I wrote this because I was so tired of men saying they weren't sure about having kids.
I have kids. And, I'm done. So when and if I ask a man if he wants children, he states "well, if I don't have any I'd be okay." I'm not asking what he would be okay with, I'm asking if he ever wants them. What's so hard about that question?
If he truly wants kids even 10 years down the road...then I'm not the one for him and my idea of long term and his time to have kids - doesn't quite work, does it?
So my asking this important question is not to ask to see if he wants kids with me...but, to give me and idea if I'm going to be a thorn in his plans. God forbid I do that and jeapordize my own happiness with a short term relationship!
Anyway - I do disclose this. Men don't like it. So I ask my questions to get the answers and assess if it's going to work or not...
Look, I was just making a comment to the blogs and emails I read and sometimes receive that massacre the English language. There are so many blogs out there I have read, where I have seen the typos and grammatical errors - but, I am able to understand what the person is trying to relay. The other times, I really have no idea what someone is saying. It might as well be another language because phonetically, it's not working either. Typos are simple misktakes, I know this. Grammatical errors alright - you're forgiven. Clarity? How about that? Can I have a clear understanding of what you are saying? I myself, am a perfectionist at heart - so, when I write, I will try to make sure that what I am saying is as clear as possible. This doesn't make me bored. Sorry. It just makes me a lover of words.
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Truth Serum.
I wrote this because I was so tired of men saying they weren't sure about having kids.I have kids. And, I'm done. So when and if I ask a man if he wants children, he states "well, if I don't have any I'd be okay." I'm not asking what he would be okay with, I'm asking if he ever wants them. What's so hard about that question?
If he truly wants kids even 10 years down the road...then I'm not the one for him and my idea of long term and his time to have kids - doesn't quite work, does it?
So my asking this important question is not to ask to see if he wants kids with me...but, to give me and idea if I'm going to be a thorn in his plans. God forbid I do that and jeapordize my own happiness with a short term relationship!
Anyway - I do disclose this. Men don't like it. So I ask my questions to get the answers and assess if it's going to work or not...
Get it?