Most men love to shop?!

Ladies, how many times have you gone to a store with your guy and you find yourself wanting to just "brows" or you are just enjoying just "being there" and looking at all of the great buys and products? When your man looks at you bewildered and says something like: "Have you found what you were looking for?" and you say :"yes ...why is there a rush?" so he says :"well when I go into a store I know exactly what I want, get it and leave, simple as that. I don't waist time."

Hhhmm, makes sense doesn't it? and yet when it comes to "shopping around for a mate the men(MOST< NOT ALL) seem to exhibit the same behavior as the women do when shopping for clothes or shoes.

It seems that men for the most part really enjoy the "shopping part" and many have a hard time choosing or perhaps even leaving a dating site which I compare to a "shopping mall" because they are caught up in all of the great deals and choices. The women on the other hand are like men in stores when "shopping for a mate" they usually know exactly what they want , get it and have no problem leaving.cool

Just my observation on the matter anyway. Is it just me ?...who would agree or disagree?
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I agree...Hobby Lobby here I come
dancing
A minor ammendment if I may?

They are more like a kid in a toy store, I'd say . . .

dunno

totally overwhelmed with the variety of options, and very easily distracted . . .grin
Knows what im looking for.
Perhaps im in the right shop.
At least i believe im in the right mall.

nerd

Hey Morg, nice to see someone knows what they're looking for . . thumbs up Now you just have to find it at the price you're willing to paygrin

wine Here's to finding it

Loved the songdancing
Lana, If you can do it without waisting time ( Shopping for a mate ), then there there is hope for you in the mall .. .laugh laugh laugh . . . . ..the ( sometimes impatient ) Black Knight . .cool
Lana I didn't realize I copied your blog!blushing laugh Yep I do agree that's the way men on dating sites are! But what can we do with the way things are? I guess just keep searching for that men in the haystack. laugh
First,usually I like to go shopping by my self Only!!.
to enjoy everything I look at. I like to take time..not to be in rush.

"Have you found what you were looking for?" and you say :"yes ...why is there a rush?" so he says :"well when I go into a store I know exactly what I want, get it and leave, simple as that. I don't waist time."

yes,right I noticed most of Men do this and say this.but,I understand that coz the man usually when he goes to any store ,he goes for a goal,which means ;
For men, shopping is a mission. They are out to buy a targeted item and flee the store as quickly as possible,so,they just buy a specific tool and get out.

there are some researches done about how Men react for shopping..they found that,"Women think of shopping in an inter-personal, human fashion and men treat it as more instrumental. It's a job to get done,"

also found that women are more likely to experience problems while shopping than men -- 53% vs. 48%, with women over age 40 reporting more problems than men in the same age group.

so,," Lana" I agree with you.hug handshake
YUP - they do liiike to browse. very mad
I'de like to add that it would be so much easier and less stressful if all men used the same approach when searching for a mate as they do when looking for a pair of pants:

Do they fit? Can I afford them and are they durablethumbs up laugh cool
@lana - agree - just frikkin pick one you lummoxes!!! grrrrrvery mad
"The women on the other hand are like men in stores when "shopping for a mate" they usually know exactly what they want , get it and have no problem leaving."

Really? Uh, your "guy" may go shopping with you for stuff but would you really go with him when he's checking out the "Candy Shop" for other women?

YEESHHH!!!
"Last nite I saw that beauty queen, watched her paint her face on, lastnite I saw that beauty queen. shes getting high on revlon..." what attracts women to that cosmetics counter anyway? LOL
Lana when Im "shopping" i know exactly what Im looking for and as I look around the "store" the only part that I look at is if what I want is there and if it comes with bonus features.. thats even better!!!!peace
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