KN, I don't want just anybody...I'm in a relationship but he wants it all, relationship all in his way...I don't want the same thing, leads him to believe that I don't care enough to want him wholely. I do care, a lot but I'm terrified of committing myself totally, once I do it won't be easy to get out...It's for life. I do have other priorities in life aside from him, I just want to create balance.
Ken, yes I want a bf to love but I don't want him to have too much influence in my life, I've been in a controlling relationship , I don't want someone to tell me how to live my life again...I want to have control over my life and live it the way I want this time.
Ken, thanks but it's not the kind of thing I'm looking for, I want a relationship, with commitment and respect to each other just like any normal relationships. I just want to set some boundaries so my partner would know exactly what to expect from me. I would love and respect him, make him happy as much as I can in my own time...it's a relationship with no pressure from either partner, I don't think it's is that hard to find.
Rob, that's what I'm worried of...full time and over time could make us weary and messed up a good happy relationship...sometimes we need to settle for less...to maintain that balance and keep things in harmony.
Yes, I want exclusive , just want to set some limitations, to enable each of us to have some time away from each other and do our own things...fooling around is highly prohibited tho ...
Candy, there will be rules that both have to respect...it could really work and will make us both would want to have quality time whenever we are together...
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