What I wonder is how do people get to this stage in a relationship , suffer all these things and are still together? How did you get together with someone in the first place without seeing the warning signs of this happening ? People are not selective enough . People don't think enough or like people enough ( liking someone is different to lying someone ) before they enter a relationship. If you develop these feelings about someone in the first days dump and run is my motto . Too many people hang in there too long and suffer .
Immigration / invasion has been going on since time began . I think it's about getting your head around the situation in a realistic manner. The new wave of immigrants , whether they be illegal or not are doing so for exactly the same reasons our forefathers did before us. The Native American Indians , did not invite the Europeans to immigrate to their country five hundred years ago . The country was taken by force , the native owners of the land were humiliated , degraded and robbed . With time the native inhabitants , weakened in numbers by the invaders illnesses and forced laws , had no alternative but to submit to the invasion. The European with his god given right to conquer other lands promoted immigration to their new land . Our forefathers did not see themselves as invading or immigrating illegally , but then did they ask any Native American Indian what they thought about that? But history tells us it was though of by them as an illegal act . Many wars of aggression by the natives were fought against the settlers. South America was the same , Australia , New Zealand , Many islands in the Pacific ,all the New world . With time the land became ours , the land became the property of the invader now we feel its our turn and our right to decide who comes and goes . But did our forefathers offer the same courtesy ? America has millions of illegals causing all kinds of social and economic problems for the government and existing population . What comes around goes around , why are we all so surprised it is happening . We look at the in flux of Muslim immigrants , who some fear are enforcing a new kind of right of their own in their new habitat , and people are walking around wondering where did it all go wrong . They are marginalised because of their beliefs and then some wonder why they are trying to enforce their ways . Do you go up to the Muslim , shake his hand and tell him welcome to my country ? History will tell you where it went wrong , and history will tell us where it is going. You don't want illegals invading your country but all countries have illegals invading them . If you were not in the right social status , coming from a poorer country it would not diminish your desire to better your life if you could. It's very easy to sit back in a cushy environment and moan about illegals coming to your beloved country , until you walk a mile in their shoes. If the colonials can think about how they got to where they live now , then try to see it a little differently it might help . Helping newcomers integrate as quickly as possible is the key , becoming useful members of society and contributing is the key , education for their young ones is the key . Remember in Australia 40 years ago when the Vietnamese boat people came , what the outcry was then . Look at them now , some of the most educated and contributing members of the Australian community. Were they legal when they came , I don't think so . But a compassionate government gave them a home . I don't know what the answer is , I have my own private prejudices against certain immigrants here who are helping Italy lose a lot of its integrity And dignity , But the planet was made for us to share lets try to do that .
It's interesting that we as humans can love our pets so much emotionally , but sometimes don't think of what their real needs can be. It's a great idea the foot booties for a dog in cold weather , I think , but is it a real need , I wonder if a dogs feet are not built to withstand the cold in such a way . I do not know of course . I was once stopped by an angry woman on the street as I walked my dog on a hot pavement , she said don't you know the feet of your dog are burning ? No I did not know that . So what should I do , walk her in a pram ? I asked the vet about it and he told me that dogs have much hardier feet pads than humans. Is that true? I don't know. But I became very conscious of where I took my dog for walkies after that and always carried her if the pavement was hot. I think if I was in a very cold place I'd do what you are doing with the dog booties, it's a shame they cannot tell us what they really feel.
You will find the answer to your problem , when you break down the barriers you have up that's preventing you from doing so now. No one can tell you how to do it , you need to find your own solution .
I found much of the best advice I ever had in my life ,was the advice I liked the least at the time.
Oh now I am happy , I was getting worried for you there my dear. I like baked potatoes with sour cream and cheese do they do them there as well ? If they do I might crash your date .
Joking
Have a good time , and don't try to get too frisky on a first date . That's if you want another one . Date that is .i hope it goes well for you .
For me that would be about the most unromantic setting imaginable as a first date . A bar full of rowdy men , drinking , all screaming and booing a tv screen.
You are such an intelligent , spirited , talented and gorgeous person Miss Leah with your wisdom , songs and happiness . You are a beautiful inspiration to us. Thank you
I don't know Miss Lou Lou , since you're helping me I think we should celebrate a bit , lets have something a little stronger to go with the oven spray fumes. I think we should crack open a bottle of prosecco . I like the sound of your fluffy mules btw.
Let me just slip into my kitchen cleaning clothes , i like to wear something comfy when i am bending down to clean my oven , suspenders , black stockings , high black boots and a little slinky red negligee. Anybody wanna help me clean my oven. ?
miss Lou Lou I almost need a cigarette myself as well and I don't even smoke , yet. then again i think I'll go and look for something else to put in my mouth .
RE: OH NO NOT THE MORMANS??????
Okokok , but I love papa Francesco . I just can't help myself .