"How can one find a self, when there is no self. "
Yes, there are cases were a person have no Self.....at least I have met one.
A friend in Finland told me, that there was a Lady, that was originally from Somalia and that she had some problems....and she ask me, if I could fix that Lady, as she knew, that I have healing hands.
So I met with that Lady and I start from the neck as I always do......and she was very quickly getting her self into the situation, that she could see inside her body by her self.
So I start to check her head first and when I ask her, if she can see a cube in the middle of her head, but to my surprise she had no cube there at all......so I ask her how she feel and think about her self.......her answer was very clear," I have whole my life felt, that I have no self"
So I build for her a cube and placed it in her head......and when she got it in, she knew immediately, that she had got an Identity.
She had other problems too, that I could fix only in Antigua, so she came later to Antigua, but that is an other story already.
It is of course a Spiritual cube and we everybody normally have that cube.....everybody have a different size,and a string from it, that is connected inside the head......there are more people, that don't have it in the right place and very often it hang outside the head, so when you heal it, you have to put it back, where it should be.
There was also a very special situation with the Sister of my Indonesian ex.....her cube had split into many many peaces......she was very deeply religious and as a Muslim, she prayed every day 5 times......and her believing was, that Allah was the only existing God.......but when I but all the pieces back together and it was a normal cub, she later told my ex, that after that, she realize, that her God was not the only one and she accepted other religions too.......she start to see, all from reality standpoint.
There are some other cubs in the body too, but the cube in the head is containing our self, no doubt about that.......and there has been no difference, in what have happen to everybody, to who I have put back that cube to the right place......it is clearly making you feeling peaceful, you can see everything more clearly and you can focus better on your own life.
Now to be honest, even I know, that some people here are not going to like at all what I am going to say.......the fact is, that what ever big problems we face or chock situation, that we can not really handle, it is disturbing the cube in the head and moving it out from the right place......and really hard life, can move it out from the head......and it is because we start to act differently from what we are as our self.
The very same is with Religions, when we give the power to a God to direct our life, it means, that we give more or less up our power, that is in our self and it disturb the cube and move it out of its own place and like in the sister of my ex, it can split the cube into many pieces.
So yes, we should everybody have that cube, but if we of some reason don't have it, then we can not feel the identity of our self.....there is something more to it, but I think this is already enough hard to accept, for everyone, who don't know enough about Spiritual.
This is everything else than easy to face......in my mind, it is for sure a divorce, as that is enough to show, that you can never trust that person anymore
But when you have already built a close relationship with the child, you can not blame the child for it.......and somehow the contact to the child has to be there.
you are right and wrong about looking in the mirror......yes, your body tell you only little about your age, but not more........still there is something interesting and that is your eyes, they tell exactly the the situation of your self.....they tell you if you are happy or not....when you are angry and when in peace.....and also if you are sick or not.....I start to check peoples eyes already from when I was teenager and I can check easily in the mirror my self, from my eyes, what is my situation, when ever I want.
Everybody need nurses somewhere in the life.....the same with doctors......but I said to one doctor some years ago, that " I don't want to see you again".....and last year, I needed him again and the first thing he said to me was, "so you are here again, even you did not want to see me".......then we laughed both, as it was all about a joke
You left transportation to the job and back home out of your calculation
That is why we need to retire, then you learn to know your self better.....and when you are wandering into your past, you can better see, that you played more made personalities, than what is your real.
But the biggest step to know the very real self is, if you are able to touch your Soul, as most of your life, you just build up am matrix self......but that is then a little wider subject.
I had a chance to retire when I was about 45 and adding to that, that I have not had a TV for about 15 years, so there was no other choice available, than to start to dig into your self......but to be honest, still I find some surprises about who I am
In Finland it is always covered......close one can see the dead if they want, some days before.....but when my Father and Mother died, I did not want to see them as dead, I wanted to remember them as when they was alive.
"Real estate developers like Mr. Trump and Mr. Kushner sometimes do large, all-cash deals, including with people outside the United States, any of which can prompt anti-money laundering reviews. The red flags raised by employees do not necessarily mean the transactions were improper. Banks sometimes opt not to file suspicious activity reports if they conclude their employees’ concerns are unwarranted."
As an outsider......and what happen inside USA is not affecting so much my own life.....but what he has done internationally, is in my interest......and I love the real shake up, on so many things, that so many Countries have use for they very own benefit.....the presidents from before have just let it slide, to keep a fake peace, that can not hold in the future...... and without the shake, it had built for sure a real hug bubble, that when it had burst, it had been for sure the biggest disaster.
"They'll forgive his means so long as he maintains the image of fighting for America. Which he does. I won't join the chorus of quislings singing his praises from abroad because overall he's bad for every other country, but if I was American I'd vote for him."
Not far from my way of thinking
And specially, to get a work, when not had it in years, but you to look trough the fingers, when judging Trump.
I had a gun with me from Finland, bought it from the black market.....but I destroyed it very soon when in Antigua......here do not many have a gun at home and it work such a well.
That Lady said to me after it had opened to her, that she had always lived a material life and now everything is different.....she ask what should she do.....now she know, that it was good for her.
I remember long time ago, when we had a big confrontation with Namaron here on CS....and one day he told, that he was like locked into his room, he could not open the door, it was like locked....and there he was siting and after some more time, the dor opened by it self. To be honest, I knew why it happened, but I did not come out with it, as then he had made me even a bigger fool.
if it is in fact the truth, what you are coming up with.....then you can tank your self, for making me a fool, when I talk about Spiritual.....you are not the first one to get something as a reminder from the non ordinary World, when confronting me......here is a Lady on CS, that don't want to be identified, but who have been already over 4 month in contact with me and following everything I do here on CS.......she got a real chock opening and she see now Souls of her dead family members and Spirits around her self all the time and she has got some special spiritual affections too.....every new thing ,that is coming in, she want to know what is it and what to do with it.
On many blogs here, are very different opinions and it looks like many US people, don't know at all what is going on in other part of the World.....so when somebody from outside live in a country with an average higher level of standards and can see from outside, what is wrong in USA, then there are very hot outcries, that they don't know anything about USA..... Like I said before, USA is from the lowest to the highest, but in average it make it lower than a lot of other countries......but you can know it only, if you look it from outside and from countries, that are average on a higher level.
you are close to the truth, as a lot of foreigners, that have after education stay in USA, have been behind the USA success in many things......Elon Musk is a very visible example......as I remember he is born in South Africa.
To be honest, I don't know how the comment here that is similar to what in my blog came in here It is a mistake, as I was first writing it here as a comment, but realize, that it is coming to much information in it, so I decided to write forward here and move it then to the Blog.....but of some reason , what I write here, got in a a comment........perhaps some stupid move,as I'm not so good still with computers
Finnish people are in fact very, very different....perhaps little similar to Japanese people, they talk little and when they talk, it is to the point......and they don't give up either, what was seen in the war with Russia.....the day the peace come and the soldiers from both side came over the line to talk with each other, the Russian soldiers ask from the Finns, where is the rest of your Soldiers, as there was only few Finns showing up.....and when the answer was, that we are all here, the Russians was more than surprised, that their 20 times more Soldiers had been bushed back , every time they attacked again and again to broke trough the Finnish lines.
The an other fact is, that Finland is in many things, before the time, like a forgoer and much because of that, most Finns think, that they are the best in the World......in fact a very dangerous way of thinking, as you box your self in some way and can not anymore see, the positive in other places.
Finland was the second country in the world, to give Women the right to vote, as equality was and is one of the corner stones in the Finnish society......soon after the war, a very strong Feminist movement took roots also.
Finland was in 1970:s and 1980:s perhaps the best Country in the World......the social security and healthcare was completely free for everybody and it worked perfectly....everybody was taken care of, from the smallest one to the oldest one.
But they still had in their mind, that they can make it better.....but the fact is, that there is always a point, where you should not go further, as it start to make it one sided and narrow, where only one agenda get the benefit.
It start in healthcare, when lazy people find out, that the Doctors give easily a 1 week out from work and when the healthcare was free, so people start to use it more and more and finally they had to put a fee for getting to the Doctor, to stop it.
Then the social security produced more and more people, that realize, that they got enough money for a such a good life and they start to fill up the bingo halls....with a mind why should I work.......and that is a lot going on in these days.......so they had to put in a new system, that everyone, who get social benefits, has to put in every week some papers in, for to try to get a work.......and the situation in Finland is now, that the companies need an awful amount of workers, but nobody show up and they are pushing for to get workers from outside Finland......in the construction companies, most of the workers are from Estonia......so the to good social system produced a lot of people, that don't want to work and many of them are the young generation, that prefer to surfing on Internet.
All the money needed to keep it up and give the lazy people what they want are put on the work force.....and they take the responsibility, the companies are then using them to the limit......so all went to far and it has also bring in already a deep hate from many hard workers against people, who are not working.
Then about Equality.....it lost its real meaning and it turned to "be the same". It worked well first, women got the rightful place in the society, the male domination stop more and more to exist.....but then to be the same start to dominate and with the time women start to act more men than men by them self......last findings are telling, that the police is of the opinion, that in family
the school system in Finland, where the Teacher have no rights and the students can do almost what ever they want is making the younger generation real bad workers.....my friend that had a company, ended his whole business and when I ask why, he said, that it is impossible to get anymore workers that take responsibility and that the most important, what they want to know, when they come for a job is, how much free time they can get and if he has something that is late and has to be done for next day, the workers don't care, they are leaving exactly 16.00.......so all what I know, companies don't want young workers, they prefer older one and then bush all out of them,as they take responsibility and are ready to do over work, what again make a problem, as many are burnt out from it.
So honestly, the school system don't prepare children for responsibility.....so it is one reason and of course the young generation, have to blame them self also for unemployment.
that is not the truth, the best one is horrible expensive for outsiders.....I put US$ 1.2 million into my children's education and it was 15 years ago.....now it could be douple amount.
USA is little complicated, when it has to do with the whole education system......there is from such a low, up to the very top and when they make the judging in these World checking, they put all together......but I know for sure, that USA has real top colleges and Universities......so it is from what stand point, you start to pick up the information.
If we look at Finland, yes, the average level is high, but the University education is very complicated there, for example, you can not take from the side any other subjects, you are completely blocked from it......if you educate your self in Biology, you can not take anything from Chemistry, all has to be Biology.....and you can only take subjects what is for one grade. In USA you can take what ever subjects here and there, no matter, they are different and you can also take from different grades......so it is very flexible system.....like my Son has in 5 different subjects a degree, but still he took other subjects, like in Law, even he did not make a degree in it, but it helped him with his patents, as he can still prepare them by him self, when a real lawyer but it in the end together.
I really like the US system, as you can get out from it exactly what you want by your self.
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RE: Do you know you?
Usha,"How can one find a self, when there is no self. "
Yes, there are cases were a person have no Self.....at least I have met one.
A friend in Finland told me, that there was a Lady, that was originally from Somalia and that she had some problems....and she ask me, if I could fix that Lady, as she knew, that I have healing hands.
So I met with that Lady and I start from the neck as I always do......and she was very quickly getting her self into the situation, that she could see inside her body by her self.
So I start to check her head first and when I ask her, if she can see a cube in the middle of her head, but to my surprise she had no cube there at all......so I ask her how she feel and think about her self.......her answer was very clear," I have whole my life felt, that I have no self"
So I build for her a cube and placed it in her head......and when she got it in, she knew immediately, that she had got an Identity.
She had other problems too, that I could fix only in Antigua, so she came later to Antigua, but that is an other story already.
It is of course a Spiritual cube and we everybody normally have that cube.....everybody have a different size,and a string from it, that is connected inside the head......there are more people, that don't have it in the right place and very often it hang outside the head, so when you heal it, you have to put it back, where it should be.
There was also a very special situation with the Sister of my Indonesian ex.....her cube had split into many many peaces......she was very deeply religious and as a Muslim, she prayed every day 5 times......and her believing was, that Allah was the only existing God.......but when I but all the pieces back together and it was a normal cub, she later told my ex, that after that, she realize, that her God was not the only one and she accepted other religions too.......she start to see, all from reality standpoint.
There are some other cubs in the body too, but the cube in the head is containing our self, no doubt about that.......and there has been no difference, in what have happen to everybody, to who I have put back that cube to the right place......it is clearly making you feeling peaceful, you can see everything more clearly and you can focus better on your own life.
Now to be honest, even I know, that some people here are not going to like at all what I am going to say.......the fact is, that what ever big problems we face or chock situation, that we can not really handle, it is disturbing the cube in the head and moving it out from the right place......and really hard life, can move it out from the head......and it is because we start to act differently from what we are as our self.
The very same is with Religions, when we give the power to a God to direct our life, it means, that we give more or less up our power, that is in our self and it disturb the cube and move it out of its own place and like in the sister of my ex, it can split the cube into many pieces.
So yes, we should everybody have that cube, but if we of some reason don't have it, then we can not feel the identity of our self.....there is something more to it, but I think this is already enough hard to accept, for everyone, who don't know enough about Spiritual.