I can relate. I always try to tell myself, "no you have to get rid of trash" but when I remember that "this is the wrapper of the candy my ultimate crush gave me." and "O, this is the banner my friends made for my birthday surprise." etc etc.. Result, they're still there..
Not naive. You believe what you believe and no one could justify it better than you. People who can't be loyal to the relationships are just the hunches in ones journey to finding the right one, IMO. Though hurtful it might have been, they teach us a thing or two that we carry in the next step.
Honestly, I've blocked a few people for the sole reason of their location.. Sent me several mails, I did not reply once. I just don't like where they are.
Your case however is different. don't let it bother you. Just keep it going.. good things also come to those who don't quit.
I cannot relate to love at first sight thing Serendipity.. Even when I was young, younger I mean, in TV or in real life, I find the person handsome when I like his character.. No matter how not-so-good-looking he seems to my friends.
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Dedo, I would love to. but then this is not me.. This is YOU! No wonder the cat went to the woods to find a safe haven in the arms of a bear.