Stuck
It seems that everyone agrees with the fact that being alone is no fun but when we are in a relationship do we still appreciate the fact that we have someone special to hold?? Or do we begin to feel "stuck" at some point?Do we forget how precious it is to have someone special in our lives or does a part of us begin to admire those who are single and seemingly "fancy free" after a while?
Do you find yourself looking for flaws and imperfections after a while of being together as if you are subconsciously yet purposely sabotaging the relationship and are you aware that you do this but do not know why?
Are you a "grass is always greener somewhere else" kind of person or do you cherish what you have while you have it ALWAYS~ even in difficult times??
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There are a lot of married people who want to be single and a lot of single people who want to be married.
Seems as if the divorce bug went around like a virus.Many of our friends and co-workers, never thought it would happen to us.
I read somewhere if your best friend gets divorced your chances go up dramatically.
Though I am far from perfect this is one thing that I am thankful for....the fact that I am the kind of person who cherishes what I have even through the disagreements , difficult times and hardships I must say that I never allow myself to take someone special for granted.
Having someone special who loves and adores me to me is and always will be a priceless gift.
Either cut it twice as often or if it really bothers you that much just jump on over to the other side and pitch a tent
Sixty Minutes once asked Willie Nelson about divorce.He,said "Why are divorces so expensive,because there worth it".
When I said "you" I meant people in general and not you personally...just a correction. Sorry
but, right now i'm stuck looking..
Who would write the foward? What about the very first chapter?
Ever gave it any thought?
Yes, the "other side of the fence" sometimes does come with surprises which are not very pleasant.
Its 10:30pm here...getting late
The only time I felt stuck is when my marriage got worse and my husband was not treating me right..Thats when I decided to get out..Took me two years to finally do it though.
guess why im not marrying the first and best..
guess whay i use time selecting the right one and even getting myself and the other canidates hurt in the prosess (cos it costs abit to leave somebody u have spoken a while with behind, still being in dubt). See?
Its the "player" talking.
Its only human and yet I think some of us do it much more than others.....I believe this mentality may be what keeps some of us living our lives alone. It might be wise to really look at ourselves and understand why we do this if it is something we tend to do a lot and why we would WANT to be in another relationship in the first place when we know this will most probably happen again
Yes, it is important to be in a healthy relationship and to know that you are safe with the person you are with no doubt
morgen,
Taking your time is wise
so we need some divine intervention.
I wanna make the grass so green in my garden that greener dosen't exsist. So i guess im looking for another gardener.
This increases the chance the marriage will "last".
I think this is why more marriages lasted in the 50's and 60's and before that, because people took their time courting and getting to know each other on a emotional level and didnt jump into bed too soon.
They in other words found their soulmate and got married.
Not just someone to marry.