So far as your general comment (not your personal one) about getting even: the best advice is to make peace with your past so it doesn't mess with your present.
Me, I make sock puppets when the person I want to make peace with isn't around to talk!
So many women, how on earth do you keep them all straight? Or was that the problem?
But yup, you got some good advice already here. If there's anything you can fix, fix it. If there's anything you put a stop to, put a stop to it. Ignore what you can't change.
Emotions are killers, but the highs usually do balance out the lows
Love lessons are never really learned, are they? Its like being lost in a half-familiar part of town. You remember taking that road once before, but can't remember if it turned out to be the right one ...
There's always money to be made when an economy is crashing and services are failing. You have some good ideas.
I have a friend in SA says load shedding is going critical, hours and hours every week. Here, National Grid encourages us to put in solar panels, link to the Grid, and they buy anything we don't use AND our houses run for free while the sun shines. In England. Why why why is Escom not doing that in a country with 300 days sunshine a year?
Nam - hmm, could be husband is so uninterested because he's been having it off with his secretary for years? Not as if his wife is so awful, after all, if she has a lover hot for her.
So if she waits until he asks for the divorce, she does do better out of it ... could be the answer.
No such thing as true effortless love. Best you can hope for is a few years of feeling happy and then after that it's all compromise because you want to hang on to the happy. Or its all over.
'Love' is quite a new concept. In trying to insist on it, we can throw away some good stuff just because it doesn't tick all the boxes. Those boxes only exist in the film industry or books.
Take the fun, and enjoy every minute. And hope to prove me wrong.
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sock puppets it is. They can have boxing matches.
Or was that the problem? 
could be the answer.
RE: Dont get mad... Get even
So far as your general comment (not your personal one) about getting even: the best advice is to make peace with your past so it doesn't mess with your present.Me, I make sock puppets when the person I want to make peace with isn't around to talk!