OK thats it!

I waited and waited for someone to post a controversial blog or something exciting so I guess its up to me to stir things up a little so here goes:


MEN...who are they and what do they want from us? At times it seems that they are some sort of alien life form and we are but mere prey as they wait to devour our very souls----> in other words this dating stuff can be a pain in the arshelp

So tell us guys what do ya want from us? Come out with it. Do not be afraid to describe what your idea of the perfect female would be or the perfect situation for a relationship.

We (females) eagerly await your responselaugh grin wavedrinking
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John Lennon and the Beatles probably were the largest positive influence in my lifetime and they made a huge difference. But I don't see that happening again in my lifetime.

I can only do what's right in my heart and hope others see it too.

I think too many are on the wrong path for the wrong reasons. Many who know me think I'm strange and that includes my family but I can't change who I am. I've tried to change to make others happy and it failed miserably.

I don't worry about those I can't help or who don't care.i live by my convictions and often feel I'm the only one who has it right but I also know everyone feels that way so to each his own.

Maybe the internet will help change the world for the good but I feel it will be over run by those who want to control us.

When the power of love over comes the love of power the world will know peace.
Jimi Hendrix.

Ok m putting in a movie now and need some more wine lol.

Goodnight my new friends.
Oh and one more thing for my list, respectful or themselves, of me and what I do for him and his home, yep I think that about covers it, might think of something else doh
Yes I did think of one more thing, likes to cuddle in the morning grin
Lana, it is really a great blog.And it need the same thought and understanding to reply.cheers
Yazz & Lana- All that you explained there, isn't that one would call common social skills? I don't know for others, but those things were thought to me when I grew up, and for most people I know it's not different...treat others as you want to be treated yourself
Willem, one would think so, but I often have to wonder . . . social skills seems to have taken a dive along with basic human valuesconversing
and yazz,
I hope you included :" must bring me chocolate on your list!" ...geesh! thats one of the most important thingsroll eyes laugh
@coffee,
This is very true ....communication has become something which is based mostly on facts, information and data rather than consideration and is void for the most part of any emotional connection. Just one of the down sides of the internet.cool
(monologue with myself).......need to bring chocolate, need to bring chocolate....no, don't taste before you gave it..need to bring chocolate...hmmmm,need to bring for two, love chocolate....need to bring chocolate
Now Willem, I sure hope I'm on that list for the chocolatescold
hahaalaugh Infact, here we most often offer flowers, it goes for almost any occasion. Chocolate as a gift is more personnel so I dont give it away that quickly.
Coffy, im bringing some with me! U can count on that!
Thanks for the tip Lana.

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Morg, I'll hold you to thatwink heart beating
willem,

See how my advice pays off...you already have women after you for your chocolatelaugh ...no need to thank mewave grin
No problem morgen......if theres anything that I cannot emphasize enough to you guys its this:

DON'T FORGET THE CHOCOLATE!! thumbs up (trust me , you'll be glad you listened to me) cool
Lana, I'm sorry to hear that you had that experience. Maybe I can shed some light or maybe you already know.

When I got married something happened to me. I'm not sure exactly what it was but I think I felt some anger about losing my freedom and my indivuality in a sense.

During our separation we use to talk about what happened and how things fell apart and my ex made a comment that struck home with me.she said she felt I didn't like being married even though she knew I loved her. She had sensed some anger that I never exhibited before. It wasn't abusive but it was there. She said it was subtle and barely noticeable yet it was there.
That made me think a lot about that emotion and she was right. I really never realized it until that day.

It makes me wonder if having a child could cause that same type of thing. I actually think its what my ex experienced with post Pardo. Depression. All of a sudden the realization hits us that our lives ate forever changed and now someone is dependant on us for the rest of our lives. Its a scary thing to deal with and we all feel things a bit differently.

My ex really had post pardon bad yet I was never happier,opposite of our marriage.

Just something to think about.
Emotions are as unique as the individual. I really find emotions interesting and have obsessed over them all my life.
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