How do I attract what I am looking for. My profile says a lot about me and so do my threads, and no one is commenting on either of them when they write me. eVEN WHEN i ASKED THEM.
I think they just want a person to listen to them or they want me to lead the relationship or they think they are so attractive themselves, that they do not need to say anything.
is there anything I can add or change in my profile so I can get someone who really notices me (not my photo when I have it visible) but the character I am.
Someone said I resemble Diane Keeton, the actress.
I would relocate for the right person but want to be sure he is not between relationships (on rebound).
Be patient, sweetie. As they say, you got'ta kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. I found my knight in shining armor on CS quickly, but it was just because it was God's time for us. (We're much older, so while it was quickly on CS, it was LONG in life.) Chin up, the right guy will appear on the scene when it is time.
from a man's pov, the content of your profile conveys nothing I can see that would draw unsuitable response, beyond the fact that it is a woman's profile, and some guys just take the opportunity to be rude online, and say stuff they'd never in person.
that's why they have Delete!
It's a numbers game online. You do say you want attention. You will get more of it with a pic. I say just don't even reply to rudeness, and stick around. Good things happen.
You're not attracting the right men, love??? I'm not attracting ANY men, darling!!! Wanna try that?? I'm gonna try women...... yep, I've decided! I'll try being gay............
You girls think I'm joking??? Anything's worth a try!! Blimey, on another thread, I'm even trying to get a date with a hamburger...... I rest my case!!!
Hi in answer to your post chances are without a picture you may not get many guy's checking your profile out .It would be the same as going on a blind date with a bag over your head ,and telling the guy to get to know you first. How upsetting would it be if he wasn't attracted to your looks .When I check out profiles I want to at least enjoy what I'm looking at .I'm sure there are a lot of super nice guy's out there , but if his belly is so big that I can't get close to kiss him .That's not what I'm looking for .I think it's hard to get to really know someone behind a closed door .It may not be the words in your profile , but if you posted your picture . You might get more responses. Good Luck
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I think they just want a person to listen to them or they want me to lead the relationship or they think they are so attractive themselves, that they do not need to say anything.
is there anything I can add or change in my profile so I can get someone who really notices me (not my photo when I have it visible) but the character I am.
Someone said I resemble Diane Keeton, the actress.
I would relocate for the right person but want to be sure he is not between relationships (on rebound).