Get Busy Living

Life happens, live with it. Don't fear life, or what might happen.

In this life there are a lot of things that might harm you, even falling in love brings so much at risk, but when it happened to you, you're not going to say, I don't want it because it might hurt me and I wont survived? Or you going to grab that feeling and live with it? Or you could just stay away and be lonely all your life, that's another way to prevent your self from getting hurt by love. But no one ever do that, unless you are willing to commit your self to one of the convent, you make your vows to be loyal to God, and live only for Him. Then yes, no one will hurt your heart again. You will be safe in every meaning of the word.

So many dangerous things in this world. You might slip in the bathroom and you fall and injured your head, and if the worst come to the worst you died because of it.Your wonderful life with your family is gone.

Or you might one day receive this bad news from your GP, telling you that you got cancer, and you only have 6 months to live. So what you do? Just curled up and stay in bed until the day you close your eyes forever? Or are you going to do something, enjoy your life and all the things life offers you, though it might be the last time, but you will live your life the fullest. So what's your choice?

We all can get hurt in this life, love, accident and if you like me loving extreme sport then you might got hurt. And sometimes you just want that the hurting stop, but it didn't. Somehow you hope that one day this pain in your heart will subsides. And sometimes that hope doesn't come that easy, and it makes you a bit restless, as if there is no chance for you to be happy anymore.


To love some one so much that you dedicate your life and time to protect the one you love is very precious thing to do. Whether it's to protect them from harm or you just want them to have a good life a perfect life and having it all the best. But it can boomerang you, because it will suffocates the one that you love. They wont appreciate it, they're not going to see it as a sign of your love, but they would feel as if you put them in a cage. You can call this cage " love " but they wont experience it as love.


I'm kind of reckless person, but I know my boundary. And my boundary it might not be your boundary, or anybody else for that matter. But I do know, how far I can go, and when it's time to stop. You may think that I pushing my luck, it might be seems like that. But I know it isn't so. I've known my self for about 49 years. Well, maybe someone would say, well I know you much better than you know yourself. Maybe, but still I don't belong in a cage. I want to live my life the fullest, without any fear. Like my dad always said to me:Get busy living, because life might just catch you and give you a bad present, you got to enjoy it while you still can. But never fear of what life might give you, because fear will paralyzes you in many ways!

It doesn't mean that you have to jump into something without even thinking, off course you got to think about the risk and what kind of impact it will be for your love one. I do understand about that all, you might think that I don't. But I do. I just don't like it if someone who ever that person is, telling what I must do or don't. Have faith in me. Give me the benefit of a doubt. Don't judge me by the things you heard.

Dont put limitation on me, because I wont do that to someone that I love. And I wont demand him to be only with me or talk to me, or spend his time with me only, I wont isolate the person that I love. The one that I love will still have his own freedom, as long as he's not going to ABUSE those privileges. We live in this world where you see and meet many people, new ones and old ones. So go on living, enjoy their company. Unless, you live in a deserted island. I love you all. Remember life happens, so live with it.

Conclusion, protection it's ok within loving limits...