I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes. ( Archived) (29)

Mar 23, 2007 4:50 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
gentleperson4
gentleperson4gentleperson4Burlington, Ontario Canada8 Threads 116 Posts
How do I attract what I am looking for. My profile says a lot about me and so do my threads, and no one is commenting on either of them when they write me. eVEN WHEN i ASKED THEM.

I think they just want a person to listen to them or they want me to lead the relationship or they think they are so attractive themselves, that they do not need to say anything.

is there anything I can add or change in my profile so I can get someone who really notices me (not my photo when I have it visible) but the character I am.

Someone said I resemble Diane Keeton, the actress.

I would relocate for the right person but want to be sure he is not between relationships (on rebound).

dunno confused love
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Mar 23, 2007 4:56 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
FindMe1113
FindMe1113FindMe1113Bronx, USA11 Threads 1,171 Posts
Just be "Yourself" sweetie and be patient..you will eventually attract the kind of man that right for you, as long as you don't settle for less...wine
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Mar 23, 2007 5:23 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
uk1971
uk1971uk1971Lippstädt/Gütersloh, Germany330 Threads 2,429 Posts
Try posting a picture. It works wonders.uk
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Mar 23, 2007 5:31 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
o0shorty0o
o0shorty0oo0shorty0onear Berlin, Germany10 Threads 2,194 Posts
wink grin mine works tongue
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Mar 23, 2007 5:51 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Jackson
JacksonJacksonPowell, Tennessee USA31 Threads 680 Posts
Be patient, sweetie. As they say, you got'ta kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince. I found my knight in shining armor on CS quickly, but it was just because it was God's time for us. (We're much older, so while it was quickly on CS, it was LONG in life.) Chin up, the right guy will appear on the scene when it is time. hug
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Mar 23, 2007 5:52 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
gentleperson4
gentleperson4gentleperson4Burlington, Ontario Canada8 Threads 116 Posts
I am sure there will be a good reply that I can use here and am waiting for something reallllllllllll
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Mar 23, 2007 5:54 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
crazyboynva
crazyboynvacrazyboynvaTucson, Arizona USA25 Threads 485 Posts
Your profile looks fine to me but I'm sure most would like to see a face to go with it.

Good Luck!

Rob
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Mar 23, 2007 6:00 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Dougfir
DougfirDougfirNorthern Idaho, Idaho USA2 Threads 59 Posts
Gentle One

from a man's pov, the content of your profile conveys nothing I can see that would draw unsuitable response, beyond the fact that it is a woman's profile, and some guys just take the opportunity to be rude online, and say stuff they'd never in person.

that's why they have Delete!

It's a numbers game online. You do say you want attention.
You will get more of it with a pic. I say just don't even reply to rudeness, and stick around. Good things happen.
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Mar 23, 2007 6:00 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
crazyboynva
crazyboynvacrazyboynvaTucson, Arizona USA25 Threads 485 Posts
Thats better, now you'll definitely get some bites!kiss

Rob
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Mar 23, 2007 6:20 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
You're not attracting the right men, love??? I'm not attracting ANY men, darling!!! Wanna try that?? I'm gonna try women...... yep, I've decided! I'll try being gay............wave
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Mar 23, 2007 6:23 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Well, sweetie, this is your lucky day smitten kiss

Come back, D, I'm only kidding rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2007 6:26 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2007 6:39 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
You girls think I'm joking??? Anything's worth a try!! Blimey, on another thread, I'm even trying to get a date with a hamburger...... I rest my case!!!doh
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Mar 23, 2007 6:42 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
omg LOL!

I'm a freakin muttblues resident here... but scot/irish blood...

the hamburger and frankfurter thing is funny!laugh
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Mar 23, 2007 6:48 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
Blimey, are things getting that dire??? uh oh

Lets see what the 7th brings, ya never know, hun wine
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Mar 23, 2007 7:50 PM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Jerry53531
Jerry53531Jerry53531Sliema, Malta12 Threads 410 Posts
You may want to get your liquor license... OK, bad joke... laugh laugh
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Mar 24, 2007 3:34 AM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
Dandelion
DandelionDandelionSouthampton, Hampshire, UK34 Threads 5,236 Posts
Huhhhh...????dunno confused
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Mar 26, 2007 12:58 AM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
guitarplayer00
guitarplayer00guitarplayer00Portland, Oregon USA19 Threads 2 Polls 1,901 Posts
r things better now???? any changes?
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Mar 26, 2007 1:00 AM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
bobby7
bobby7bobby7Mission, Canada16 Threads 2,351 Posts
I'd really like to help...but, without a photo..I am working in the dark!
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Mar 26, 2007 1:26 AM CST I am attracting the wrong men, my profile needs some changes.
sparky50ca
sparky50casparky50caPenticton Okanagan, British Columbia Canada6 Posts
Hi in answer to your post chances are without a picture you may not get many guy's checking your profile out .It would be the same as going on a blind date with a bag over your head ,and telling the guy to get to know you first. How upsetting would it be if he wasn't attracted to your looks .When I check out profiles I want to at least enjoy what I'm looking at .I'm sure there are a lot of super nice guy's out there , but if his belly is so big that I can't get close to kiss him .That's not what I'm looking for .I think it's hard to get to really know someone behind a closed door .It may not be the words in your profile , but if you posted your picture . You might get more responses. Good Luck
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