Southern man

I met my good friend who I haven't hung out with for a while today for lunch and she was glowing...haven't seen her that happy in years so I asked her what was new? She said that she has met someone special.

You see she like me has been divorced for about 4 years now and has been dating the past two years ....she has so much to offer the right guy but has not had much luck finding the right one. This week however had been different she said.

She has met a man who she said is different than any guy she has ever dated. I asked her to explain. She said: "He is from the south where it is still ok to be nice to your date."laugh I had to laugh at hearing this. I had never heard this before.

She told me that he was a true southern gentleman. He brought her roses a picnic basket filled with her favorite foods, home made pecan fudge that he made from scratch (is he kidding?) grin fruit, cheese , wine....he even gave her a long massage. Unbelievablewow

I said are you kidding? She said "No! This was the best date that I have ever been on in my life." and she went on to say "He is not the best looking guy in the world but his personality makes up for everything! He is incredible!" She said that he was just so genuinely nice and considerate that it blew her away.

I was really happy for her and I could tell that she is , finally happy. She does deserve it.wine


Southern charm~ Southern hospitality......is there something to that, really? I wonder.
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are there any 'true southern gentlewomen' around there too? I'd love to get one for meself...

... please tell her to include a good variety of fresh fish and shellfish and above anything else, plenty of lager in the mentioned basket.... Thanks.

laugh
yes lana , us southern men are the best , and we wont give you a cold sholder like those northern men

wave wave kiss hug
10K,
They would be called "southern Bells."laugh
10k, you got me cracking up....
virgo,
Ah yes, southern New Zealand menthumbs up laugh wave
I don`t know much about the States... But I have heard that Southern Comfort can get to youre head...cool wine bouquet
Lana, Yall come back now ya heaa !
@lana

didn't have a clue of the name ("southern Bells") ... but that certainly is secondary to the basket! smitten (<- for the basket)
@sands

beer beer
Hi, Virgo! wave Really?confused
they would not buy anything else ..wave
balt
Southern comfort is a different storylaugh wave


Frank,
Take your shoes off ...set a spelldrinking laugh
@Frank

....and I'd love 'at!! roll eyes
Well Lana thank you mam, don't mind if I do .
Us Southern Blokes treat our Shiellas real Grouse.....When the Kegs empty!!!!...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing help doh bouquet
Lucky her.. Did she meet him online Lana?
Fer cryyn out loud,putcha shoes bek on and git out ... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Swiss,
She did meet him online but on another site....I am getting the name of itthumbs up laugh wave
I have to add that the thing I was impressed with was how she said he treated her as though she was so special and not like he had another 10 women waiting in line. This is rare today. I told her that when a man is this kind and thoughtful how important are his looks ...really??

I personally will take a genuinely, nice, sincere personality over great looks any day!thumbs up peace
True Swiss,
There does have to be some sort of physical attraction to some degree but you know what they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" what is attractive can mean something different to everyone and hey, if he is overweight that can be changed but a man's character remains unchanged forever....

I will email youwink
Lana/Swiss, Very true that looks and Chemistry are very important, but not the only thing. Personality is it, afterall we are all looking for the "one". The one we spend the rest of our lives with. Looks come and go, but your personality doesn't change. How you treat others doesn't change. There is more to chemistry than just looks as well. How you interact, what your interest are, this all goes into making your decision on finding that one special person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Good luck!
A man doesn't have to be from a southern state of the U.S. to be respectful to a woman. He learns to respect people from his parents, particularly his father. IF the father respected his own mother then he will teach his child. Child rearing years are what make you who you are...bouquet
How nice for her Lana to find such a great man! And I'm sure she spoils him back! I often wonder about Southern men!

Agree Montecito and sadly it's lacking!

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