Swami, for us marriage is something sacred, not just a piece of paper though. But there are always ways out when things do not go right. However, we will try our best
Ashlander, Oregon is neighbor of California sis, we can meet anytime we can make time
Thank you all for your sharing. he stayed up all night to clear the misunderstanding and reach agreement. i know i was wrong in the ways i approached things and we failed to find harmonized ways to communicate clearly and gently too. We are good now. I feel more touched and firm about his love for me. Long distance relationship is hard but hope we will make it til the day we are together under the same roof
Anlee. I agree. But i have been thinking over last 10 years and still not able to make up my mind to get married yet. This time I just follow my feelings but the issue is that it keeps changing defending on how well we get along...
Thank you Cachuchi That's what i m worried too ziggy Mollybaby, my fiance is American but you are right, i guess it is not about nationality. We are talking about our issues now. I guess i woke him up with a request to rethink the marriage and he is not sleeping tonight to talk about it.... maybe it's because of the communication... Mimi i m going out soon. See you when i get home and hopefully you are awake.
Thank you Mollybaby, we passed the wedding planning, now we argue about future life together. less smiles, less happy moments, replaced with arguments, sadness, silence and confusion. he never mentioned about rethinking the marriage but i did 3 times. i dont know how to stabilize my feelings ...
Thanks guys. I want to learn Spanish not cos it is compulsory. It's for sure instead is optional. But it's better to learn the language not only for communicating with people in CA but also traveling to Spanish speaking countries. Not to mention that I might have more chances to practise it in CA. Gracias
@Marinivan, Mollybaby, Nonsmoker, Aaltarboy Thanks for your sharing Ashlander long time no see. what do you mean by mtncabingirl sis? Duromojon: i hope the forced trip turned out good
hey sis. after finishing posting the blog, you come back open it and enter the "edit blog" part, then post a pic, after that copy the pic link and paste in the blog, done.
Molly, yes you are right when we look in depth into individual cases but I am asking for opinions at general scale. Like some of my friends say that there is much race discrimination in Europe while it is more dynamic and acceptance in US and health care in Canada is better than US, etc.
@ MimiArt I m glad to see pic of you two together. you look gorgeous as a couple ;) me too. I would love to stay wherever my man is but i don't know where he is now so i m open to these options
@Robby: i was thinking of Europe but my friends say there is much discrimination there so i just rest on these 3. But if accidentally i crush into a European guy maybe my way will deviate lol
RE: Dear Anonymous......
Happy New Year sis