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Just want to set the record straight...

I received an email that said I'm a tease and flirting with every man here on blogs and that I'm hurting other women here.

I am not aware of that. I clearly stated that I'm here for some fun friendly chat with my friends here ( you all know who you are! ) I hardly have time to spend enough time to join in the fun after-blog banters here and I really miss that.

I've made things clear here, I wasn't in a relationship when I joined CS 11 months ago. I've met someone here who became very close to me but for obvious reason I couldn't meet and had to let down ( and you also know who I'm talking about)

Though far apart, my ex-bf and I sorted things out and back together and I'm doing my best to be a better loyal partner for him. I couldn't stress this enough...I'm here to interact and have fun chat with my friends all over the world...

If I've hurt others here, I apologize. I didn't mean to. If I unconsciously flirted and crossed your red line, it' s not intended to hurt anyone, just having some harmless fun.

I mean this very very nicely...teddybear

Have a great day everyone!
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I didn't mess around...did I?

Last year my 3 years relationship with my bf was on the rocks, I asked for a break and found CS. I joined the site and discovered how fun blogging is. Met so many nice people here, made friends with others from different countries, harmlessly briefly flirted with some guys till I met someone who made my days brighter, he made me laughed and do crazy funny things that no one else did. We became very close, gotten to know each other so well, we could talk and laugh about everything...all was great, all we need to do was meet in real life.

He asked to meet up many times but I wasn't ready. We talked and became very close for almost 10 months. During the fourth month, my ex-bf contacted me and wanted to sort things out. I honestly told him I've met someone online and already moved on. Well, online relationship is not really something that could go up against a relationship that had foundation in real life. Things became confusing to me, I cancelled every plans to meet up due to uncleared issues with my ex-bf. Maybe I'm not being honest to myself but I'm honest to them.

I chose to meet and talk to my ex-bf first cos I felt that what we've shared for 3 years deserve a chance to find out if there's still something worth keeping for. I felt it would be then the right time to say goodbye properly in person in a respectful way..then I could meet and hug my online best friend and lover for 9 months in real life and perhaps be happy with him.

My ex-bf came and left again a couple of weeks ago. I didn't have the heart to turn someone down...someone who would do so much to have me and make me feel loved and wanted. Things got sorted as he have wanted...I wasn't 100% on it cos part of me was thinking of someone else.

It's a difficult choice for me. I chose someone whom I've already met and shared my life with over someone I fell in love online who might not feel the same towards me in real life.

That wonderful 9 months will haunt me from time to time ...I will just have to learn to live with it. Sometimes I still have some wishful thinking that maybe just maybe I could meet this special someone in real life someday...I owe him a cup of coffee at least. I know it's wrong and mustn't happen....just me being fruityloopy, I guess.

I really really wish him a very happy life and he will always be my online bestfriend.

To all my friends here, I hope you'll understand and find some lessons to learn from my story.

Merry Christmas to you all....Lovelots, Jxteddybear kiss
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Stress-free Day

Woke up at 1:00 PM...having my precious coffee and loving the quietness of the day. Christmas is over, I'm relaxing , no plans for today but loving the stress-free and care-free feeling I have right now...

Time to open presents and read cards and messages properly. I'm thankful for all the blessings I received this Christmas... I couldn't ask for more.

I hope you all are happy and received what you wished for Christmas .teddybear
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Oh What A Day!

I had a fun late night with my son last night, went to bed at 5am.

@10 am phone calls woke me up...3 party invitations for tonight, 2 asking what time they can come over to exchange gifts , 1 asked what time I'll go to her place for some Christmas cake and exchange gift, 1 wants me to tag along with her and her bf to some party tonight...1 wants me to go over her place and buy something for her cos she's not feeling well, 1 wants to sell me ticket for some dinner for a cause....worst of all my son wants to go shopping for his Christmas presents cos I didn't had time to buy him...was too busy!

I dragged myself out of bed and ran to buy presents for all kids that are expecting gifts from me...to make it easier and to save time , I bought blankets for everyone , pink for the girls and blue for the boys. Unfortunately, my son didn't want any blanket...grin had to go to a far toy shop just to get this stupid slug terra gun he badly wanted, we found and bought it....it's a ripped off!

I ran home and clumsily wrapped all the gifts, some boys' presents got wrapped up in pink...I didn't have time so I guess it's fine, it's just wrappings anyway.

Took a quick shower, quickly get dressed and with still wet hair ran to deliver some presents here and there....tried my best to make those children's Christmas day a happy one.

Now at home, blogging while waiting for my friends and kids who wants to come over and spend Christmas with me and my son...not going to any party tonight, no time for it. I ordered Chinese foods and some cake so I will have something to share with them when they get here. I used to cook and bake every Christmas , this Christmas is an exception.

I don't feel like opening presents at the moment...I'll get to that later...

To top it all, my bf wanted to skype cos he's having a very boring Christmas in Scotland, I had no time so viber served it's purpose while I ran here and there. Will skype him later...he understands me, always doesgrin

It's a nice day but I just want it to be over and back to normal doh

I hope you're all having a great Christmas Day there. Lovelots, Jxteddybear
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Oh What A Night!

Waiting for the movie to start...

Had to go to work till 9pm, no time for parties .
I'm at the mall with my son..just had some Chinese foods for dinner and ice cream for afters...bought tickets for Hunger Games and lots of popcorns and sodas...now blogging while waiting for the movie to start.

It's my first Christmas Eve spent out of the house...kinda strange but my son and I are having fun.

Merry Christmas to you allangel
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Tainted love...

For some complicated and unfair reasons, I can't be with the one I love for a lifetime . It hurts, it sucks but things happen for a reason. Maybe it's meant to be...just not forever.

Wishing you all love and happiness...happy blogging!wine
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I'm losing it...

Darn it!doh

I was thinking of something , wanted to write it here... I can't remember what it was about, I'm not thinking straight... Been working too hard these days.

If I remember what it was, I'll post it laterconfused

I'm iff to sleep...'night all!sleep Oopsyteddybear
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Hey...

Anybody here ? 'Just came from work , tired but don't feel like sleeping.....

N4,where are you, girls?applause
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Part Time Lover

Hi friends, I'm in a confusion and would appreciate your opinions here.

I have no desire to marry and have kids again, been there, done that...but wants someone special to share some parts of my life with. I'm not looking forward to sharing the same house with that special someone and cuddle everyday. All I want is to have a respectable relationship on part time basis, what I mean by this is that I want to have a separate life, have enough time and space for myself...spend time with that special someone whenever it's convenient for both of us, like seeing each other 3x times a week. A part time relationship but with set rules and with respect to each other. So far no one agrees with what I want.

Does what I want debase the value of a relationship?

confused

Thanks and have a good night/day everyone!teddybear
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Nothing seems to work...

Any funny and affectionate gentleman here? I've had a bad day and in need of a big hug and warm cuddles. crying
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The hunt is sweeter than the kill...

Is it true that we are doomed not to want 'it' once we do? It could be in many different situations: material things we long to have , goals that we want to achieve, relationships...and anything or anyone that we desire to have.

Did it happen to you?
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