Personality Disorders
Have you ever really stoped and observed people's behaviors? The people that you have dated in the past or perhaps people you have had serious relationships with.After several months when we are not "auditioning for the role" of boyfriend or girlfriend, have you come to realize that there have been a few with some slight psychological problems which became not only troubling but had you worried , maybe even concerned for your safety?
There are different types of personality disorders at different levels which means that it is not always obvious from the beginning or when you first meet someone but as you get to know them better you begin to see patterns in their behavior that cause you distress and deep concern
Tell us about your experiences
Comments (12)
What is your ex's name?? Sounds exactly like mine
and yeah...I really think that it is a personality disorder because people like him (your ex) usually have huge issues with trust, control and are always on the defensive. Their whole mentality is "get them before they get you
They do end up sabotaging their own personal lives in the end.
Now I've learned to take my time before jumping in too fast.
Well said
I remember times when I thought to myself: "He can't possibly be that heartless and cold" and yet...I was wrong.
Dating can be complicated but it can also be fun..If we all try and use a little caution before getting emotionally involved, it probably would eliminate most of the issues we encounter later.
"Swiss,
What is your ex's name?? Sounds exactly like mine
and yeah...I really think that it is a personality disorder because people like him (your ex) usually have huge issues with trust, control and are always on the defensive. Their whole mentality is "get them before they get you
They do end up sabotaging their own personal lives in the end."
Absolutely agree.
Yeah, very familiar..
Swiss:
I would stay friends with such a guy too if he was truthful and admit but they cannot help lying about every step they do. They want to have cake and eat it. No-no
"Having his cake and eating it too" means that he would like to have his home and security yet wants to live like a sailer at sea. Bob Seager- Beautiful looser ...Great song!
But there is an old Italian saying which goes as follows: " He wants his wine barrel full and a drunken wife at the same time"
Pretty unrealistic to think this could work
YES and THANK YOU...everything you have said is correct