon
4
8%
praise their thoughts pubically
6
12%
salute them them publically
2
4%
ask them to go to IM
4
8%
ask those you respect their opinions of them
4
8%
hell I'm drunk ya gonna rag on me come orning?
5
10%
Total Votes
50
Wow when you and I agree lot or are so similair In thought...
Nice or bad ?
A nice woman/ man till the rest of life
65
56%
A bad boy/girl for a short time
7
6%
Both, if it is possible
28
24%
A nice woman/ man for a short time
1
1%
A bad boy/ girl forever
8
7%
Nothing of this, I´ll being alone.
8
7%
Total Votes
117
What do you prefer? The nice guy/gal who can give you a secure life( which is sometimes a little bit boring and daily the same) or do you like more a bad guy/girl, who can make your life exciting....
Man poll!.... haha.. Which are you more attracted to?
Giggley ditzy girlie girls
9
8%
Cool aloof, hard to pin down women
16
15%
Tom boys, (but sexy)
24
22%
Women that are very openly flirtatious
11
10%
Fiesty Sexy 'take no messin' women
25
23%
Women who would worship you
22
21%
Total Votes
107
Sooo... what kind of woman are you most attracted too (initially at least)...
Ladies.. What kind of man are you more attracted to in a group?
The cooool smooth suave dude (a la James Bond)
19
14%
The casual manly maaaan
47
34%
The comedian/joker of the group
35
25%
The quiet cute guy in the group
30
22%
The intelligent geeky boffin.
7
5%
Total Votes
138
Soooo what kind of man are you first attracted to?...
Which free feature do you find MOST useful to get to know members on Connecting Singles?
Onsite mail
179
36%
Forums
73
15%
Blogs
8
2%
Chat
58
12%
Instant Messenger
97
20%
Virtual Flowers
41
8%
Rate Photos
25
5%
Polls
14
3%
Total Votes
495
Can a Man trust woman in a relationship?
One can trust blindly
24
34%
One should not trust
12
17%
May be one can have trial and error...
35
49%
Total Votes
71
Is it possible to trust woman in a relationship?...
do u keep ur ex's pics in ur phone?
yes
27
23%
no
92
77%
Total Votes
119
is it ok to keep ur ex's photos in ur phone or u should get rid of them?...
I want more people on this forum!
More rich people
12
16%
More sexy people
12
16%
More credible profiles
31
41%
More rich sexy people with credible files
4
5%
More people with toys: cars, trucks, boats, camper
1
1%
More pet lovers
6
8%
More foodies
3
4%
More Trekkers with Spock suits that fit
1
1%
More cheesecake dancers
3
4%
More dancers with spock ears and rvs will travel
3
4%
Total Votes
76
Where are THEY all hiding?...
do you run a background check or google a person's name before dating?
yes
37
46%
no
44
54%
Total Votes
81
What are you here for?
To take part in polls, quizzes and tests
6
10%
to see what kind of whackos there are in the world
4
7%
to actually meet someone for a real relationship
37
63%
to find a pen pal or an online buddy
6
10%
this is my idea of a social life
6
10%
Total Votes
59
It seems to me that very few people are here to actually meet someone. what are your reasons for being here?...
Ladies do you send the men on this site flowers or mail?
Yes
40
75%
NO
13
25%
Total Votes
53
Are you proactive or reactive?...
What should a BF/GF do when his partner is a Big lier ! and cant Gave up lying on several Request?
Keep goin same
4
5%
Start lying same like his/her partner
4
5%
Breakup
60
79%
Others
8
11%
Total Votes
76
actually my gf is a big lier, she always lie about what i hate, and when i say her dont do such thing then she do it and hide me,when i ask she lied many times i caught, i warn her request her many times but she cant improve, i m tired of her...
the most magical way to get someone's attention without bothering him/her ??
a flower.
10
17%
a poem.
6
10%
a cup of tea.
1
2%
a dance.
2
3%
a smile.
28
47%
a kind but sweet look.
9
15%
something else ( example )
4
7%
Total Votes
60
get the best out of your heart n mind....
What you are looking for in your next relationship?
Someone to come home to
48
53%
Someone to go out with
19
21%
Someone for tonight
4
4%
Something other
20
22%
Total Votes
91
Identify your ‘aim’ first and then go ahead....
after the fire.
till death do us part.
17
55%
hit the road jack.
14
45%
Total Votes
31
too young to die&too old to rock n roll lol,or too old to care?...
"PAST is PAST"
Yes! Right!
29
53%
No! Wrong!
10
18%
Not Sure!
12
22%
Want to say something other!
4
7%
Total Votes
55
How you can deal with your "past"? It matters or not in your "present" or in "future"? Will it be applicable to your potential one?...
For Women ONLY - Would you date a man who is shorter than you?
Yes
23
30%
No
53
70%
Total Votes
76
Would you consider to date a man who is shorter than you?...
What level of "public displays of affection" are you comfortable with?
NONE, doesn't touch in public
5
6%
light hand holding
7
8%
light kissing & hand holding
44
49%
big hugs & long kisses
16
18%
heavy petting & sloppy kisses
3
3%
EXHIBITIONIST, anything goes
14
16%
Total Votes
89
just curious how this poll will turn out...
Who are more compromising ?
Men
29
40%
Women
43
60%
Total Votes
72
I think most of men are rigid and most of women are compromising with their life partners....
Guys: Would you consider going out with an avg. looking woman if she took a chance & asked you out
Yes
147
No
11
7%
Total Votes
158
I'm asking because I consider myself to be average in appearance. I realize that I will never be one of the prettier women or one of the "hot women." I don't think that I am unattractive. Basically, I think that I'm a 6. Anyway, I was wondering if gu...Read more
Ladies, how many men are you currently dating?
None
49
59%
One
15
18%
Two
6
7%
Three
8
10%
Four or more
5
6%
Total Votes
83
Learned dating isn't a relationship how many "friends" do you date?...
If you had to choose only one?
Girly-girl
35
54%
Thomboy
30
46%
Total Votes
65
You should pick only your favorite....
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