Still_Hoping

Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 2011

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What's wrong with my profile?

Please, feel free to have a look at it and tell me what you think. What's wrong with it? Is it the way I describe myself? Is it what I am looking for? The photos?
Haven't been lucky here, at all! I receive lots of mails everyday, ok...maybe 1 or 2 worthy to read...I maybe reply to one of them and then, 10 minutes of chat or mails exchange, what seemed to be a promising chance of a future "something", sinks...
Is it really that hard for everyone here to find a person who really matchs your search and get along great with you or I am part os a unlucky minority?
I am not desperate, just tired of being single. I am not picky, but won't give a chance to everyone who writes to me, just because I am available.
Also, not only scammers, but "LOTS" of people don't read your full profile before contacting you. And then they want you to belive they are really interested in you. If they don't even take the time to read about you!
Go figure!

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Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Jul 29, 2011●360 Comments

I do understand. Am looking for the same myself. It is better to be honest. Just saying that a lot of guys are the way I described so finding that is hard. I had a guy say once say he found the headline "searching for soulmate" offputting. Yeah I said I was looking for him doesn't mean he's YOU!

Still_HopingOP●Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 29, 2011●13 Blogs●30 Comments

quite frustrating, don't you think?? :-S

Still_HopingOP●Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 29, 2011●13 Blogs●30 Comments

hi morgenulv,
do u think I use complicated language? aww...the name thing is easy to change! well, it seems I'll have to re-think my "about me"!!
;-)

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Jul 29, 2011●360 Comments

Still hoping They say that good things come to those who wait!
@Morgen So you just had to prove me wrong huh with the marriage thing?? Are there Harvard graduates on this site? Seriously Morg I am not looking for perfection either. Smart is good college is not a requirement!

Still_HopingOP●Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 29, 2011●13 Blogs●30 Comments

that's the thing, how long do we have to wait? I want to enjoy the good things now, alive! not in heaven or whatever!! lol

JimNastics●Kingston, New Jersey USA

Jul 29, 2011●1,965 Blogs●11,843 Comments

My suggestion is to us a different main photo, as your current one is VERY overexposed. One can't even tell from it, if you have cheeks or a nose.

Other than that, the profile looks good for someone seeking a "curvy" lady. Good luck !

Belle936●Somewhere, Florida USA

Jul 29, 2011●360 Comments

Ah still hoping I feel the same but why settle for less? After all if you wait this long you might as well continue to do so!

At least that's how I think! Meanwhile enjoy whatever interesting guy comes your way. I think its good to just have fun!

Still_HopingOP●Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 29, 2011●13 Blogs●30 Comments

hi JimNastics, well, I change the main photo from time to time, I don't think this is the problem...
Thanks Belle!! ;-)

Frankinstien●San Juan, Puerto Rico

Jul 29, 2011●1,830 Comments

Dear Still, Well you are a nice looking woman and that is about half of the prosses there . Your self discription is rather long . Skip all the details about your name, your family , job or home details . these things can be discovered when you meet your prospective partner . Never say anything negative about anything ( I will not respond to anyone over 45, etc. ). Just thank them for interest if they do, but tell them no thank you at that time . Also ask them to contact you . You can say things like " So I will like hearing from you ". or " now that you know a little about me , call me so I can know more about you " . I also would not state you are looking for marriage . If it gets serious then talk about it . Remember also, you have to kiss a lot of froggs to get a prince . . . . .

morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 29, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

To put it like this: if ur ad was at harvard's connecting students page (lol) thay might wonder why its so short...

And i dont REALLY mean ur language is diffi, ...just saying HERE kaywords and humor may work better on getting the conv started.

But u know... in a way i agree with sorting the apples from the mandarines early...so:

Dunno really: symphatia though.

The rule is undubtably: if it dosent work, try a different approach.

Me started with a half page and long detailed resume.
I ended up with 3 lines, emoticons and a youtube-song.

Than with a little help from blogs i finally got better results.

stillbluerain●Rochelle, Illinois USA

Jul 29, 2011●20 Blogs●168 Comments

good luck soulmates and true love is haed to find my friend

baltus67●Kolkata, West Bengal India

Jul 29, 2011●7 Blogs●811 Comments

Still Hoping. Nothing wrong with youre profile as I can see?
I just accept that it precludes me.

good luck!

10kOhms●sliema, Majjistral Malta

Jul 29, 2011●1,826 Comments

nothing is wrong with u profile and nothing is wrong with u apparence... that's as far as we can get through a website so...

... if indeed u can't get a bf, look else where for the prob

I mean something like u r beeing too pedantic perhaps... or too disinterested or something on those lines...

be reasonable.

particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Jul 29, 2011●9,376 Comments

That was a sneaky way to get all the guys to take a peek at you ..Wasnt it ???

morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 29, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

Hehe ..Parti...ehh... i peeked b4 even...

Still_HopingOP●Sao Paulo, Brazil

Jul 29, 2011●13 Blogs●30 Comments

haha, Paricolor, haven't thought about that! lol
Thanks Houston4!!

Stoveking●Guilin, Guangxi China

Jul 30, 2011●3 Comments

i'd hit dat

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