Particolor--> Haha..I know what you meant, but that's also the way they say it too, at least in US..that's an idiom..saying have the cake and eat it too. What I guess is he's been given a cake by someone, and he's eating it too without she's knowing it. IT'S AN IDIOM Particolor.
Inthemind--> Oh yes she touch him, she kiss him passionately, but he just turns cold. She took him when she need to be elsewhere on business, she always combines it into a romantic get away, but he's the one that having the 'headache'.
She and I we are in the same group of business social network. Once in the few times we have our meetings, and she always took him with her. I told her maybe he 'change' maybe he like men more than woman, but dont know what how to say it to her....I dont know..
10k..why is it always the fault on the woman? Why is it because one woman or one bad experience of one man with a woman automatically means that every woman is bad? Indeed there some woman that will always nagging, and complaining all the time, but there are also guys that acting as if the whole world is revolving around him. Even though I was raised with many male role models in my life, it doesn't make me blind thinking that guys is ok and women are bad.
They are many good woman out there, as for this business acquaintance of mine, even though she is a business acquaintance I know her quite well. She is not the type that stay home and nag, the way I see it, he can't stand the fact that she is successful. I think jealous that financial she is much stronger than he is. Even though she share everything, there are some guys out there who wants to see that woman should stay at home and take care the children. Stay home, be beautiful take care the children bare footed and pregnant.
The fact that he never touch her anymore, I see it as if he punish her for being independent.
stephengriff That's is exactly what it was. He lost me, and my life is going great, and he really thought that I will lay down and die. I can't love someone who doesn't want to be love. Send you a message with my email add, no worries.
I was posting an image about failing..on Windows I didn't see what's the problem..it's more about funny error on Windows.. aaaahahahaha..wait..I get it..this is a date, connecting..and the funny message about failing...yup ok I got it.
Particolor--> Talking about better luck next time, yeah..that's what I do, I wont let that bad experience put me down, be bitter or whatever. So...I will just have some fun and see what's next..
Adamisk....I just need to clear something up..that's all. At times you need to make your self laugh, and I do that often. Just laugh it out, people comes and goes in this life, we all just need to move on.
In this case....in my case..I called my ex husband, ex partner as EX-Files. Why? Well with them came also a long document of papers from the lawyers and all things that came with divorce and separation...all those doc's I put it on a file...gave it a name..the Ex-Files.
Calliopesgirl--> aloof, yes I recognize myself in there..there are some aspect of truth in it..ok...but I wont lead my life because Aquarius says I have to follow that path. I will just live my life because it's the way I want it, and I'm comfortable with it.
I know that too 10k...just doing him a favor...to put it in here. he thought it might help me...HAH!! well whatever I dont really believe in such things..
"This means that the relationships you already foster will grow more deep and meaningful" --> Excuse me? I already foster? When is that happen? How come that I didn't notice that?
Naah..leave it be, I dont think that anybody notice it...will be leaving soon, still need to deal with some loose ends...I'm taking the train this time, why? Too many speeding tickets lately. At the Autobahn it will be fun though, but from Amsterdam to the border..that's...tricky for me...so better be safe than sorry, take the train leave the car at home, and can be very relaxing in the train.... I think!!
Good luck Jim... I'm on my way too..for me it's work though..need to be in Düsseldorf, Germany..Amsterdam-Düsseldorf...I go by train, I could go by car, but I have too many speeding tickets lately..so I better play it safe this time, and I can relax...in the train..so...see ya all when I get back.
that's another thing I forgot to put on my blog, Just Me...that I am very impulsive...like now..give a comment and just put my email add over there, now everybody will email me..oh well..whatever..
stephengriff --> Really? No...I can't wear t-shirt to my work.I need to give a good example.
Today will be something I hope, I hope...if not well Saturday maybe something..anyone in Amsterdam wants to have a cup of coffee with me on Saturday? Just sit on a good terrace and watch people go by and relax?
Adamisk --> One of my female friends read my blog and said, well..I dont like gossip either..so here by I apologize, yes I remember she is different on that subject too. But that's the only thing, further more she said..she need to remember all the things her boy friend has done to her, when I asked her why, she said that it is important to do so. But still why?
10k--> Off course every women they have their own like and dislike. And my dislike in this option is shopping. Am I a dream girl? I dont know, my previous partner he loves shopping, and I hate it. So he always go on his own, at times I go with him, and then I will join most of the guys who's waiting outside the store, and just having a bad time...LOL!!!
Rowdy--> Unique well like I said everyone is unique. I can't say that is unique..well maybe it is, because most women LOVE shopping.
Inthemind--> For my female friends, I'm a curse. Because their husband would say to them..."why dont you be like Stevie, she hates shopping" Hahaha....that's not nice either, I mean..each person is different, and..maybe there are something in me which other women have and I dont. Just to see it in a balance I guess.
Hi omgamike... I know..that's what I'm doing. @adamisk...well anything but snakes....I dont mind spiders, not afraid for rats, mouse or mice just not snakes, they are so ..snakes..Lol..
Like I said before, I will never make my partner jealous. But out of experience, somehow I have two relationships which gone wrong, and both of that ended because they were jealous of me, the fact that I have many friends, and it seems wherever I go I always ended up having new friends, not that I search for it. And both men in my life, they were always busy looking at the guys that wanted something from me. Even though I told them, that they need to concentrate on US, not about other people. If I give my heart to someone, it is for that person. I have many friends yes, but that's it, they are just friends. They are not friends with agenda, friends with benefits..no because even though I am open minded, I'm still very old school when comes to relationships. But it seems both men thinks differently, and in order to make me feel what they felt, they tried to make me jealous by flirting with other women, but that's the thing..I will never ever jealous. To me it's simple, if you do that, it means you are insecure. It means you are not secure of my love, and I can't make you feel secure. You need to do that on your own, the only thing I can give you is my heart and my love, and if that still make you insecure, then..I dont know. The first thing in relationship, if you feel not comfortable, then you need to talk with the one you're having relationship with, but not go outside and thinking if I do this then maybe she knows what I mean. I am a person when I dont like something I will talk to the person that make me feel that way. I wont talk to a girl friend, or family or other people, but THE person it self. Just straight and open card, this is what I feel, let's resolve it. And when it resolve, it means IT IS RESOLVED. Move on...what's next. Life is short.
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Particolor--> Haha..I know what you meant, but that's also the way they say it too, at least in US..that's an idiom..saying have the cake and eat it too.What I guess is he's been given a cake by someone, and he's eating it too without she's knowing it.
IT'S AN IDIOM Particolor.