I dont mind that idea .when i was with German friends once they gave me a room that was originally a bunker used during the war. It was comfy to sleep in , i hardly noticed it did not have any Windows even. I often thInk people living in fire risk areas in Australia might do with a bunker under their houses.
I have seen this before . Her kids will lose friends. She will lose friends. The bond needs to be very strong to justify her taking the kids from the father. Thats bad. I thInk a woman in her case should be thinking about her kids before Going to this guy and changing her life for a man. I would not if i was in such a state even thInk of having a relationship with a man in an other country until i was Free of the kids. Its such a bad situation. They will hate her for taking them away from their friends and father. Then she will be miserable, it will end bad . Un less he has a private plane and they can Go to Holland on weekends. Then its different.
Always remember its easy to have a good personality when you want something from someone . The thing i most admire about Asian women is they know how to get what they want. That involves two things .three if you count the good cooking. I do how ever wish you the best and hope she is all you want in a partner and that it works out for you.i wonder why western women are not attracted to Asian men so much. ?
Since i did live for many years in Australia I can safety say I have met many aussie and kiwi women. I have Also met many aussie and kiwi men , but i dont have much experience with them as i was never attracted to them very much. I can see why many Aussies and kiwis might prefer an Asian lady . They are more compliant perhaps , and have other attributes , being of smaller build, that makes a better match for men lacking in a particular department. I often see though particularly in thailand exceptionally gross and disgustingly behaved rejects of men praising the attributes of the lovely Asian woman. I often wonder how she feels, and how desperate she might be. Thats the other side to it of course. My grandmother was Asian , my grandfather was caucasian . Trust me she was tougher,feistier and more demanding than any white woman could ever be. She always looked good though. there was a lot Going on in the bed room as well with those two.
How is it Going for you over there . Is winter beginning to show its face yet? We are beginning to get crisp weather in the morning. Keep up your spirits with good music , thats what i try to do.
Many men want to take a holiday in Indonesia and find a holiday girl on the internet. It is so easy to do for them and many girls Go for it. I dont know if it is what happenned to you , but i know many indonesian girls Who have fallen for this trick. Maybe he was interested in you initially and after meeting maybe decided you were not for him. It sounds as if you have some doubt in your mind. What ever the case dont feel bad. You had fun for a while, if its not means to be then thats life. If he just used you, its really him that has the problem , not you. I Also have been used by men on the internet. You are not alone dear girl.
They will never learn the lesson , look what happenned in Vietnam and Korea before that. They must be' the most powerful nation in the world at all costs. Even their own . I am surprised the world has been so tolerant of their interference so far. Interesting how they dont do much to help the Palestinians in Gaza. Oh right , they are no threat , no OIL . Was it that America Made the middle east rich because they bought their OIL, or was it that America got rich because they could buy OIL from the middle east? Just wondering .....
Giving someone a second chance endorses bad behaviour and leaves the perpetrator with the knowledge that the forgiver is either stupid , desperate or open for further deceit. I learnt early on in my life , to give a second chance is to accept bad behaviour, so why have that in your life? Better Find people Who match your standards and people you can trust. Who needs untrustworthy people in their lives.?
I Also would not talk with a basket ball , nor a golf ball or a cricket ball ... If i was looking for a man , which i am not ....... When i was i had my photo up and he had his up , we fell in love at the train station the first time we met and the rest is history.
Its in our DNA to be attracted to strong men. Thats why guys want to get big muscles to show they are strong. Dont you notice how all the big strong looking muscle guys have a dolly bird on their arm. A nice guy might be a bore , women want strength of character as well. Good blog .
She discovered her real self . Thats what happenned.its not your fault , forgive her , wish her the best and realise you are now Free again to Find someone Who really suits you . I know your love may have turned to disgust. But thInk it through, thInk of her feelings , where she came from , you can still love her, just maybe not have her . Id try to be' open minded about it. Live And let live, if you really love her you wil Understand .she probably Also feels she deceived you , but did not know what was happening herself. You will always remain better in someones loop if you are understanding rather than only thinking of yourself.
Do what we do, get a job earn some money , then Go buy a nice i phone for yourself with pride you earnt it. If you cannot, do without, like the rest of us.
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I dont mind that idea .when i was with German friends once they gave me a room that was originally a bunker used during the war. It was comfy to sleep in , i hardly noticed it did not have any Windows even. I often thInk people living in fire risk areas in Australia might do with a bunker under their houses.