Let me see. Romance is not just about the flowers and the poetry though that's quite nice. More is being able to deliver on all the sweet words men dish out!
Yes its rare to find someone you can trust. Sometimes though you just have to forgive too because we as human beings are not perfect. The closest I've come to that feeling of trust has been with my Mom.
I don't agree with Oscar Wilde though I do love his plays! The crux of the matter is being lucky enough to find that friendship. It may entail a lot of waiting. Also I think, you have to have the attitude that you will be fine whether you find it or not.
Jim isn't mentioning names. So if the shoe fits... He does has a point though but I know some in real life too. They need medication but they aren't taking it because they think there is nothing wrong with them.
Lana I didn't realize I copied your blog! Yep I do agree that's the way men on dating sites are! But what can we do with the way things are? I guess just keep searching for that men in the haystack.
Of course you need some level of physical attraction but being hot is not all that is needed. For me, the guy has to be sincere, romantic and be a good friend before he can be anything else.
@Jim Not too many hot guys on dating sites either.
We can't choose our family unfortunately. However there is always, at least one person, that truly cares for us and is supportive of us. I think I was lucky. I had wonderful grandparents growing up. Wish they were both still here. My Mom is my best friend. If not family, then I'm sure you have at least one person who cares. Be grateful for even one!
I just saw "Unknown" with Liam Neeson. It was very good. Another good one is Matthew McConnaughy. Geez now I can't even remember how to spell his last name. The movie was geez now can't remember the name! Something with Lawyer in it!
Ah still hoping I feel the same but why settle for less? After all if you wait this long you might as well continue to do so! At least that's how I think! Meanwhile enjoy whatever interesting guy comes your way. I think its good to just have fun!
Still hoping They say that good things come to those who wait! @Morgen So you just had to prove me wrong huh with the marriage thing?? Are there Harvard graduates on this site? Seriously Morg I am not looking for perfection either. Smart is good college is not a requirement!
I do understand. Am looking for the same myself. It is better to be honest. Just saying that a lot of guys are the way I described so finding that is hard. I had a guy say once say he found the headline "searching for soulmate" offputting. Yeah I said I was looking for him doesn't mean he's YOU!
@voztok I love that Arabic proverb! Yes, perhaps you are all right! Certainly I agree its better to be single and reasonably happy then in a miserable relationship!
RE: One for the Women on CS , Who's the most romantic
Ah 10k more sarcasm huh! That can be a bitter cup to drink every day!