Ish are you THAT difficult? Because there's for sure one seriously interested admirer and maybe more out there!
My friends were a bit taken aback when I joined CS and even more taken aback when I started seeing someone. Now they've got used to the idea that I'm going through my second childhood teens
Redex that is the BEST thing about friends, you can give each other space and avoid the bits where you disagree!
The real decisions start if you end up with a lush fella who is, to use your example, lovely in every other way but wants bacon every morning for breakfast?
Haha Nam it will be interesting to see who else takes this personally! Maybe we have all either done something we regret, or have had something done to us that we really do hope the other person now regrets!
CC, I thought I had put it all behind me, and you are so right, no lasting harm was done and it certainly isn't worth any more thought! I think, I hope, that's the last time I even think of it.
Do you think it's because you let someone get so much closer than in a conventional friendship? Seems to me I can relax with an ex because there are no surprises left!
But a friendship that always had an edge of potential - hmm. Could be very interesting.
Sometimes - we should realize what we do on the spur of the moment could wreck other people's lives. And sometimes, when we do it for exactly that reason, we should also have the facts straight first.
I don't know who you are talking about, but I'm talking to one person. Wish she could read this blog. Who knows, maybe she will yet.
Lou I made the mistake of disapproving of my daughter's choice, whoops. He's actually a really nice guy and they are cool but sheesh, mums are the pits, they want the world for their daughters. No wonder the mother in law is the figure from hell!
Whoops answered that as an ex question - I have stayed friendly with a couple of exes and anyway not a problem when a female friend meets someone, because you can always work around that. Boys nights out leave girls free to blether and catch up.
Yup usually I am pleased for them when they meet someone new. But there's often that awkward thing about the new bird not wanting the ex anywhere near. And once or twice where the new bird is an absolute disaster waiting to happen and anything you say sounds so dog in the mangerish ...
Lou to be honest I never completely approve of 'the friends' especially if they pre-date me, and want to keep my fella to themselves. But in the long run we've usually, as you say, either sorted it out or worked out a custody agreement.
Touch wood never had it happen in a relationship yet, although I've had exs go on to fairly dire women before now. Poor guys, their reason had been affected ...
Perfect timing all round then - and I am assuming the new someone isn't gingerish, good choice. I'm the only nice gingery person I know and even then not everyone agrees
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Ish are you THAT difficult? Because there's for sure one seriously interested admirer and maybe more out there!My friends were a bit taken aback when I joined CS and even more taken aback when I started seeing someone. Now they've got used to the idea that I'm going through my second
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