If you already met someone, and R sure about it, then I would stop emailing women for the time being and see where your heart is Paddy. That is what I would do. If it does not work out then mail the ones that have written you on this site that you did not respond to (uless they also were lucky).
If I loke someones I just tell them and see...if they write me and I am not interested, I find that I get the hint and am sure they get the hint when no reply within 2 days, that is my answer.
I found this site not fair and unrealistic. men that R ready for a relationship will tell U and I assume it is the same w/women.
I think people will be people, this is an avenue to express and is anonymous, is it not????Keep posting, even to them unless you feel uncomfortable doing so.
As a teenager I dated a man that just arrived from Europe, when I saw him again a couple of months later, we went out and he was not the same person, very rude expecting things from me that were not appropriate and saying things about women that were not nice.
Did he learn it from being in Canada? R women here not expecting their men to be nice to them and respectful?
I think a lot is because womens standards are not being expressed to men because we are afraid they will not accept them.
In Europe, I know that having a serious, marriage relationship, is really respected and seen as a sign of maturity.
R we learning that in this country? No, I do not think so,
It all depends what the man is about, what he says, how he thinks and acts, to whom one dates or not, younger or older, it is an attraction on these levels and more
You would be surprised at whom is their behind a no photo...I have met really intelligent, handsome men with no photos on site but that was not what I was looking for in a reply to this.
sometimes it is not easy when you need to speak up, speak up what upsets your partner that your mother, father just said or done to them. if you follow the drift. That is work! Your partner may not want to support you (my girlfriend could never understand why her fiance then husband would cringe having to confront his parents) and (she was not happy, obviously, she asked me why he was doing this).
a lot of peoples lives are just plain boring... but, there is something there that tells them the right way to be in certain situations.
Peoples lives are so routine and most do not know what to do about it. SO the bad boy image gives them a break from reality and vise versa, they, thinking, that the person under this knows right and wrong.
When I met my ex, we both stood up dates the next date. Could not get in touch w/them?????But, I honestly can say, I only did it one time later, just because, it was a totally blind date and we said before hand, that if any of us could not make it, we would only wait 20 min.
Your thread is under single parenting, baggage, it could mine that you have obligations that you cannot get away from, best to find someone just like your self and enjoy
How do I attract what I am looking for. My profile says a lot about me and so do my threads, and no one is commenting on either of them when they write me. eVEN WHEN i ASKED THEM.
I think they just want a person to listen to them or they want me to lead the relationship or they think they are so attractive themselves, that they do not need to say anything.
is there anything I can add or change in my profile so I can get someone who really notices me (not my photo when I have it visible) but the character I am.
Someone said I resemble Diane Keeton, the actress.
I would relocate for the right person but want to be sure he is not between relationships (on rebound).
Not out of choice, mind you, I have had to make most of my decisions by myself. If there was a support system in place where one could sit with them and discuss things and expect good advise, that would be something for me to have too.
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A decision needs to be made, to stay or move on
I am wondering if their R just too many sites on the internet and men R confused or R they really not interested in a REAL LIVE relationship anymore.