If that is the case then straight into the air conditioning fans because after the air filter because they won't have upgraded to reverse cycle, you'll get a better coverage than with the blower. :)
Gidday Blue, maybe putting it on social media would be beneficial because then another of your family members, not as emotionally involved, might step in and make an opening as a mediator, and get the two of you talking again. All the sympathy, ice cream and good intentions, in here, are not improving the broken communication that is causing you stress in this situation. As for him changing, how long did the sweetness last for after you fist connected? If it was for the first 3 to 6 months then it was probably him being on his best and sweetest behavior till he felt secure that your commitment to making the relationship work, would not faulter if he started to revert back to his comfort place of not really having to put in that much energy to the little things that you so enjoy and makes your heart skip a little from the love you feel when it does happen. It is not unusual for that kind of behavior in many new relationships and can come from both men and women. Unfortunately, there is always one who is left questioning, as you put it, "And yeah I get that guys are not mind readers and i try to tell him what i want. But, he just makes me guilty. Like its wrong for me to want something. sigh" and feeling insecure in a lot of ways because the expectation was founded on their first behavior when the relationship was new and not the current one now that the true self has taken back up residency. If you find yourself regularly having to try to do things to please him and having feelings of inadequacies within yourself when they aren't appreciated then I would be evaluating your position in the relationship and just how it is benefiting you and if it is equal to how it benefits him because if it isn't, then there is something seriously wrong in how you are being treated. Partners should be equal and see each other as such and act accordingly. It is just how I read what you are saying. Hope it helps. :) <3
Any energy that is directed with intent, either spoken or through ritual, has a rebound effect. Some would call this magik or magic depending on where you are from. Everything in this existence is made up of energy and when two energy forces meet, there is always a reaction, some small, some large. So if someone believes in their heart of hearts that the energy being directed at them will have profound effects, regardless of whether they know directly, that that energy has been put forward, then they will succumb in a greater way to that energy than someone without that belief would. I don't know if I would call it magic or magik but it is as good a word as any to explain the effects or projected energy from one person to another or thing. That said, can spell casting be real, yes as it is just a ritual to forward a particular energy with greater force than just speaking it alone though that to can have effects on people. Is continuously telling someone that they are no good and useless and getting into their physic in a way that they start to believe you and get depressed and then start to live or associate themselves with your projection any different than casting a spell? I think not as it is still one person projecting towards another. In the same way a decent councilor can project positive vibes onto a person who needs uplifting so that they can life a happier and healthier life. That is also, for want of a better name, casting a spell. It is all about energy projection and the results of that projection that makes it all very real. There are a lot of names for it and spell casting is just one of them. My thoughts anyway. :)
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RE: Dying wishes.
though the blower will give a greater concentration to a select few if you really want them to experience that full grit sensation.