it does make sense, that if you reply to a letter, the guy may think you are interested in him. This happened to me too. I just wanted to let him know we did not have enough in common to continue.
They say relationships are made in heaven and I believe it is true. They say when you are ready he/she will find you. And I believe it is a mind set to meet the right personality for you. Sometimes one needs to explore different outlets in meeting someone special. Like nightschool.
RE: Need Some Advice Here
sometimes people are stubborn because they are in shock???or have issues of their s that they need to look at before lookin at this situation??People can change but it is their decision.
You need some comfort. Do you have friends that can support you
Hang in there