haha. i don't play so no fire can burn me down lol. i know we often think that men only flirt women when they receive some signals from them. but sometimes men might be lost in the translation of the signals. fortunately, i have some good male friends so they are kind enough to share some of their tricks lol
@DC99, that's is really a treat for the day it's great that your children are growing up and you are ready for a new start. Hope our next Valentine will be coupled
Yes true. The problem is also inside of me. I need to figure it out too but self-reflection is only part of the equation. I need outsiders' help too.
I want to learn to be understanding doesn't mean i m no longer me. I just want to be a better me as much as i can. But sure i can't change who i am especially to find a real match
Totally agree with you that location is just geography and i prefer living in my homecountry but for a happy family i m ok to take the challenges of relocation.
However, we have a belief that 30% of our lives is made of destiny that we cant have control over and i just let it be for that portion
@Knenagh. Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Yes, that might be an option. Here in Vietnam, most expats are either married or stay for a short time. They and travelers mainly look for NSA relations. Those who want to settle down here are often people who can not survive in their home countries or have many issues that they had to leave. You are right about issues with relocating to a foreign country but i believe i will be able to find a job to sustain myself financially though not as good as those in Vietnam. I hate being dependent on man. However, 1 biggest concern is cultural differences. I've got many cultural shocks with foreigners here already, not to mention abroad. I need to learn what are acceptable interesting topics for conversations, how to carry on long interesting ones, what to avoid, etc.. relations nowadays are so fragile that even a small mistake can destroy every good thing.
Hope that you will be kindly to help me understand the world better
I searched in Vietnamese but it doesn't help. I also consulted several doctors but no use. My Mom has stomachache too. I will try searching in English as you advised. Thanks again :)
Now we need to think of longer treatment for rheumatism. Her joints are dry and degraded. They hurt and can easily cause her troubles. I asked my friend to buy glucosamine from the States, i drink it too but my bones hurt so i ask Mom to stop taking them. But my friend said medicines often make disease worse then will cure later. Is that true for glacosamine too?
@Dreamcatcher, thank you, she is trying to move her leg and apply some hot special leaf though i still have to carry her. She is the strongest woman i've ever known. Hopefully she can make it so her day will be happy with family, friends and neighbours. Frankly speaking, i don't think i m good at writing, even my boss said i didnt know how to write good about myself and he would have skipped my application if i had not been introduced by a prestigous person. I think we don't need to be good at speaking things out but time and actions will show. A person talked and think very good about you and that is a gift. :)
Thank you! I used to write diary then someone read it to other people and laughed. I stopped for years then resumed with blogs a few years ago but then my friends advised me not to display my life stories to strangers as it is considered immature and unclassy. Then i stopped for years again. Now i don't care what others judge. It is rewarding enough to have a few friends to share like you rather than being a "cool strong woman" and becoming voiceless, hiding from the chances of meeting like-mind people. Thanks for sharing :)
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haha. i don't play so no fire can burn me down lol. i know we often think that men only flirt women when they receive some signals from them. but sometimes men might be lost in the translation of the signals. fortunately, i have some good male friends so they are kind enough to share some of their tricks lol