Often helps if the woman accepts that she's most useful in the kitchen and the bedroom. Ok often not a star in either but a willing spirit often makes up for lack of natural talent. Also useful to appreciate that, as with a ship, there can only be one captain and it's not her. That's my advice and hope it helps you.
I have a great suggestion - don't do it. Despite the fact that most of the country is in drought it will be likely to rain. Plus you run the risk of being attacked by wildlife - that is the resident Chav population . Spend the money and stay in a decent hotel.
RE: men
It's probably because there are so few women who are worth staying faithful to.