...I hope the child gets to see her father...life is relative to where you are living...that involves a certain amount of conformity unless you are on some sort of crusade...
...Valentine was a bishop in the Roman Empire circa 300 AD...The emperor had banned marriage because married men didn't want to join or be in the army...Valentine kept marrying people till he was caught and arrested...he choose his god over the emperor so he was tortured and beheaded...church made him a saint and red is to represent the blood he spilled...so its what he did for marriage over adversity I suppose...
RE: There is a bat in the house.
...these guys have a similar problem...