single_engineer Blog Comments (46)

RE: I AM SO SICK AND TIRED

alright.. eh eh

RE: So Many Lives

no words

RE: First Dates

Can yours share too? So what happens in a date? People try to read one another mind and make a decision based on the few minutes/hours they spend together?

RE: Beautiful

Michigan is great!

(except Detroit )

RE: Personality Disorders

agreed lana. Experience is a good teacher. But not necessarily should be our experience. It can also be others that can be a good lesson for us. I see myself a lot different compared to my version few years ago. If a person does an introspection once a month or so will help them cure most of the problems (if they have) or solve other problems. Even blogs here teaches me something. Keep it rolling guys

RE: Personality Disorders

Waiting on you reply lana

RE: Personality Disorders

It is really difficult to observe the problem in your loved ones. Because we will be spending enough time admiring the qualities that we like them for and miss the problem part. The person will start observing the problem only when it grows big and cannot be tolerated anymore.

RE: turn on and off!

Apart from usual thing like smile and so on.....

If the girl has a PhD that is a turn ON. If she is a gym goer that is a turn ON. If she plays sports (like tennis or soccer) it is a turn ON. If she is a coffee drinker turn ON. If she is a geek then turn ON (even nerd). Sincere in job is a turn ON. Having an aim in life and working hard for it is a turn ON....

I had a big list like that.. but now i made it short.

If she is a girl it is a TURN ON

RE: OBAMA IMPEACHMENT PROCEEDINGS....

If there was no war post 9/11 there would not have been so much expense.
War on Iraq was unnecessary.
War in Libya is unnecessary.
Tax cuts for rich is unnecessary.

Those three would have saved more than $1Trillion. I assume you are well to do and enough money to pay for your healthcare. Insurance companies are nothing but mobs. Moreover damages done for the past 10 years cannot be fixed in last 2 years. Will take time to recover.

RE: FOOD can be healthy healing & Delicious!

Can you make extra? Looks delicious, i would like to try

RE: NooooooooooooOOOOOOOO!!!

Are you going to marry your sis-in-law? Thats a bad idea

RE: I am whatever you say I am

Some people say "first impression is the best impression" and some say "you should talk to the person to know more". But assume a boy approaching a girl or vice-verse in a crowd what will you notice at a distance of 30ft? Is he tall? Is he handsome? Is he fat? Is he old? so many lists run in the brain (even in guys). Before even having the 1st word a lot of decision is already made. A conversation of a few minutes will go nowhere rather than both of them wasting their time even if one person is not interested.

In that case through email I am sure you can know more and overcome shy (like in my case) or any other factor like time or looking for a special characteristics or something like that. I feel internet makes sense for finding people. But to find if it is a perfect match or not is through talks. You need to talk more and know about both. I think most people are so good that they are unable to find what they are looking for and end up here. Who knows? A divine match may occur here.

RE: How can you love someone you don't know and don't

Hi Kultida, in my case I don't find girls around me. Weird isn't it? I wake up at 4:30AM go to gym around 5:30AM. I cannot find girls in gym at that time. Then i get ready and go to my lab around 8:00AM. My lab has no girls (dono why). I go back home at 10:00PM and no girls on the way either. I live alone. How do you expect me to find someone i will be interested in?

Rarely i may come across some one, but they already have a boyfriend and happy with it. So looking into these things my only option is a site like this. I don't have any previous experience of being near a girl or talking for a long time. By this site I am saving a lot of time and also my work goes without any disruption. If I like a girl and she likes me, then I can take a vacation and go out see the world with her. Does it make sense now?

RE: Houdini

Any time

RE: Houdini

Hey bungallow, i understand how it feels And guess what? you will get an email out of the blues, you make a reply and then thats it. Nothing happens after that. Like mrsdamienlewis says.

RE: Houdini

I thought only girls do that