Which would you choose?

I don't know if any of you have ever had the experience of being out with someone who was totally hung up on outer appearance, money and superficiality. Well I have and one thing that is usually and generally lacking is....fun!

People who may not be as "pretty" or "rich" tend to not care as much what others think and they for the most part are more themselves making the whole date such a more pleasant relaxed experience.

I have gone out with some guys in the past that were far from what most people would consider "handsome" or even "successful" mostly for this reason and I have had guys ask me things like: "What the heck do you see in him?" and I would simply smile and say "I think hes hot."rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Hi Lana! A charming personality can make up for a lot! smitten
music,
I know it sounds so cliche but personality really is huge! I love a man who can be charming and funny...and even if in the beginning I am not impressed with his looks he could win me over with his personallity .wine
@Lana good for u ! now ur seeing potential in every frog, even if he remains untransformed, if u like....cool ...i bet ur singleton days are numbered......drinking wine grin

i believe not in extremes....right/left confused...i ll pass both.....cool
That goes for women too.beer
i like your view,cause what you have really is someone who has no mask on.its just the person and you,no bs or cheap attention span.and if it with you win ,win on both end.complament somewhere in there.innocent
@Lana So true. Love a guy that makes me laugh so hard my tummy hurts! I'm happy to always hear from him cause I know he's a good time! But at the same time, some guys that are really funny, are sometimes never serious. Everything is a joke....so you need a good balance of both.
@African Sometimes you do luck out and make a really cute guy smitten with the great personality! We are all attracted by looks first! Personality 2nd I think! Sometimes personality comes out on top!
Dear lana, Even though you look like Betty Boop , I still love you for your fun loving and witty personality . . . .Boop boop be doop !. . . . . . laugh laugh laugh . . . . . .the ( fun loving ) Black Knight . .cool
@African Sorry to hear that! But you are a young girl and have lots of time to find the one. It just wasn't in your plans to be with that other one. Something better will come your way. comfort hug
Yes I agree with music,
You have a much different perspective when you are young and you have so much time.....wave
summer,
laughmy idea of "a frog" is a guy who doesn't understand what the true priorities in his life should be. Someone who is clueless as to what he needs in his life is a frog to me. Substance of character is everything. teddybear
To knoowww me is to luv me
I'm so perfect in everyyy wayyy

I can't wait to wake up each morning
I get better looking each daydancing
That's a toad Lana! Yuck!barf
Hi Swiss! Nice to see you and I totally agree with you! thumbs up bouquet
wave Hi Jana..Ya us women dont have to settle..we can choose a man who is attractive on the outside as well as on the inside.
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Blueeyes, I was thinking about that too. I had written a post about an experience but backed up too far and lost it and didn't feel like writing it again lol.

But I've had plenty of women come on to me and treat me right but my heart just wasn't in it. Now my ex was no beauty queen but I fell in love with her heart.

I don't think there is anyway to say who you will fall for but looks are usually very important. I have thought some women were not very attractive until I got to know them better and they became more attractive but that feeling just wasn't there.
I agree with Lana. Many times, people that are handsome or beautiful are too full of themselves. Same with rich people. I know for a fact that Bill Gates, for example, won't give the time of day to anyone who's less rich than him. Oftentimes, it's the geeky person, less handsome, or "plainer" person who has loving feelings inside for people. And these types of people are far more willing to accept people into their lives than the stuck-up people would be. So to the gals and guys who are always finishing last, I say more power to you, because you are the ones who will have so much more to offer to that special person when he or she comes along! So just keep trying and you'll find what you're looking for.
Developing charm is much easier than becoming handsome or earning money. If you don't have much to offer, you try to do your best with what you have. Some people get lucky with it, some don't... It depends. :)
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