I've already expressed my 2 cents. @ekself you just a bitter old woman. Hating cause I'm probably doing better than your kids, despite the adversities that came my way. Ignoring the fact that your kids had a better headstart than me. Get to explore Joburg next time and stop embarrasing yourself by showing how ignorant you are.
I don't know about being handsome Woman & sportsman lol... My only comment is Griezmann what a breath of fresh air everyone wants to play for a team player. Its criminal comparing him to Cristiano Ronaldo. Who I don't like at all cause he is selfish. We are constantly reminded that there is no "I" in "team." Of course, a more selfish soccer player like Cristiano might argue that there are five "I"s in the term "individual brilliance." Bale the Welshman's had more success in set pieces on the current Euro tournament. Yet at Real Madrid Ronaldo insist on taking everything. If Paul Pogba wants to achieve success he'll go to Manchester United instead of Madrid.
Online, you get nothing like a tone of voice or body language or anything like that from the other person... theoretically, it's easier to misconstrue something when it's only being conveyed through mere text. So agree with @Seri don't judge a book by its cover
Poor @Solamente Muti is a South African term for traditional medicine. You also use it as a slang for medicine. its a Zulu name @Candykisses you should have simply explained to the poor guy
@Solamente lol... I've never been in any dating site before this. So I was skeptic about this, I didn't want to divulge my real name hence 2317588F So the only thing I knew by heart when I registered my account here was my bbm pin
@Elegsabiff whoever that bodybuilder is what a lucky fellow. In all honesty most man would have taken the 1st flight to Portugal. But for her sake I hope she's gonna get her monies worth
1. I can't speak for you'll but I'm here hoping I'll find that special someone
2.I am perfectly,imperfect 3. Almost a year 4. 5. Definitely some are 6. Someone to create special memories with 7. Age does not guarantee maturity I guess
8. Work & more work at times hang with my boys :group:
9. I am who I am cause of my past
10. No but it has made me a better person especially with regards to who I choose to associate myself with
11. Slow progress is better than no progress I guess
12. You can't change the past one needs to except it & move on.
I agree with @loveallnite marry the poor fellow really this is a no brainer we all know what logical step you should have taken. Clearly you like him but....
Unfortunately I don't feel like running away I love what I do & do what I love I won't lie it took time for me to get my ducks in a row but I soldiered on I sometimes work the whole entire night, then take a nap around 4:15 am wake up around 8:30 am. Obviously I don't tell my competitors how hard I work. At times I lie & say it took me an hour plus 30 minutes to complete a certain project. They don't know that I am a perfectionist. That's why once I start working with people they always run back to me. I am beginning to charge them an arm & a leg Simply cause of the quality of my work.
@Catfoot I agree image is everything when dealing with criminals in S.A. but you old unlike you I can't afford to look shabby my street credibility is on the line.
Personally I don't see why adults should have a problem with someone who has a certain criteria. In actual fact I'll respect you more if you open about your ideal partner. Guys let's just let other's shine even though some of us would feel like they being too ambitious.... I've been dissed by black woman. Someone even said what I am doing is self hatred.
I don't know about you guys but if I was interested in black woman. I certainly wouldn't be here. Nothing is guaranteed obviously I've came to that realisation.... So I am just having fun who knows what will happen in that process
@Amornthep pity, if only you were 35 or below maybe we could have made it work. But the age gap is too much for me. I need to be realistic if I am gonna be loyal & exclusive
@loulou77 you right giving them money is not a good idea at all. What was so heartbreaking was witnessing someone actually drinking spirit. I've heard about others smoking it, but witnessing a human being literally drinking that stuff is really sad.
@Catfoot I almost thought you were about to say "pay back the money" lol...
With me it has to be meeting someone who's gonna love me & be loyal to me. Someone who's gonna understand me more than anything & hopefully have beautiful kids together. I don't want a soccer team 2 kids would be enough a boy for her & a daughter for me
I've learned to realise that my relationships tend to last longer if a woman is older than me. when I was 19 I dated someone 30 unfortunately she's no longer with us. She had a car accident, it was a head on collusion. I still miss her I owe a lot to her, she contributed a lot in terms of building my character. We dated for almost 4 years & that has been my longest relationship.
I was once taken to a restaurant where you basically can buy or eat any animal there. I was so shocked. Since that day i started distancing myself to that guy. He ordered crocodile meat & believe me folks that white boy was feasting on that meat like nobody's business.
RE: interracial relationships rocks
I've already expressed my 2 cents. @ekself you just a bitter old woman. Hating cause I'm probably doing better than your kids, despite the adversities that came my way. Ignoring the fact that your kids had a better headstart than me. Get to explore Joburg next time and stop embarrasing yourself by showing how ignorant you are.