Go alone.....your son is in good hands.....say you are meeting friends....just lie...and have fun....a change of scenery and routine is the best life can offer......
The best option is for you to go to him......your ex sounds very unpredictable....and you will never be able to relax in a town with prying eyes.... ... Go to England.....have fun....you will be freer....you will be on his turf..so he will have to spoil you....
Crazy... ...."4 long weekends a year"....WTF....no relationship can sustain that... .. No man in that situation can be trusted.....a Man will always be a Man..... ... I really hope it works out into something much more real.....because reality is everyday.....
Veri.....i have to disagree with you......yes...we are all probably here because we are bored.....but friendships, of a sort...are found here....we might not be able to share a glass of wine together....but we share our thoughts, hopes and frustrations.....
Yes...you are right......we are Blogging in countries of peace and plenty. We conplain, get frustrated...but we have everything..... .... My thoughts go out to you and all those living in Hell and fear......
These LDRs...are tough.. ....if you love someone, you want to be with them, hold them, snuggle up to them....not on a temporary but permanent basis... Also, very hard to trust a man, so far away.....
RE: Two pennies worth
Fireman are known for their long hoses......helps to put the fire out.....