Isabella88 Blog Comments (38)

RE: If it makes you happy

RE: Having Defficult of Trusting Again.

Oh Quena, I totally understand where you are coming from. It's difficult but you can't look at everyone like they are monsters....

RE: Having Defficult of Trusting Again.

The trolls hit up the bar down the street.

RE: Is there anyway to get an ex out of your head?

I'm sorry you are going through a difficult time.
What helped me was to spend time with friends, engage in my favorite hobbies, exercise.... When those pesky thoughts would emerge in my head I'd focus on the negative rather than dwell on the positives...

The struggle

@ Frankenstien you are soo funny! You know the pic is of Elizabeth Taylor. :D

The struggle

Thank you for the advice everyone ;) I hope you have a lovely friday.

RE: love or friendship?

v, if the roles were reversed how would you like it to be handled?

RE: quality

A good sense of humor

RE: "half mine"

Fell in love and he doesn't reciprocate? Does he give you crumbs?

RE: "half mine"

lma@ parti color

RE: Question

that's quite a picture lol

RE: broken heart.

I'm sorry you're going through a difficult time. First, vent about your feelings. It's great that your using this portal to express how you feel. What helped me move fwd was spending time with family and friends, praying and reflecting about the relationship. I began to focus on the negative aspects about him rather than dwell on the positives. Remember the hurt you feel and turn it into anger. Empower yourself and remember you are an independent & strong woman. You don't need any man to survive or make you feel happy. In time you'll heal...

The Case of the Ex...

Elizabeth Taylor was a beauty! :) Everyone, thank you so much for the advice and feedback. I needed to read your words to snap back into reality and not fall victim of being guilted for his mistakes...

The Case of the Ex...

Thanks Swiss! That's def good advice. I appreciate it.

The Case of the Ex...

Mike,
My last email response I informed him that I'm not willing to relive our past and to please leave me alone. Let's hope this does happen. If not I guess bye bye email.

The Case of the Ex...

Hi Morg,
Yes, def think it would be a wise idea. The only contact we've had in the last 11 months is through email. I think it's time to close my account.

The Case of the Ex...

Yes, we do share some friends. That could be a possibility.

The Case of the Ex...

Hi Mike,
But why not just write ,"hello, how have you been?" rather than "why do you hate me?" Maybe he's just bored. lol

The Case of the Ex...

Within the past year we've interacted briefly. He apologized for his actions and I forgave him. I even assisted him with a family issue to show I've moved past whatever hurt he may have caused. However, I never reconciled as he may have desired. Funny thing, I think the machismo side of him wanted me to court him and pretend as if nothing ever happened. I'm sorry but though I love him, I'm not in love with him. I become frustrated with myself for allowing him to bother me in this way. I guess he was successful! lol

The Case of the Ex...

Def should.

The Case of the Ex...

LOL! I should view it that way.

The Case of the Ex...

Perhaps, it's rather confusing to me.

RE: meeeee

How about you consider spending more time in school and less time partying.. Just saying.. Wow...

RE: someone said

Some people are simple minded morons... Sorry you had to read that.

RE: end of the world my foot

apparently Zombies are coming too

RE: Doomsday ! The world WILL end !

Probably sleep in.... lol jk

RE: Relationship Status

Complicated? I'd think there are issues within the relationship.

Inquiry?

Some of ya'll are super funny!

Inquiry?

Lmao! I'm not trying to hook up... Just enjoying the blogs! Lol

RE: WOULD YOU?

Would you compromise to meet my happiness?