expecting too much??

not sure if I am an old fashioned girl or I watch to many romantic films and then expect too much from men.
Tired of hearing that I am so nice, attractive, cool, bla bla bla, how come I am still single and all that. They say they are interested and then what? Nothing! Only words, nothing more!
It seems guys don't want commitment or they want to keep their options....
There was a guy who said he was really interested in me. I've known him online for over a year. He wanted to come to Brazil to meet me in December and I said I wouldn't be here and told him he could meet me in London, that I would be there. He told me he wasn't really interested in visiting London...oops! did he want to meet me or coming to Brazil then???
The other one says he is interested, really interested but won't ask me questions, won't send me recent photos, don't show any interest!
And I have lots of other examples I could write here...
So that thing about a guy taking the chance and making an effort to win a girl's heart doesn't really exist, right?
Really, I am so confused at the moment that I can't even put in words what I wanted to say.
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Nice to see u here again though, u diden't forget your blog family. cheers
How did it go with the business man from caribbian who wanted a translater?
hi morgenulv ,

hehe, he was angry at me!!! I don't reply to his messages anymore and had to block him on skype!
Aw, that's bad!
Thanks, Belly18!
It's just so frustrating sometimes!
if you are really interested in someone, won't you make an effort to get to know as much as you can about that person and if he/she still interests you, won't you do something about it??
tip hat
"Love lives on in the words and dies in action, at least the love of poets", Marina Tsvetaeva.

Still Hoping, it's Sunday, comforted, at least tonight, thinking that perhaps were poets, and they did not try to play with your feelings!
sad flower wave
doh Marina Tsvietáieva
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