OK thats it!
I waited and waited for someone to post a controversial blog or something exciting so I guess its up to me to stir things up a little so here goes:MEN...who are they and what do they want from us? At times it seems that they are some sort of alien life form and we are but mere prey as they wait to devour our very souls----> in other words this dating stuff can be a pain in the ars
So tell us guys what do ya want from us? Come out with it. Do not be afraid to describe what your idea of the perfect female would be or the perfect situation for a relationship.
We (females) eagerly await your response
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A box of Swiss Chocolats just because its a rainy day, for example
Joking
I guess we're clearing the air on some stuff tonight!
@Lana - You ex was disrespectful and did not appreciate you. Sorry to hear about that. When discouraged in such certain terms, can't imagine cooking for him ever again.
Hopefully you'll find someone who puts as much effort into encouraging you instead!
In fairness I have seen both men and women that became lazy in a marriage.I was guilty in my marriage at times as was my ex-wife at times.No one likes mundane chores.
Getting flowers or remembering significant events or doing little things to say I love you aren't mundane.
The bottom line is we all want to feel loved both blokes and shelias.
I thought we were doing a pretty good job of understanding each other better till it got to the "ape fawn thing"
Don't nag me when I'm ready for bed. I'm tired and need my sleep. I don't always sleep well myself so when I do go to bed lets not argue.
Is it so hard to find something good in your day to tell me about? Was it really that bad?
if I call or text there's a reason. Don't call me a week later and tell me you were busy. I think 24 hours is enough time to at least send a text.
Don't be afraid to tell me something I may not like. I'm a big boy I will get over it.
There is no perfect person so just be yourself. If I like you I will keep coming back. If I don't like what I see I will let you know.
Those sound like fair requests to me
I work hard for a living and I like to keep things simple. I hate technology and how our society has changed.
People also need to focus on their families more instead of the reality stars and trying to emulate them. With the highs come the lows. Best to maintain a calm happy as much as possible.
I'm all for that!!
Yes some men are that way too I know.
Dont wanna break up the sat night party..
I had a recent conversation with a young lady from Brazil about how American women act like men. That's what your comment made me think of. And yes its hard to find trust these days. Lots of damaged people out there and they are blaming everyone and anyone but themselves.
About that time of month yes I know it has to be rough but its not suppose to last 29 days lol.
This IS intresting sosiology, but STILL i think the MEN should lead the way out of this mess.
individualistic
assertive
independent
humanitarian
inventive
original
eccentric
opinionated
intellectual
idealistic
friendly
kind
observant
tolerant
curious
witty
I would want someone that is unwilling to follow the beaten track, someone who is free of social conditioning, someone who is not going to think I am strange for going to a protest rally for animal cruelty, who is into equality and fairness, who is happy to allow me my personal freedom, who is true to himself and others, who want to have interesting and sometimes quirky conversations, someone who will drive around chasing the end of rainbows, who loves to watch a good storm roll in, who loves music and dosnt mind that I am a litte quirky and diffent myself.
So there you go, this man does not exist I know but as I said at the beginning I would only consider someone spectacular
I will always be true to myself and live the life best suited for me and hopefully I'll find the lady who is in synch with me. Otherwise I'll just be a serial dater and keep my heart safe.
I really don't like dating but I don't like being alone neither.but I will never lead anyone on. I've already lost a couple due to my honesty but I'm a better person for it. If and when it happens it will be great.
Don't try and change the world. Just be true so you can be happy and others will see your success and follow.
How can you find out if they are spectacular if you don't get involved?
The bigger the risk the greater the reward.
And Lana,
Sorry if I'm off topic sometimes. I just have a lot to say lol.
However i think we CAN change the world to the better, but i think as you that the largest effect lays in power of example (perhaps bad english but u get my point).
And YES remember u can be no excample unless u have it good yourself, cos u should shine. But how about starting to shine first and then make the world a better place..?..!..
Hi Yazz!
Morg - hello back