OK thats it!
I waited and waited for someone to post a controversial blog or something exciting so I guess its up to me to stir things up a little so here goes:MEN...who are they and what do they want from us? At times it seems that they are some sort of alien life form and we are but mere prey as they wait to devour our very souls----> in other words this dating stuff can be a pain in the ars
So tell us guys what do ya want from us? Come out with it. Do not be afraid to describe what your idea of the perfect female would be or the perfect situation for a relationship.
We (females) eagerly await your response
Comments (98)
"yes master
lol...actually with a woman just bring commitment and chocolate...simple. See?
daniel,
uh......
Feeling brave tonight are we??
Lana- Okay, I'll add chocolat.
Well put....
will,
chocolate is a necessity!!
belle,
Ooops. Forgot...did I say commitment?
This video was taken after the brain damage thing happened right?
We are puzzled by this at times.But look we are portrayed on every commercial and sitcom as bumbling bafoons.
When we fail to bring bliss its not always intentional.
some truth to both comments....and I agree that its not just a guy thing it could go both ways in different ways I guess...know what I mean?
or like this--->>
Personally, I thought Willie Wonka was hot....just my opinion
Violet are you turning violet?
"Nothing is wrong" ... that I can bring myself to tell you... ???
People put up barriers to communication. A healthy relationship has few of these barriers.
> Allow the other person to say what they feel. Do not dismiss an issue as not being worthy... it implies the same of the person who shared it and discourages them from sharing in the future.
> Ask and listen. If you want to try to fix it, ask first. They might just need you to agree it's a problem... just looking for understanding... they may want to fix it by themselves.
> Speak your mind and accept what is said when they do the same.
> Encourage communication... always.
Mutual respect, courtesy, and understanding are huge but won't happen unless both people allow it and encourage it.
I can't speak for everyone but for myself, I want someone who understands things like this and is interested in discovering more.
oh ... I forgot emoticons ...
Does this make sense?
You want to know what we want from you,you ask a hundred guys and get a hundred different answers.Maybe we can glean some common denominators in here before the nights over.
Im glad you posted this,its interesting.Do you sir the pot at work or in your circle of friends? there's always one in every crowd.keeps things exciting
I treated my ex husband very well, had a home cooked romantic dinner every night ready for him when he got home. I would massage his feet and treated him like a king. My kids were little , I would make sure everything was perfect because I knew that he worked hard. There were times that he would not get home till midnight or two in the morning ....drunk. I remember once he lifted the roasted chicken and potatoes dinner that I made and asked me "what is this?" I said "chicken and potatoes" he then gave me a crazed look and threw it on the floor...then went to bed. I cried all night and never made dinner again after that....never.